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Does anybody know how i could try to go up to my crush and talk to him??? We've never talked before but hes at my bus stop and i will catch him staring at me every once in a while. I'm really shy at school and ever shyer when it comes to him!!!! Can anybody help me???

Check this out:

http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm

And good luck

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Is bi curious another word for homosexual?
I mean can a man like dick and still be straight?

I personally believe it's for people who are just afraid to admit they are gay in the first place.

I think there is a big difference between bi curious and actual bi. If you're bi curious then you just wonder what it would be like to be with someone of the same sex, and maybe think about experimenting with the same sex. If you're bi then you know that you like the same sex as well as the opposite sex for sure, no question about it, even if you're in denial.

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I have a job interview comming up, and I have a conert on a day I would have to work. Should I bring it up during the interview? And would they not hire me because of that? I was just going to say I had out of town business...

You should tell them over the interview. Tell them that it was planned a while ago/before you knew the job schedule and that you would appreciate if they let you off that day. Also let them know that it would be a one time only thing and that you would be careful not to plan things that take place during work.

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what do you say about making out and fooling around with a guy friend? is it ok? nothing wrong with it...i'm not too sure, it's hard to explain, but you don't have to be in love to make out with a guy or anything, do you?

You don't have to be in love to make out with a guy. I would suggest being in love before you have sex with a guy, but that's a totaly different thing. You wouldn't be doing anything wrong at all by just kissing someone.

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For the past couple of days my urin has come out a cloudy yellow. should i be worried?

p.s. im on my period so i know it isnt discharge,

You're fine, just drink more water. You're probably dehydrated.

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how much it would approximitly cost to go to a dermatoligist for ance???

It depends on where you go and what they prescribe you. There's no way to estimate a cost with the information you have given.

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What does "Duckep al th nor forgiveth" mean? Like, what language is it? can anyone help?

It's English, old English. I have no clue what it means though. Are you sure that's all of it?

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im a 15 year old female. i think i might be pregnant but im not sure.. there is no way i can go out and get a pregnancy test. so is there any other way of telling if you are pregnant without the test?

thanks!

Look at this site, it shows the early symptoms of pregnancy, but you should probably take a test also.

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/symptoms-of-pregnancy/PR00102

::Jasmine::

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How can you get a guy to like fall in love with you?
or like you more then he already does?

You can't just get a guy to fall in love with you, and you shouldn't change yourself to try to get a guy to fall in love with you. If you want a guy to love you then he should love you for you, not who you're pretending to be.

::Jasmine::

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ok, I've decided to get either a hamster or a gerbil. I've done a LOT of research on both but I want opinions from some one who actually has one or the other to give me an opinion. so tell me, Hamster or gerbil?

Gerbil. Way better than Hamsters.

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Hello,

thank you in advance for helping me

well.... there is this guy i really like and i might love... but we have known each other for our whole lifes. So you can say that we have grown up with each other. We use to be GREAT BEST FREINDS!!!:) And after my parents got a divorce we weren't best friends anymore but friends... after about 3 more years I found out that he really likes me but i didn't feel the same way then.... but another year later I like him and he liked me... but he has never had a girlfriend and he didn't want to ruin our relationship as bf and gf and friends! He is perfect... we are 1 month a part (I am older) but he is going into 7th and i am going into 8th... he is 100% dedicated to the Lord just as much as I am! I think that we are perfect. I know right it sounds like a dream come true.. but 2 months later we like each other again! but how can i go out with him if he doesn;t want to ruin our friendship?
please help

If you love some one you know, it isn't a maybe thing. If you were to go out and break up then there is a chance it would jeopardize your friendship. I've tried staying friends with guys I've dated and it doesn't always work to well. Talk to him, and explain how you feel, and tell him that you want to give a relationship a chance. If he really likes you then he should want the same things you do. I hope it works out for you.

::Jasmine::

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Do most people shave down there?
Should I?

It depends on the person. Some people do, others don't. It's personal preference. If you want to shave then shave, don't do it because you think everyone else is.

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I am a 14 year old female and i havent gotten my period yet but i want to have sex. My question is can i have sex even though i havent had my period yet. and if i can have sex is there any chance of me getting pregnate??

If you want and feel you're ready to have sex even though I highly doubt it you can. You can't get pregnate, however it is possible you can get pregnant even if you haven't started your period.

::Jasmine::

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Okay, I just watched Premonition with Sandra Bullock and Julian McMahon, and I don't really understand it. Is it about believing in something even though its gone? Or, what? I really just don't understand it. I wanna hear your opinion.

The whole point of the movie was that certain cataclysmic events are pre-ordained in our lives, and there's nothing we can do about it.

::Jasmine::

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i want to turn part of my hair that platinum blonde. i hear you can only do it by bleaching.
how do you bleach it? im not going to buy a kit or dye so dont tell me that its safer or whatever.
my hair is dark brown right now.
HOW DO YOU BLEACH YOUR HAIR?
please know what your talking about.
thankyou

I agree with Kara, go get it done. That's the only way to bleach your hair other than going to the store and buying a (do-it-yourself) hair bleaching kit.

::Jasmine::

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she is a honey shandy colour with a whit strip down the middle of her bellie

I like the name Ginger, too. I think it's the best one.

::Jasmine::

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For the past 3-4 years(yes, years), *every* dream I've has had something silver in it. The precious metal, not the color. I've had dreams with silver swords, guns, rings, canes, glasses, cars, and a few completely silver buildings. The silver object is always a tool, something that I use or carry on me. I'm usually the only one with a silver item. In the dreams I treat the silver items normally, I don't particularly value or protect them, I never mention them to anyone, and they're never the central focus of the dream; they're just there. My dreams are extremely varied other than this, there's not usually anything else that connects them.

I'm interested in what you think this could mean, if anything. Thanks!

theymos

To dream of silver, is a warning against depending too largely on money for real happiness and contentment.

To find silver money or objects, is indicative of shortcomings in others. Hasty conclusions are too frequently drawn by yourself for your own peace of mind.

To dream of silverware, denotes worries and unsatisfied desires.

-10,000 Dreams Interpreted: A dictionary of dreams

Author: Gustavus Hindman Miller

::Jasmine::

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Hey.

Well my boyfriend and me are quite close.
And i know he likes me and just doesn't want sex!
He is horny (which is embarassing to say)!

But he's like --wanna root--wanna fuk--lets have sex--

But i don't know if i should and im a virgin ... i need to know if i should have sex or not!

HELP PLEASE!!!!

If you are unsure or having any doubts about having sex, then you shouldn't. You should be in love and 100% sure. You're always going to remember your first time. Make sure you're both physically and emotionally ready. Don't let your boyfriend pressure you into doing anything you are not ready for or might regret later in life. If you're not ready then sit him down and tell him. If he can't wait then you don't need him.

::Jasmine::

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he said "we need to take a break" but i asked his friend and he really broke up with me because he met another girl. so was saying "we need to take a break" just a nice way of breaking up, or could he be serious?

If he met another girl then he was just saying it to be nice.

::Jasmine::

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So there's this boy that I work with and well I've sortve caught that crush towards him but I just found out he has a girlfriend when I found I got really depressed because my feelings for this boy are huge. I also found out that that's the only reason why he didn't ask me out. I don't know what to do I like this boy a lot and I would really like to have a relationship with him but I don't want to be the reason why him and his girl break up. Please help

If you don't want to break him and his girl up, then you're just going to have to wait for him. Form a good friendship with him, and when and if they do break up then just be there for him. After that, maybe you can form something more than friendship.

::Jasmine::

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