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friend who lies about everything
I have a friend who is married for 5 years and having an affair. She confided in me and I as a friend listened....however the affair got way out of hand and I told her to stop it would be the best for everybody. She got mad after I told her that i told my husband. She in turn then started using me as an alibi and her scapegoat. So now she has turned the whole situation around and is telling her husband that it is me having the affair. I hate her ..so my husband sent some info to her husband annonymously...and she still turned everything around and is blaming me. My husband and i know the truth but there is no getting through to her husband because she is so manipulating. What do i do know?
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This isn't your problem. This also isn't what I would call a friend. She took advantage of you without your permission by using you as an alibi. I would have stopped being friends with her after that. Break off your relationship with this couple. You and your husband have no obligation to convince her husband of the truth. You also shouldn't have told your husband anyway, because you betrayed her trust by doing so. Your friendship is over. It doesn't matter what she tells her husband about you and you shouldn't care. Again, it's their problem not yours. Just tell them you aren't going to be friends with them any more and then never speak to them again. Her husband will find out on his own what type of person his wife is eventually.
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I say,
you have to be just as bad as her turn her words around till you have her tell him the truth right in forunt of his face. or you can catch them in the act and take a picture or catch it on a recorded tape anything of that sort.
hope you catch her,
Kittzen
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