My name Is Kittzen, i have a fresh personalty and i never get old on you. i enjoy to have fun and i will love to help you with your life. got any questions for me just ask and i will answer. i have no problem being myself and i love to do anything crazzy and wild but always have time to be serious. don't worry I'll do my best to help you and i will never try to let anyone down. think what you want about me but that doesn't always make you right.don't let these pretty pink words fool yaa, i am no girly girl!
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okay I liked this boy for a long time and he finally told me he liked me . Then a month later he says he likes another girl but I still really like him. but i dont know if he likes me anymore because he is three yrs. older than me but he still flirts with me. What should I do? (link)
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with this one i say you should be up frount with him and tell him that you still like him and ask him if he still likes you. there is no other way to do it one this one that to come straigh out and ask but your timing has to be just right. try asking him when you two are deep in conversation and you would want tp dp this face to face and not texting or anything like that. so you can see his face and know just how long it took him to think about it.
also you can see his emontions when he awnster so he's not just playing you.
Have a good chat,
Kittzen
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okay so my one of my best friends is really emo. and my other friends are really preppy and they hate her. they always tell me not to be her friend, but i can't just stop being her friend just because she's emo. so what should i do?? Help!! (link)
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if you want to be her friend than be her friend don't stop just because they tell you to but if you don't want to be her friend than don't be her friend. or maybe you don't want to be your preppy girls friend. find your grounds and see where you stand.
also you are so righ by not doing what they tell you just because they tell you to do it.
Always yours,
Kittzen
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I have a friend that is always breaking up then BEGGING to be my friend agian. should I stop her for good or just live with it and stick it out? (link)
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well do you like her as your friend or do you just want her gone? listen to me if you don't like her than stop letting her be your friend again. but if you like her just put up with it and talk to her about it.
hope you two can be friends,
KIttzen
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I am 19 turning 20 this year and my bf just turned 23 yesterday... my only problem with the relationship is that nobody respects it except his family. I live with my grandparents and I just came back from boarding school last year, anyway this is the first time they see me with a boyfriend. They say that they dont like him because they have a strange feeling and im too accomidating. I dont understand this because i usually call the shots in the relationship and i have tried to look at the relationship in a objective view. I see a little bit of what they are talking about but to me it seems to be because of our backgrounds... he used to be poor and when i went to live with my grandparents while i was young, i lived a privledged lifestyle. anyway, i really want to know how i can somehow get them to at least respect my relationship by not setting me up with other guys while im dating him and they keep saying that we will never last and purposely fighting with me anytime that i want to see him cause they know i hate conflict.We have talked about marriage and such and decided that if we are still dating next year then we would consider getting engaged then and married after I get my bacchelors. Grandma said that she will not go to the wedding and she doesnt want to know if we get engaged. I dont want to stop talking to her but she is controlling my life and disregarding any action i take as an adult. please tell me any words of wisdom that you might have. any... (btw... my grandpa loved him until he had a chat with grandma and now he doesnt talk on the subject and my bf is very respectful and follows all of thier rules even though they change them weekly) (link)
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Well it does seen to me that you have to figure out the onflict. Sit your grandparents down and ask them why they don't like this guy tell them you have a lot of fun with him and you love him and you don't know what they mean here and what they don't like about him. if they won't awnster the question tell them that if they don't tell you what's wrong you'll continue dating him and never know the feeling they have towards him so you can tell them that it's not true or other things like that also tell them your point of view make them listen to you.
it's not that hard when everone is clam and happy for you and them to talk so they can relive so of that stress of rising temsion thay have agasnt him.
hope you the best,
Kittzen
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Ok so I like 2 guys. Lets call them Chris and Jamie.
Anyways they both play soccer. And they are having a game on Friday and Chris goes to my school. and Jamie goes to a different school. so they are both playing on friday and the problem is im not going to be there at friday at ALL because im going away to the beach because of my band class. it sucks i dont even want to go. but i have to. the thing is if i go there i dont even know who i want to win. i want to go. because i havent ever hung out with Jamie before!!!! but what about chris. this is like my dream come true!!!!!!!!!!! but i have seen chris everyday at school but he doesnt seem that interested. and jamie goes to my church but not the same time so i never get to see him. he just called me on the phone right now and i really dont know how to call him back and tell him all of this?? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please i promise i will give you a five even if you just answer this is really important to me i just really need advice NOW or NEVER!!!! i really like them BOTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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hey kittzen here,
Listen you like both guys righ, so who are you going to see more and who is more boyfriend material? why don't you try dateing one and if it dosn't work out date the other one. the guy you got on the phone right now what are you going to say to him, say i am so sorry for missing your game i know this guy on the other team that is like a best friend, and i have no clue who i want to win.
that may be half a lie half the truth but that will tie you over till you figure out witch one you want to date frist. keep in mind the onter guy dosn't have to know you ever dated this guy. and maybe if you don't like the guy your dateing move on to the next one just make sure you don't lose the connection with the other one while you date one of them.
best of luck,
Kittzen,
P.s you can leave it up to them who you dat just see who wins at the game and that winner just won the frist date with you.
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i have a problem. im the oldest, and of three younger girl sib. and my second sister always gets all the attention from the other ones. i feel left out. and shes like my best friend. so everytime i try to have fun i cant because shes allways the center of attention. even though they are supposed to be looking up at me not her. ehmygawsh. :( what should i do about this? (link)
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hey, look sister arn't sospote to compete to be dady's favirte and their not sosposeted to compet to be the center of attention around each other.
here's what you have to do since life ain't made that way, you need to flatter them with ideas and talk to them more than she does understand their problems and try to help them out. give good advice to them and just be their best friend as well as hers.
you don't want to push them to liking you more just let them come to you themselves.
best luck beging sister number one,
Kittzen
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My friend and I like the same guy but he likes me more should I be happy or should I forget about him? (link)
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well let's see do you want to hurt your friend and date him or does your friend want to do the same thing and hurt you by dateing him?
i say you forget about unless your friend wants to hurt you and date him. explan to your friend that you don't want to hurt her if he dates you and you don't want ot be hurt if she dates him. if she dosn't understand explain it to her. but if she understands and wants to hurt you go all out and get him. but remember if you get hurt or she gets hurt your wasting your relationship over a guy that will probably dump you or her and leave you both for someone eles.
don't lose your friend over him,
Kittzen
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I have a friend who is married for 5 years and having an affair. She confided in me and I as a friend listened....however the affair got way out of hand and I told her to stop it would be the best for everybody. She got mad after I told her that i told my husband. She in turn then started using me as an alibi and her scapegoat. So now she has turned the whole situation around and is telling her husband that it is me having the affair. I hate her ..so my husband sent some info to her husband annonymously...and she still turned everything around and is blaming me. My husband and i know the truth but there is no getting through to her husband because she is so manipulating. What do i do know? (link)
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I say,
you have to be just as bad as her turn her words around till you have her tell him the truth right in forunt of his face. or you can catch them in the act and take a picture or catch it on a recorded tape anything of that sort.
hope you catch her,
Kittzen
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Is there a way to tell if you have PMS without going to see a doctor?? I always get angry about the stupidest things right before my period. Someone could go buy me something I've always wanted and I'll get really mad. I'm not sure if it's PMS or if I just get angry because I know my period is coming... since I know my cycle now... please help me!! (link)
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Kittzen talking,
listen i think your mad cause you know it's comming and i can tell you hate just like me but you have to find a deal with yourself in your life. try diffent products that make it easier on you. get clam try telling your self it's going to happen on way or another.
i tell you if you can't find balance and you think you have and it keeps comming than your PMSing and you should see a doctors, i have no clue how to get ride of it on your own.
Hope you can find balance,
Kittzen
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I'm a thirteen year old girl and in eighth grade. I like myself, and I have lots of friends. (I even work out and try to eat right to make myself feel good.) But sometimes I get really low self-esteem, and I get red in the face or quiet when I'm around people, even ones that I like! I have some trouble talking to people, and sometimes they take this as hostility. (I speak flatly and have a hard time laughing) A few days ago, a girl thought that I didn't like her just because I said something that sounded mean, but I didn't mean it that way, and I really think that this girl is awesome!!!
How can I open up to people, be more friendly, and feel better about myself? (link)
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Kittzen ready to help,
Listen i know what your going throu i went through the same thing till my ex dumped me after three months. you need to come out of your bubble you need to relize that not everone's going to like you. to do this try just beging your self the thoughts that cross your mind just say them if their not tattaly mean and harsh. and if your friend takes it that your beging mean just explane to her she'll understand.
try just beging yourself and not caring waht other people think about you i know it's hard but you just got to do it.
Best wishes on your problem,
Kittzen
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hi there,
okay well..iv'e had this guy friend. "bestfriend" for about two years now, and he's great. He's actually more then great he's the best! he makes me laugh like no one else, im comfortable around him, and we just get eachother. we've never been more then "bestfriends" even though it always ran through my mind & some people would request it. i don't think nor do i believe there's anyone else out there that can make me happier then him. PROBLEMS.. hah number ONE he says he "hates me" i guess it goes with his mean humor i know he doesnt mean it. and he says it a lot. i know he's joking, we used to fight a lot about this "joking" that would upset me because it would go to far.. anyways i feel like when he says he hates me its like his code, like he's covering up for i love you because were "bestfriends"..problem TW0! were going to different highschools next yr because i moved and im afraid im gonna lose the one person who makes me feel best.. i dont know what to do, he's not one to let go ..even though im not sure how he feels. sorry if this was confusing, i just need help ASAP :( thanks! (link)
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Hey, it's kittzen,
Listen i think your right you may lose him, but if you tell him how you feel about him you may push him anyway pluse if he feels t he same than the long distance relationship will kill. what you need to do is simply you need to visit, chat, text, email, and even hang out. don't lose your special friend just because your far away and than when you move back or get older and con be around him more than if you still feel the same tell than he will know than your around if he wants you or feels the same.
Best of luck,
Kittzen
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I just found out my grandfather will be passing away soon. I cant think of any songs to listen to about losing someone special like he is. any ideas?
thanks (link)
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Kittzen's talking,
Gewww... I am so sorry, if i lost my pap that would be murder on me. what you need to do instead of listing ot songs os spend as much time with him as possible. also if you want a song what is his favirote type of music and let him pick it out that way it's even more special to you.
So Sorry,
Kittzen
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you see, my mom, she just had another child like august of last year. now, she thinks she might be pregnant again, but she took a pregnancy test, and it came out positive. she also went to a doctor, but they said she wasnt pregnant. but she swears she felt something move inside of her, and her stomach really seems to be getting bigger. is she really pregnant? if not, what else could it be? if it helps, shes 49 years old right now . (link)
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Kittzen's talking,
i can't tell you if she's pregant or not, what i beleve she should do is go to a different doctor and see if he tells her the same thing. also she should take another test. she might be going throug a false pregencey you never know. she should wait and see if her period comes too. all signs will tell her if she is if it is a false pregencey.
Best wishes,
Kittzen
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i am always so bored that i want to die, it makes me so angry and frustrated and sad. all i do is work and then i don't know what to do with myself. i try to go with some of my hobbies like painting or photography or watch tv or read books but i just don't feel like doing anything at all ever...i want to fucking kill myself. and my boyfriend feels like the same way. i just want to die. so does he. what the hell is wrong. help. (link)
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Kittzen here,
Listen the other day i was borad to tears it's a cycle, what you need to do is find something to take up your time, what you need to do is simple go out with friends make a sechule of everthing your going to do today and do also plan a fun day, and tell your boyfriend to do the same.
Hang out with him, find a new hoddy and just find something that takes up all your time and you don't miss it. for me it's writing my books and this betwin this i never want to leave my own house in fact i get made when i do.
Just find something new to do,
Kittzen
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How do i drive off a needy boy without being a bitch????
~tu mitad mejor! (link)
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Dear tu mitad mejor,
Second person that acult told me what to call you people. Kitten's talking, well hear it is a needy boy is always an easy catch. so try hooking him up with a needy friend or just sit him down and tell him you are not intrested in him, but do it nicely tell him you just want to be friends.
but what would really tell him and you wouldn't have to say a world, just get a boy friend and bring him around for the other boy to see. indroce them be nice.
hope you lose him,
Kittzen
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I'm really not sure what is the cause of it. I took a pregnancy test on July 1st. It said that I was not pregnant. If I was pregnant I would already be a month pregnant so that can't be it or it would have showed up already. Last month my perid started on May 24th. This month it's late like alot. I'm getting signs that it will start but it just isn't yet. Im going to take another test in a few days. Stress could be the cause of this because last month for about a week and a half I worked outside in dead heat. So that could be the reason. Not to mention the day my graduation I was a little nervous and my first gyno visit was last month. The gyno would have also probably noticed if I was pregnant. My bf and I are always extrememly careful and we use a condom. We had run out of them but we didn't do anything that would have gotten me pregnant and again we were very careful during anything sexual. Any advice on what to do or whats causing this would be very helpful. Thanks! (link)
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Kittzen Says,
You have be very dehydrated since yo worked out in the hot sun. try drinking water and visit a doctor as soon as possible, you might not think your pregant but there might be something that is makeing you test nonpossitive.
Again i say visit a doctor that your best guess,
kittzen
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Hi, i need some advice please. I have small eyes and huge lips, which is NOT a good combination. Is there any way I can make my eyes look bigger and my lips look smaller? (link)
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Kitten to the rescue,
what you need to do is use eyelinner and alot of it. not balck but something that looks nice on you then, you just need to put on a tiny bit of lipstick not alot you need to show off your eyes not your lips.
Or you could get a hair cut so your eyes will be covered or anyhting along those lines,
hope you the best with that,
Kittzen
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ok this isnt really a "question" i just need some suggestions. my bf and i can get very flirtatious at times and last night he said he hated dancing/dances ect. and to me tat is basically sac-religious, silly i know but dancing is like my life. anyways i told him tat was against the law and he had broken that law so he must b "punished" lol now normally it wouldnt b very hard for me to tink of someting fun to do but i have sort of run out of ideas. so if u have any ideas on wat i could do/make him do tat would b fun for both of us it would b great.thanks
~*lis*~ (link)
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Hey Lis,
Kitten talking, you know you the frist person i talked to that acultly had something i could call them on here. any way try just starting out slow, invite him over your house for dinner and than after it turn on some slow music and have him just fool around dace with you.
Than move up the steps go to a small party dance with him a little there. than a biger one till he can dace at a huge dance ball and not be afrid. and if it's that he can't dace you can take danceingclasses together or you could take them and than teach him.
whatever works, have fun dancing,
Kittzen
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I know this ex-colleague of mine but not really that close to him. I think i have a crush on him but i dont really know if he likes me at all.
He's confident, witty and a workaholic.
However, he gets shy/uncomfortable, when i ask him simple personal questions for eg: Do you go for swimming. I think he has a problem of talking about himself to new people or just not that friendly.
So one day, i gave him some sweets via his secretary (i didnt really know him that well at that time in office) and he was quite startled and stared at me and waited for me to say something when i bumped at him at the doorway.
He had those puppy eyes..but didnt say word!.
I pretended not to appear interested in him becos i was too shy.!
Later, i sent him email and was able to chat with him about work..and he responded quite well except that when i asked him for lunch, he just disappeared and dint reply yes/no.,,which was kind of weird.He could have said no.
I managed to obtain his cellphone and he replies all my sms except the ones on personal questions.
So how do i even talk to him tru the phone as a friend, if he's that shy since i dont really see him anymore in office?
How do i get him to even talk to me like a normal friend?
Would appreciate your advice.
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Kittzen helping,
Listen i know it seems like he's shy, but its not just that it seems to me like he really likes you. if's just way to shy to give love a shot. what you need to do is get to his best friend, watch them both see how he respons to a one on one friend to friend guy on guy thing than you try to do the same with him.
Also try catching a late work assissment with him, like maybe just an assissment where you both are working on it and than you order a pizza and sit down together. this might bring out his calm side and also it migh tell you if he likes you to or if he just wants to be friends.
Try these they may help you or you migh in the process of tring them find you own way to get this guy to talk to you.
let me know how it goes,
Kittzen
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me and my boyfriend live in different states
im still young and i know everyone is probably like youre an idiot and its not worth it
but if you really love someone, everything is worth it.
but idk lately. the past couple of days he does realllly seem like he cares cause i got sad and he started crying on the phone and i felt bad and stuff and like he always spills his heart out for me
but then today i got online and he earesed his heroes part (it was a cute paragraph about me) and in his intersesnt he put my baby (me) and then some other girls name an im like okk.. and then the girl was infront of me on his top and i like questioned him about it and he said dont worry were just really good friends i promise.
and he has this blog that like you answer questions and she did it and it said she has a crush on him.. and another blog where you put your name and he will tell you honest thing about you and he said all i can say is your perfect. and he commented most of her pictures and kept saying shes cute
i really dont know what to do becuase he tells me he loves me and we talking on the phone from like 12 at night to 5 in the morning every day and like hes perfect when it comes to us
but i odnt know what to think about that girl and everything..
i need help! (link)
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Kittzen says,
Listen to me it dosn't sound like he likes you anymore, he's getting to the point where if i can't see your face you don't matter but he wants to keep you around. if you dumm you'll say with, this girl he has on his myspace and all that it looks like shes in your spot.
i don't know what to tell you but he he wants his cake and eat it too, in fact it seems like he wants two cakes. if he loves you and you chose to stay just try to close your heart up a bit because he going to leave you for her if he hadn't already.
i sorry but with this advice your gooing to get hurt.
Sorry,
Kittzen
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