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boyfreind wants it
Hey.
Well my boyfriend and me are quite close.
And i know he likes me and just doesn't want sex!
He is horny (which is embarassing to say)!
But he's like --wanna root--wanna fuk--lets have sex--
But i don't know if i should and im a virgin ... i need to know if i should have sex or not!
HELP PLEASE!!!!
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If you have to ask, then you're not ready.
Tell him you're not & if he keeps pressuring you, dump him.
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Well obviously he thinks you two are close enough that he can try and get you to have sex with him.If you don't want to,then don't.In my personal opinion,no you shouldn't do it because you should save it for someone that's really special.And if he's really horny then no,it's not a good idea because all he's thinking about is that and nothing else.
Make the right decision =]
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darling, you should always keep this in mind. If you're questioning yourself, and asking for others if you should do it or not, don't do it. Because that just means that you're not ready for it in one way or another. When you're trully ready to be with the boy, you will know. Your mind, body and soul will tell you that you're ready to take that step. Because not only are we talking about being with a certain guy for the first time in the relationship, but it being your first time in general. If you're questioning it now, its highly likely that you will be regreting it later.... and that's a horrible feeling.. =/
So my advise, no. don't have sex with him just yet. Wait till you're ready =) till you know tha it'll be for both of your pleasures and not obligation!
Best of luck!
VB
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You're obviously not ready.
Dont do it.
Just tell him no.
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If you are unsure or having any doubts about having sex, then you shouldn't. You should be in love and 100% sure. You're always going to remember your first time. Make sure you're both physically and emotionally ready. Don't let your boyfriend pressure you into doing anything you are not ready for or might regret later in life. If you're not ready then sit him down and tell him. If he can't wait then you don't need him.
::Jasmine::
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you don't want to get pregnent do you. take it slow. You are still to little. Make a good decision.
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your bf definetly doesnt think of sex as meaningful or anything, because of the way he says it (wanna fuk). its your 1st time and if he truley cared about sex in a meaningful way he would sit you donw and talk to you aboutit, we cant realyl tell you if your redy to have sex because we are not you. just take it slow and if you KNOW your redy, trust me youll know when, then tell him tou are (tell him to just go slow beduuase your new to this) a good bf will unertsnad. good luck =] be safe
ask_blondie
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The way your boyfriend is wording asking you to have sex with him - 'rooting' and 'fucking' - suggests that perhaps he's not interested in sex as any kind of deep, meaningful, love-filled thing. If you DO want something more meaningful, you might want to think very carefully about whether you want sex with him.
If you are not interested in the more emotional side, but are okay with being more physical, you'll still need to consider how you will protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy. It's best to get protection in place BEFORE you start having sex.
Still, I don't hear a lot from your point of view in this question. Having sex because your partner wants to is not a good reason to lose your virginity.
While you obviously do care about your boyfriend and believe the two of you are close, losing your virginity is something that can only happen once. To make sure you are happy - and will remain happy - with your choice, take as much time as you need to think about the decision and what it might mean to you individually and as a couple.
I wish you the best.
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Definitely not if you are questioning yourself. All boys are horny, he can wait. You both should have sex when you're both ready. How often does he say that to you? Honestly if a boy were asking me like that, even if I was ready I would say no. The way he's approaching with this idea makes him sound immature and almost as if he has no concern of what you think about it. I don't know if that is true or not but it seems that way to me.
Don't have sex until YOU want to. Also, don't have sex with anyone if they're pressuring you, they wouldn't do that if they respect you and your body.
=)
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Asking means you're not.
When you no longer need to ask yourself, you're game.
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If you're unsure about doing it..then it shouldn't be done.
Simple as that.
-Ryan
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Well, he should ask you if you would like to do this. It should be both of your decisions. If you're not ready, you're just going to have to let him know that you aren't ready.
But if you are willing to lose your virginity to him, make sure to use a condom.
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