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I am very interested in history, and would like to have a career that has to do with history. I'm not sure what careers would have to do with history though, other than a history teacher. If anybody knows any other history-oriented jobs could you please name them and describe them a bit?

well my history teacher mentioned that big companies have historians. like General Electric will hire someone to be a historan and tell the story about company.

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Everyone is asking me what I want for Christmas and I just dont know so could you help me out? I'm a total girlie girl. I already have a cell phone and TV and dont want my own computer.

I rate 5's for anyone who tries even if I don't like what you say, I just want some options.

OkayThanksLoves..Bye!

perfume: fantasy, curious (the pretty gift sets!)
gift cards
money
a really nice purse
good sunglasses
pink shox
jeans/coat/tshirts
straightner
shoes
picture frame
journal
mp3
digital camera

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whats your favorite thing to have a girl do to you. cus i mean i tried stuff w/ my boyfriend and he didnt respond too much. any tips of what exciting things to do?..thanks.

if he doesn't like it, don't keep trying. it might be a sign that he simply doesn't want to do it.

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how much does a 14 year old guy grown in about 6 months? like how many inches?

some guys...2 inches in height... others 5-6 and some added weight. i found this out going back to school way back in 7th grade. it was scary.

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hery girls umm i just got my period and it sucks but i wanted to know how many days u have ur period in a month

kk ty

anywhere from 3-8 (sometimes more but it averages around 5)

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okay kids i gota ? do you think paola (or the americanized version , paula) is a mans name ???

personally, i think its more of a female name.

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So I've never really had to buy my girlfriend anything because my mom always took care of all of that. But last year, my gf found out that I don't personally buy her presents and she got all upset. Now, she wants me to go out and buy her her present this year by myself. My mom refuses to help me now. I've really never done this before and you don't have to believe me but it's true. Anyways, this is what I have so far:

100$ Abercrombie card (her fav. store)
50$ Hollister or Forever 21 card (her second fav.--I'm not sure which yet though)
And these earrings her sister helped me pick out. They're pink sapphires with pearl on top they're pretty nice.

But I can see my gf's face when she sees these..."oh gift cards...thanks babe..." She might like the earrings more though...I don't know. I'm already spending 250$ on all of that--I'll put in maybe like 75 more. Does anyone have any ideas?

i think you should actually pick something out for her...gift cards are nice and all but they're kind of impersonal. its just money with minimal thought put into it. ask her sister for her shirt size and maybe get her a shirt from hollister or something like that. if she doesn't like it, she can always exchange it.

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I was wondering.. how often do guys get wet dreams? Like how old and how often

And how long do girls get periods? like till how old


I havent got it yet so i dont know like wuts gonna happend like wut will it feel like

and when a guy goes through puberty wut does it feel like??

thanks in advance &hearts

about guys... well i heard it depends on whether they masturbate or not.
girls get them between 9-17 years old till about 45-50.
guys going through puberty... pretty akward. check out coolnurse.com they probably have your info there.

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Is it normal for like you to get horny wen you look at like nude pics of the same pics? because like i dont really no if that means im bi or its just normal.. i rate good!! thanx

- xoBALLERINAox

i think you are taking it wayyy too seriously. you are whatever you want to be.

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why do you think religion is important?

this is gonna sound terrible but i'll put it this way... it's not.

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okay so im a virgin but all i can think about is having sex with my crush. its always on my mind. is there something wrong with me?! or is that actualy normal.. (im 16/f) HELP :/

yep it's normal.

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Ok so my parents keep on asking me what i want for chrismas!!! I dont know what i want
I am 13 years old....tom boy...i DONT want grly grl stuff...i dont wear make up!!!
The only thing i know i want is a pair of shoes that are shocks!!!
Can you please think of some thing i could like for chrismas
EVERYBODY who answers will get a 5!!!
Even if i dont like that stuff!!!

gift cards
camera
video maker
portable dvd player
laptop
mp3
bike
movies
cds
picture frame
coat/hoodie
cell phone
sports stuff
redo your room
money
party

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I want to get into Cosmetology. Something with makeup or hair. I was told that for my junior year that I had to go to some Cosmetology school and take classes for that sort of thing. Is that true?

not necessarily... a bunch of people from my high school graduate and then move on to cosmetology.

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there is this girl that acts like she likes me and askes me over to her house all the time. anyway when ppl make fun of me she will laugh right along with them. Is she a true friend?

nope, she's not a true friend. she's a "friend" but i wouldnt trust her too much.

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im thinkin about pickin up a game for myself for christmas.

do i either get Gun? or Resident Evil 4? i'm torn, i love the gritty western look of gun, but am i RE fanboy too. both are something new and like nothing ive ever played before (and ive never played either) a little. if you've played both, either, neither, or just randomly pick..

I'll randomly pick one for you. I say Resident Evil 4 because it just sounds like more fun than Gun. but thats just me.

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Hi. Lately i've seen people THAT i personally became fond of on here (as friends) that quit the site. I know that they have been busy. But i'm just scared that no one will become coloumists and eventually quit this site! I really like this site and i can't help but feel soo..bad, if this site just goes down. How will i know for sure that this site will NOT go down? And what can i do to keep it up? :) I will do anything to keep this site up. I LOVE IT!! (not to sound like a kiss-up!) :) Thank you.

No, the site won't go down if a few members quit or don't answer as many questions. This site simply isn't for everyone either... just stay on here and do a good job and you have nothing to worry about.

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I see girls around my school that have really cute school bags. Alot of people have a silver bag with sequin straps. I LOVE that bag! Does anyone know where they sell them/or any really cute school bags? Thanks so much!

like with all sequins or just the strap? go to a mall...they have them EVERYWHERE. its like attack of the sequin bags. try limited too (no joke), random purse shops, deb, and pretty much anywhere else.

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does anybody know the shirt where it says hugs not drugs, and its blue ? where can i find this shirt cause i really want ittt

I'm pretty sure it was aerican eagle and if its not, its hollister. i get them mixed up...

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is there anyway to find out no name numbers that call you on your cell??

thanks!!

call them back and ask.

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I have been aiming people and soon the convo dries up. can anyone give me a list of interesresting questions? like 10= could get you a 5, unless the questions are realy interesting.

interesting questions:
when was the last time you went to disney world?
where were you born?
do you wanna play never have i ever?
what base have you gone to?
do you have any secrets?
who do you like?
have you seen any movies lately?
have you done your homework & can i have answers?
whats your favorite pastime?
if you could kill just one backstreet boy, which one would you choose?
what do you look forward to?
if all else fails, get one of those surveys from someones xanga and play 24738219045 questions.

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