solidadvice4teens answered Friday July 4 2008, 10:32 pm: Try to understand what he likes about you. It's not such a bad thing that he does. It's better than being hated. He probably has no experience around girls and doesn't know when to back off or give a person space.
He just wants to be accepted, loved and acknowledged by you. He just doesn't know where the line is and when to back off when a person shows they aren't interested. Don't hate him for it as he may be a great friend or ally later on. You have to take that into consideration. Do it tactfully or come across as a bitch no matter what.
All you need to do is Tell him "I appreciate your interest in me but I'm not romantically interested in you. In time we may be friends but for now I need my space."
Tell him that you know he will find the right person one day but that person just isn't me. " You should also go the extra mile and do him a favor. Tell him what not to do when trying to attract a girl and how his clinging on to someone who isn't responding to it can make them think negatively of him.
Maybe if you are tactful and point out that this isn't the way to behave with girls he likes especially if they don't seem interested he'll learn an important lesson. Then perhaps you having told him the truth will wind up in him finding the right match. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
Kittzen answered Friday July 4 2008, 10:07 pm: Dear tu mitad mejor,
Second person that acult told me what to call you people. Kitten's talking, well hear it is a needy boy is always an easy catch. so try hooking him up with a needy friend or just sit him down and tell him you are not intrested in him, but do it nicely tell him you just want to be friends.
but what would really tell him and you wouldn't have to say a world, just get a boy friend and bring him around for the other boy to see. indroce them be nice.
hope you lose him,
Kittzen [ Kittzen's advice column | Ask Kittzen A Question ]
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