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ok so i wanna lose some weight. im not really fat or anything. im not even fat. but i got some extra meat on the stomach i wanna lose. and i was wonderign if anyone knew a good eating scheuld. like 6 small meals a day ( w. examples) or just eat 3 main meals a day.. something like that. i already have the workout part down becuase i play alotta sports. but .. help and ill be sure to ratee (link)
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More frequent meals in a day are good... but they should be small. Just eat when you feel like you need to and pay attention so you don't eat after you're not hungry anymore. Drink lots of water and do crunches, sit-ups, and side crunches on each side. Do that at least once a day. Good luck!
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My 6 year old daughter recently started saying she wants to meet her real dad (he hasn't seen her since she was two years old except for a brief chance meeting at a friends house a two years ago.) I'm not sure what brought this on, except that I just had another baby with a different man, and he and I share custody, so maybe she's feeling a little jealous that her baby brother's dad is around but hers isn't. I'm no longer involved with my son's father, but we are civil for our child's sake so it isn't like he could be a father to her. But I need to know- do I call my daughter's father and make him have a relationship with his daughter? I don't know what to do, or what to say to her. (link)
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I know that this is a very difficult situation for both of you. I think that it would be appropriate for your daughter to meet her father when she is old enough to remember it in the future. I would also suggest bringing a person into her life that can be like a father to her, whether it be a grandfather or a friend of yours. A father figure is something very important in a child's life, and he should be kind and responsible, whoever he is. Your daughter is going to ask questions that are innocent but difficult for you to answer. She probably already has. You can tell her that she has a father, but he went away for a long time. If that's not the truth, don't tell her that, but tell the story in a way that she will understand. But right now, she doesn't need to know the sensitive things, whatever they are. I hope your situation gets better.
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Hey,
Im 15 years old, female, 5'3, and weigh 87 pounds All theese B.M.I things say i am dangerously underweight...even though i have a very small body frame, im also a late bloomer (I havent had my period) I go to the doctor regularly and they never said i was underweight...i dont feel like im too thin. Should i be worried? Does not having your period and being a late bloomer have an affect on ideal weight?
Thank you. (link)
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I doubt that there's much wrong if the doctors haven't brought it up yet. Those charts are not always accurate because they take an average and slump it together. This may be a little embarassing... Since you are a late bloomer, they are expecting more weight fromthe hips and chest. And not everyone has a thin body frame like you. But don't take my word for it. Next time you see a doctor, ask him. Chances are that you are pretty healthy. Hope I helped!
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I'm sorta pale and have dark hair so alot of people asume I'm goth and it really ticks me off! I just dont like outdoor activities and have a huge fear of bugs...I even think pale guys are way cute! I'm afraid maybe a guy wont think I'm as pretty because of my skintone...which isnt PAPER white I'm part native american so even when my skin is VERY base there is a little color in it and I have freckles. I dont know...I'm just worried guys wont think of me as cute/hot because of it..help? (link)
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A lot of famous people have that kind of coloring. Look at Vanessa Carlton. If it bothers you that much, you can dye your hair. But you can still look like you with your dark hair and light skin. Try putting something in your hair that a goth would never wear, or getting a new kind of haircut that's 'in'. You can choose who you are, and it was wrong for them to label you a goth. Good luck!
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i'm 17 and i've been wondering something confusing about girls.For instance take these two scenarios:
1)I went to a camp and this gal was looking and smiling at me alot and i did the same too, then later i saw her profile on the internet and messaged her,but she didint' reply back.So has she forgotten me?is she playing hard to get?she doesn't want to look desperate?she doesn't want to look to obvious?
2)Second scenario, I see this gal regularly when I pick my sis up for dance lessons,she keeps on looking at me and I know it, but after a while she stops looking at me and acts as if I;m not there?
Is it because she doesn't want to be too obvious?playing hard to get?forgotten about me?or lost feelings for me?
thanks for reading and I hope you can answer my question. (link)
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The first girl probably forgot about it. Maybe if she saw a picture, she would remember you. This one isn't too serious. And the second scenario. This girl was probably interested at first, but she probably never got to know you, so she lost interest. If you know someone is interested in meeting you, don't let them come over, because nine times out of ten they won't. You go over and meet them. Even if you want to meet someone, just do it! Rarely do these things happen by themselves. Hope I helped!
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I'm kind of "addicted" to Gatorade. Everytime we go to the store, I buy it. And, instead of buying cokes to keep around the house like I use to, I now buy Gatorade.. and drink atleast 1 a day. Ok, my question is.. Is Gatorade bad for you? And is drinking this much harmful? Should I cut down on any/all/how much? (link)
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Gatorade is a lot better than pop. Wayyyyy better. Anyhow, It's really good to drink Gatorade to replenish your electrolytes, but water is still better to drink on a regular basis. Maybe you should drink Gatorade when you have had a lot of hard physical activity and sometimes normally, but try to drink a little more WATER during the day. Hope I helped!
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i dont know if i put this under the right category or not..but..my friend from school is having a little going away party for her..and theres gonna be guys and stuff and i just got the invite and it says, "COME READY TO SWIM" and the last party we had for the end of the year party..i didnt go to becuz i was self concious..now im 115 pounds and im 5'3 but i still feel like im wide and from the front i have all that lower tummy fat..and like everyone of my friends are skinnier than me and i just cant go to swimming parties cuz im always so down on myself! i dont know what to do! all answers are appreciated! thanks! (link)
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Everyone is different. You dodn't even need to worry about it, because no one probably notices as much as you. Plus, most women think that they are 30 percent fatter than they really are. So if it will make you feel better, do some crunches and have fun at the party!
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ok well everytime i get in the shower like 30 of my hairs fall out and its so disgusting i dont no what its from
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It is perfectly normal to lose hair. Most people lose at least 80 hairs a day. So you don't need to worry that you are going bald (LOL). Hope I helped!
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Is there anyway to further soundproof a garage for a party from near by neighbors? Our double garage is cement block, with a door and 2 windows on each side. Thanks... (link)
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Thick blankets and/or quilts help to absorb and muffle sound, but it might get hot...
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I have this problem...Like when i get bored i tend to eat and im afraid i will become overweight. But I excercise and everything and im in cheerleading but it seems as if i am ALWAYS bored! Does anyone know how I can stop myself from eating when I get bored? I hate this! (link)
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You can have a hobby so that you will not be bored so often. At least you will be doing something with your hands. And try to remind yourself to drink water instead of eating, because as you know, water is a lot better to consume a lot of than food. Good luck!
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ok so .. my hair is like long and all but i want it longer.. espiecally before school starts which is in sept. and i was wondering if anyone knew any ways to make hair grow faster .. i know straighning doesnt help and all. but like i dont want anything that i'd have to take a pill but if theres aything that can help please let me know and ill rate (link)
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Some people say that if you massage your scalp each morning, it makes your hair grow faster because it stimulates the follicle to produce... well, more hair. I don't know if it works, but I do it while I shampoo and boy does it feel good!
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Here is my story:
I am trying to throw away all unnecessary things I own.
I have a lot of junk and it could be put to use by someone else.
By eliminating, I plan on having a very spacious room and I want to have such little stuff that it will be possible to move easily.
By throwing away practically my whole room, this problem will be solved.
Here are my only dilemas:
Should I keep the TV in my room?
I keep it there so that when people come over, we can watch movies in bed.
The problem is, I dont watch that much TV, and it takes up a lot of space along with the DVD player.
My other problem is that I have a box full of stuffed animals in my closet. I dont know what to do with them. (link)
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If I were you, I would keep the TV somewhere that doesn't take up too much space until you know someone's coming over. Then you can put it wherever you usually do. As for the stuffed animals, if they are not too used, you can wash the ones that are dirty and take them to the hospital for sick kids or drop them off at an emergency shelter. That is, if you don't know anyone who needs or will use them. Hope your room turns out well!
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I have this problem with guys not looking at my face. there always looking at my but or chest you have to practically yell at them to get there attetion. I neeed help of how to get them to notice my face . (link)
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Sometimes if a girl is wearing tight or skimpy clothes, the guy has trouble NOT looking. It's just a guy thing. That will probably go away as you get older. But for now, check on what you are wearing. If you want a guy to notice your face, you can wear something that doesn't attract attention to other areas. Good luck with that.
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so i'm thinking about getting an iPod.
and i have music from cd's on window's media player and music that i downloaded on limewire, and i was wondering if i would be able to put all of that music on to my iPod if i were to have it. (paying for iTunes is not an option for me)
thanks!! (link)
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You don't have to PAY for iTunes. You can download it free and you can probably transfer all the songs you have now onto it. Plus, you don't have to buy every song off the internet- you can just pop in a cd and copy it to iTunes. I think that the iPod will only work on iTunes. If you get a new iPod, there is a cd that comes with it free that has th newest version of iTunes on it. Good luck with getting your iPod!
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Hey im trying to lose like 5 or 6 pounds and i was wondering if anyone new any outside games i could play with my brother or sister or even both
PLease and thanx XOXO (link)
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Really, you could do a lot. You could go surfing, if you live anywhere that you can do that, or you could jump rope. Both are enjoyable and burn a lot of calories. I'm glad that you are choosing to be active with your brother and sister.
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Is it illegal to drive with flip flops on in minnesota? thanks! (link)
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I don't think it's ILLEGAL, but that doesn't mean it's the greatest idea. It's just illegal to drive with bare feet. (I was getting teased about this by family members when I was getting my permit)
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okay I am not "boy crazy" but like i have been having short like feelings of being in love with a certain guy then it would fade then a new one would start but iw would be for atleast a month or more way more mostly, bu is that normal becuase it seems a little weird its like i am obsessed and they are all i can think about so is it
i hope you can help me
thnx (link)
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Girls are all that boys think about at that age too(LOL)! Don't worry about your attraction. It's pretty normal. Good luck with the guys.
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Could anyone please take a look at this cover letter for me and give me a few tips and hints or tell me how to polish it up? Thank you.
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July 17th, 2005
Store Manager
XXXXXX
Dear Sir / Madam,
I would like to apply for the position of a part-time sales associate at XXXXXX.
I admire the upbeat environment in your store and am sure that I will fit in nicely with your staff and the image XXXXXX portrays to
customers. I am sure that you will find that I will be a hardworking and passionate employee as I am very knowledgeable in fashion and
accessories and am always eager to make shopping an enjoyable experience for anyone who steps into the store.
Thank you for considering me as a potential member of your team. I look forward to hearing from you.
Yours Sincerely,
XXXXXX XXXX.
XXXXXXXXXXXXX@gmail.com
XXXX XXXXXXXXX XXXXX,
XXXXXXXXX, B.C.
XXX XXX
(604) XXX-XXXX
Enclosed: Resume
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It's great! People always like an upbeat cover letter. The only thing that I can possibly think of suggesting is to shorten your "I am sure that you will find that I will be a hardworking and passionate employee..." sentance. It looks like you know what you're doing. Good luck getting your job!
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hey
theres this calender contest thing they're doing at my orthodontist, where you pick a month out of a hat and you have to make a picture for that month that has to do with the month and braces. well the only reason i'm doing it is because the winners get an ipod, and i really want one lol. i picked january, and i have NO idea what the hell to draw. anybody got a good suggestion?
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How about a snowman with braces on?
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Hey everyone! I have never had a photoshop/paintshop thing on my computer i just have kodak easy share thats fun but id like more stuff. Could you guys tell me a good photoshop to download off the internet that actually works and has a lot of things to do to the pictures! Thankyou (link)
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My brother and I use photoshop, but we only use the good stuff that you have to buy.... you know, like Photoshop Elements(my favorite). Good luck in finding it though!
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