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Question Posted Sunday July 15 2007, 3:59 pm

he said "we need to take a break" but i asked his friend and he really broke up with me because he met another girl. so was saying "we need to take a break" just a nice way of breaking up, or could he be serious?

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jea answered Monday July 16 2007, 8:45 am:
ah, the dreaded "we need to take a break."
first of all, guys are full of bullshit. i've gotten the, "we need to take a break" line before -- he never came back. you've got two choices, you can either stay waiting and in his life -- just keep reminding him that you think the break is helping the relationship and that space helps heal a good relationship, or you can be the man he's not being and dump his ass. (i'd go for option two.)

i waited for this guy for almost two months -- finally, i just told asked him straight up if he was ever going to be ready to try our relationship out again -- he dumped me.

be the bigger person. it will save you heartache, and if you're meant to be the boy will realize his mistake and come running back to you. and if not, you'll be moved and ready to meet someone new!

- J.

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DepthofHeart answered Sunday July 15 2007, 8:21 pm:
If he met another girl then he was just saying it to be nice.


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sk8rgurl answered Sunday July 15 2007, 5:27 pm:
i think if his firend said he met another girl then you should find someone else. sorry, boys can be anoying, but dont waste time worrying about it if hes gonna do that to you. you could also ask him about it to know for sure


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xojessii answered Sunday July 15 2007, 5:25 pm:
he probably was just trying to say it nicely.

sorry :[

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