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my mom and a lots tumors and my dad that i hate
im 13 a girl ive been through some deaths a few even this month and whole lot my whole life. and my mom has some tumors they just found out but they wont tell her how many they just say its really bad and there is a few. we fight alot but i still love her. and my dad is always out of state or just never home and when he is home we do not get along at all. he loves my brother he will do anything for him or make me do anything for him. and he would tell me no if i asked for something. but i need my mom id kill myself if i lost her and would be just my dad and brother. what can i do to get over it. its so bad they wont even tell her HOW MANY tumors she has. what will i do?
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you really should talk to your dad first and if he doesnt listen try again. dont bug him to much. but its not good for a dad and a daughter to have an unhealthy relationship. im so sorry about your mom, the last thing you need is pity so, just try to stay strong for your mom. i know she'd hate to see you sad but its okay to cry about it first of all. many people go through this kind of stuff. i know a girl who's mom did pass away and she said it took a long time to get over it but she realized people just have to move on. your mom knows you love her. you should tell her tht you love her sometime so she'll feel better to. you want to stay strong for her but more importantly you. i really hope it goes good for you. good luck :]
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That sounds bad. My mom did surgery on her head for, I don't know how to spell it, but try and guess- epalepsi. But anyway I stayed strong because my mom had a lot of surgery before and has been through a lot and she knew I was there for her so she tried to make things work out. Sometimes if you think bad thing they actually come true so do the opposit. I know how you feel. :(
And for your dad sit him down one day and ask him why he is doing that to you. And tell him how you feel that if your mom dies then how will I live with you not caring. Hope him will listen!!
GOOOD LUCK!!
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YOu need to be strong for your mom right now honey. If you want her to get better, how she feels inside is also important. If she is worried about you, then she won't be doing the hard work she needs to do to fight this. Of course it is OK to tell her that she needs to fight this, and that you are there for her, and you will help her.
If you father and brother are being selfish and self-centered, tell them, and tell them they both need to behave for mom. You all need her. But looks like you dad is hiding in his job, and your brother won't be much help. It is up to you to be her "rock" for now. No matter what happens, helping your mom through this difficult time and being strong for her is going to make you strong, then you will be able to deal with whatever happens.
Good luck to all of you.
Michele
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