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not really any friends...
hey. well, i'm 14/f. i've always had a few friends, but not like, a ton. well, this summer, my friends have been kinda ignoring me. like, some of my friends will invite other of our friends over to eachothers houses, but through all this, they leave me out. i've invited a couple of my friends over to my house, but after they leave, it's like back to ignoring me. i don't get it. i'm nice and friendly, sometimes i act goofy, but i'm deffinitly not like that all of the time. and i'm starting high school, but idk what to do. how can i start high school without like, any friends. i don't want to make friends with the upperclassman, for sure. and i don't know about anyone else in my grade, cause i just don't feel like i fit in anywhere. what should i do?? does anyone know what its like to start high school without any friends?? i mean, usually i can keep anything i need to talk about, to myself. or i talk to my half-sister. but idk. what do you guys think i should do?? i don't want to like, say sorry to them, because let me tell ya something, i didn't do anything to them, and, everytime my friends and i get in a fight, i am ALWAYS the first one to say sorry. i'm not even kidding. i can probably count 2 times that i haven't said sorry first. i mean, i have like, one friend, who i don't know really well, but she lives right across the street from me, and we get along really well, but she hangs out with her own group of friends, who i don't really like. i can probably deal without having any friends, and just talking to my sister if i need to talk to someone. i might talk to my mom but thats a maybe. and i don't talk to my dad about my "friend" problems. what should i do??? sorry this is so long! thanks a bunch!
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If your friends are ignoring you then they're not your real friends! Real friends would never abandon you when you need them! You should talk to your friends and tell them how you fell and see if they're aware how they're making you feel! Don't be afraid to make new friends though. When you go to school, go up to somebody you think seems nice and have a casual conversation. Who knows? That might just be the best friend you've been looking for all your life!
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