Hey, my name is Christina my friends call me Christy! I help my friends all the time in school.
Tell me anything.I will understand what you are going through, if no one else is. I probably have the same problems that you do. Then I would know that I don't only have weird, strange problems! If you would like to express your fellings you can! Thanx for visiting my column and asking me questions.
I hope I help!! :)
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My parents completely ignore me. All the things that i do are never noticed or good enough for them. They are always too busy with work so they don't notice any of my accomplishments. Last week i tried something to get thier attention. I drastically colored my hair to see if they would notice. They said it looks ok and walked away. What can i do to get them to notice me? (link)
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Brake an arm!! JK!! Maybe you did something wrong, like if you did something that they got so mad, brake something in the house, or didn't do what they say. If you have siblings then I guess they have to take care of them. But don't worry they still love you! Call some friends, hangout, and have some fun.
Hope I helped!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Does anyone know any good websites where you can create pets or animals that you can play with or feed, and you can display them on websites? Like in BBcode and html code? If you can feed the pets, I'd prefer the kind where it counts how many times its been fed or something similar to that, but any kind is fine! Also, maybe a pet where you can name it and put the owner's name on it. (-not- bunnyherolabs.com) Thanks! (link)
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neopets.com
webkinz.com, you could buy a webkinz and Hallmark
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my gf like to pleasure herself when im not able to be there to do it for her. so, i was wondering what are the effects of masturbation with girls? what are the pros and cons?
thanx for the help and support! (link)
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well I think I could answer that question. the pros is just making her feel good when you are not around and the cons is I guess nothing. unless you are talking about what could happen to her. B/c my cuz does the same thing that your gf does but my cuz is 12 and nothing happens to her.
Hope I helped!!
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why do some guys insist on not wearing a condom? dont worry i made him but still.... what is so great for them about not wearing one? (link)
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well, it is b/c it's #1 not that comfortable, and #2 they want to get you pegnent, but of course girls are smarter than that
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My little sister plays webkinz, and she can't see the new screen fully. So, they told her to change the size. Well, it was the right size and it didn't work. So it says now.. "If you are having trouble seeing the new webkinz window, Please force refresh this home page by pressing Shift-Refresh or Ctrl-F5." I have NO idead what they are talking about. And like when you go on this game, it opens up to another little window. but like, you can't like go to another website or anything. I don't know if you understand that. but whatever. Anyways, when I press Ctrl-F5 am I suppose to press *** - *** that too???????
please help! (link)
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Don't worry! Your screen will get back to normal and might even be larger! The same thing happened to my friend! If it doesn't work, press shift-refresh at the same time and see if that works.
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I have a verizon Audiovox CDM-8910 cell phone. I recoreded a song i wrote on the phone. Is there any way to set it as my ringtone? I need like seific directions, because i'm pretty cell phone stupid lol. (link)
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I have a Cingular phone but I know for a fact that if you record a song, it can't become your ringtone. You can only use ringtones that they give you or from the store. You can call the Verizon store, but they'll probably say the same thing. They do this because they want to make money by people buying the songs at the music store!
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my hair falls out i dont know why .. my dr dignosed me with seborric dermatits [sp] i have been using natural neem shampoo & conditioner --- coconut oil just to moisturize my hair .. i dont know what is wrong please help!!thanks (link)
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I am not sure exactly what is wrong with you, but I do have this advice.DON'T PICK SCABS THAT ARE ON YOUR HEAD!It only makes it irritated, and you will only lose more hair!
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I`m generally a good distance runner, except I went to the doctor a couple of months ago & they told me I had exercise induced asthma. The doctor also said that if you get in really good shape (runng alot, etc), it`ll eventually go away. I can`t just randomly go outside & run three miles or I`ll have another asthma attack, so I need a good routine that`ll help me work up to it. I`m doing cross country starting in two months, so any tips on how to prepare/train for it? (link)
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If you want to get and shape and be ready for cross country, you should build up gradually your running ability, and exercise daily for about an hour. Also remember to eat healthy foods that will keep you fit and strong!
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So i got a pimple like last summer, and then it never went away. My aunt says she think it turned into a mole. It turned into a light shade of brown. It doesn't stand out or anything, but it just bothers me knowing it's there. But why did it do that? Occasionally, i get this piece of black hair coming out of it (ew), but i pluck it off. But i want the mole (or whatever it is) gone. Is there anyway a can do it? Is there something cheap I could buy at like a drugstore?
please & thank you :D (link)
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My friend had three moles removed on her head, and it was the best choice of her life! Don't buy something cheap at the drugstore or through the mail. They don't work. Visit your skin doctor and have your mole checked out today before you get cancer!
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I am 16 and my family consists of 5 other people. My siblings are really messy and our apartment is always disgusting. I clean a lot, but it doesn't make much of a difference. I talk to my parents about it, but they don't do anything about it. What can I do? (link)
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Tell your siblings and your parents the qualities of having a clean house. They will soon realize that a clean house, is a healthy house. Tell them to help you clean and they will be happy they did!
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well I was with this guy.. and before we got together he got a girl pregnant.. He told me that he was gonna do everything that he could to be around the baby.. I was absolutely fine with that.. I actually wanted him to be around the baby when she had her..It got serious REAL fast and we started to make plans on what we we're gonna do when i graduated and how we would see the baby.. after we were together for 2 months i started a full time job and we NEVER got to see each other..So we broke up.. he got with this other girl.. we stayed in touch.. cause we told each other before we broke up that NO matter what we'd stay friends... well him and the other girl broke up.. and me and him have been talking ALOT more.. and i'm finding myself wanting to be with him... but none of my friends want me with him.. they say that he broke your heart once he'll do it again! they don't know that i'm still absolutely in love with him! WHAT DO I DO?! (link)
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Don't think about him anymore! You are feeling like everybody does after a breakup. There are plenty of guys out there that will be the perfect one for you and you'll know it! He got a girl pregnant so why do you think that's not going to happen to you? He doesn't really care about you because after you broke up, he moved on quickly. If he still loved you, he would be feeling like you are. Leave him alone. He's just a player.
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Ok..im 17/f..im not a stalker or anything..to be honest i dont really go for boys..but i like this guy that doesnt really know me at all. Ive met him once..and he used to go to my highschool..but hes in college now..hes back for the summer..and i have no clue how to reach him or anything..what should i do? (link)
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If you want to get friendly with this guy, I don't suggest MySpace. I suggest going over to his house if you know where he lives or meeting him in a public place and introducing yourself! Before you know it you'll have a new friend! Maybe you'll even have a new boyfriend!
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hey. well, i'm 14/f. i've always had a few friends, but not like, a ton. well, this summer, my friends have been kinda ignoring me. like, some of my friends will invite other of our friends over to eachothers houses, but through all this, they leave me out. i've invited a couple of my friends over to my house, but after they leave, it's like back to ignoring me. i don't get it. i'm nice and friendly, sometimes i act goofy, but i'm deffinitly not like that all of the time. and i'm starting high school, but idk what to do. how can i start high school without like, any friends. i don't want to make friends with the upperclassman, for sure. and i don't know about anyone else in my grade, cause i just don't feel like i fit in anywhere. what should i do?? does anyone know what its like to start high school without any friends?? i mean, usually i can keep anything i need to talk about, to myself. or i talk to my half-sister. but idk. what do you guys think i should do?? i don't want to like, say sorry to them, because let me tell ya something, i didn't do anything to them, and, everytime my friends and i get in a fight, i am ALWAYS the first one to say sorry. i'm not even kidding. i can probably count 2 times that i haven't said sorry first. i mean, i have like, one friend, who i don't know really well, but she lives right across the street from me, and we get along really well, but she hangs out with her own group of friends, who i don't really like. i can probably deal without having any friends, and just talking to my sister if i need to talk to someone. i might talk to my mom but thats a maybe. and i don't talk to my dad about my "friend" problems. what should i do??? sorry this is so long! thanks a bunch! (link)
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If your friends are ignoring you then they're not your real friends! Real friends would never abandon you when you need them! You should talk to your friends and tell them how you fell and see if they're aware how they're making you feel! Don't be afraid to make new friends though. When you go to school, go up to somebody you think seems nice and have a casual conversation. Who knows? That might just be the best friend you've been looking for all your life!
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14/f
yesterday, i had sex w/ my bf for the first time and it hurt, of course, but like it kept coming out & we had to keep putting it back in. so, is that normal?
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Your having sex when you're 14 years old! No wonder it hurt! Your body isn't capable of handling that! Stop having sex unless you want to contract and STD and die! Wait until your married!
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I can't sign up on MySpace.
I enter all my details & it says There was an error processing your request, please try again.
I've tried using my other email address but that doesnt work either, and all the details are correct, i've checked over & over again.
Please help!
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Your lucky! MySpace is not a good place to be! There's millions of sex predators just waiting for you to be their next victim! Don't even try again if you want to be safe!
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so i was thinking about buying a tanning bed.
i dont know what the difference is in a home tanning bed and a commercial tanning bed.
also i have no clue if my house can handle it.
please help. (link)
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DON'T BUY A TANNING BED!!!!! Tanning beds are a complete waste of time, and are extremely dangerous! If you want skin cancer, I suggest you lie in that tanning bed all day. If you just want a healthy and natural tan, put lots of sunscreen on and pull up a chair in the backyard.
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the dr dignosed me with seborric dermatitis [sp]
and i cant stop picking my head and im ending up with bald spots what can i do?none of those shampoos that they have for that work so i use a natural kind its like "neem" shampoo & conditioner my hair is starting to thin and i dont know what to do i keep picking at the scab things. (link)
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My advice for you is to consult your doctor to find out how you can make your scalp stop irritating you, and STOP PICKING THE SCABS!!!!!! Picking the scabs only makes your hair worse and will irritate it even more!
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Can someone give me some pictures or tips for a new haircut? I wanna be pretty when school starts. Here's a picture of me for reference: http://img253.imageshack.us/img253/898/pic6py0.jpg
It's gotten a bit longer; that picture is a couple months old.
I want something short, but not too short, but I dunno if I have the right face for it. Maybe a Nicole Richie style? I'm not sure, you tell me. (link)
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well, I love the way your hair looks now. I think it looks really good for your face!! I wish I have your hair!! :)
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do you think its fair for my dad to give me 60 dollars to spend down the shore then I only spend 10 and he makes me give the rest back ? (link)
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Yes I think it is unfair because this is comming from a girl that LOVES MONEY!! But then I don't know why he gave it to you. When I usually get money I fight back and say no this is my money, I want it!! Then i keep it.
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im 13 a girl ive been through some deaths a few even this month and whole lot my whole life. and my mom has some tumors they just found out but they wont tell her how many they just say its really bad and there is a few. we fight alot but i still love her. and my dad is always out of state or just never home and when he is home we do not get along at all. he loves my brother he will do anything for him or make me do anything for him. and he would tell me no if i asked for something. but i need my mom id kill myself if i lost her and would be just my dad and brother. what can i do to get over it. its so bad they wont even tell her HOW MANY tumors she has. what will i do? (link)
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That sounds bad. My mom did surgery on her head for, I don't know how to spell it, but try and guess- epalepsi. But anyway I stayed strong because my mom had a lot of surgery before and has been through a lot and she knew I was there for her so she tried to make things work out. Sometimes if you think bad thing they actually come true so do the opposit. I know how you feel. :(
And for your dad sit him down one day and ask him why he is doing that to you. And tell him how you feel that if your mom dies then how will I live with you not caring. Hope him will listen!!
GOOOD LUCK!!
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