okay I liked this boy for a long time and he finally told me he liked me . Then a month later he says he likes another girl but I still really like him. but i dont know if he likes me anymore because he is three yrs. older than me but he still flirts with me. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Kittzen answered Friday July 4 2008, 11:38 pm: with this one i say you should be up frount with him and tell him that you still like him and ask him if he still likes you. there is no other way to do it one this one that to come straigh out and ask but your timing has to be just right. try asking him when you two are deep in conversation and you would want tp dp this face to face and not texting or anything like that. so you can see his face and know just how long it took him to think about it.
also you can see his emontions when he awnster so he's not just playing you.
Have a good chat,
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From there:
I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
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