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My Ex boyfriend and I are pretty good friends, and I like being friends with him except it really walks on my last nerve when he flirts with my friend Abby. I don't like him that way; thats not even the point. It's that everytime I look at them their always flirting and poking each other and when he's around me it makes me feel like he uses me to get to her. Because he won't talk to me until he is away from her. That really pisses me off. You can't talk to him, or her because they won't listin. She's nutty and he's a crack. So how can I deal with this?

eww yeah PDA i don't like that!! (public display of affection) i think you should juss ignore it because if you can't talk to them about it then you can't really do anything. lmao hes a crack- that was funny haha =) i understand how you feel though. juss ignore em & maybe if you know they're both gonna be there advoid it. you'll get over it sooner er later.

-hope that helped!♥

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I like 80's music; but I don't know the names of many of them. So far I've downloaded "In the air tonight" by Phil Collins. "Tainted Love", andTheres another song called "What is love?".. I Think. It goes "What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more".

Anybody want to give me some more 80's music?!!
Or hits of the 80's?
I love 80's music! !
THanks!!

tainted love haha =) what a classsicccccccc. i actually do like 80's music. here's a website-

http://www.djjandaman.com/id10.html

there's a whole list from the 70s & the 80s.

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I just pretty much broke my guy friend's heart. He has liked me for a really long time, and a couple days ago he just told me. I feel so bad because I feel like I lead him on...because he always comes to my locker every day (which kind of annoys me) and i even gave him a friendly hug one day just as a joke. But now I've realized as I've gotten to know him that he is just not what I'm looking for in a boyfriend. I'm not even sure I WANT a boyfriend. So now he is really different after i told him we should just be friends. he's sad, and talking about how hes never going to like another girl again. He'll probably continue to follow me around at school and I am trying to explain it to him the best i can but I've never really broke someones heart before. Any advice?

:(

I WAS IN THAT SITUATION BEFOREEEEE oh man it's so difficult!! you juss have to tell him how you feel & i know you probably feel really bad about it & i did too, but you have to. it takes time & it is difficult but you juss have to say how you feel & maybe you can set him up. it depends how he is but the guy that liked me wouldn't even do that. he barely even looked at another girl but he got better at it. juss explain that you care for him as a friend but thats all for now & explain to him how you feel.

-hope that helped!♥

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i have to get a physical for next year or else i cant go to school.. by the way im going into 10th grade. and the thing is, i wanted to know what the doctors do during a physical, thanks!

physicals are like a joke. i must've got em like a jabillion times!! so definately don't worry about it. they take your height/weight & check your back for different spine problems. they worst they can do is give you some sort've flu shot er something but thats only if you haven't gotten one yet er something. nothing is worse than that & it's pretty much boring & takes 15 minutes tops haha =) here's a website-

http://www.meddean.luc.edu/lumen/meded/medicine/pulmonar/pd/contents.htm

that's the possible things they can do if you didn't get them done. for school i juss did height/weight & eyes & hearing. for sports i did height/weight & back. they also check your blood pressure for both.

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Okay so i have an ipod nano, and i want the album cover for the songs i buy to show up how do i do that because its not doing it atomatically...

Thanks ♥

the album covers only do that depending on the songs you actually buy. i doubt you can pick any because i have an ipod nano & only a few here and there show up because its from the song you bought. umm when a songs playing, click the center button a few times & if you don't see any album covers at all then you know it doesn't go with the song. if you do then click on it er it should already be there.

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what is this song?

let the rain fall,
i dont care,
im yours and suddenly youre mine,
its brighter than sunshine



please help :]

brighter than sunshine
aqualung

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Do you know how early or late in age you can get dislexia?

and what are some signs that come with it becides words getting scrambled?

here's a website-

http://www.interdys.org/servlet/compose?section_id=5&page_id=95

-hope that helped!♥

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Heyy thanks.
I think viva la cheer is cute =)
but, i was hoping maybe you could think of something "sexy" or something with dancing or anything in those categories, or anything with the delicious in it. =) don't ask why ;)

jjuicy
deliciousxdancer
viva la dance
deliciousx(name here)
JUiCYxDANCER
L0VES 2 DANCE
T00 DELiCi0US

sorry if you don't like them haha =) if you need any more ideas at all leave some in the inbox.

-hope that helped!♥




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Im black and my skin is uneven throughout my body like for example my stomach and butt are really dark compared to my face and lower and higher chest...
so i was wonderin what can i do to lighten up the darker areas? or waht products i can use also?.

i watch the tyra banks show haha =) they actually give good beauty tips on that since she's dark & she said sunscreen actually works with a PH but since it's winter i found some other products. in the summer definately try that though to keep it light. i found this on about.com & it's skin products for different ethnics such as african american & asian-

http://beauty.about.com/gi/dynamic/offsite.htm?zi=1/XJ&sdn=beauty&zu=http://www.happi.com/current/Oct031.htm

if you go to that website & scroll down there's a product called Jergens Ash Relief Moisturizer which prevents 'ashy skin' as they call it so that you're skin can be even all over.

-hope that helped!♥

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What would be a good s/n for me? like, any random s/n, but good ;)

xcheerbabex108

uhh it might be better with more details like whatever else you liked but here's some ideas-

xcheerxbabiix
G0T CHEER
GLAMxx108
viva la cheer -i think thats cute haha =)
LiVELAUGHCHEER
CHEER 4 ME 108
etc etc

if you give me any more details i can probably think up some more

-hope that helped!♥

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Blahh...
hey everyone!
well like since ive been hangin out with my cousin lately..its been soo boring! we never do anything..we always sit on the computer. well last weekend she wanted me to spend it at her house so i was like okay but we HAVE to do something..im not sitting on the computer..and shes like i kno! and so i was like how bout we go to a movie..invite some of ur guy friends..so she asks these guys from her school..and nobody can goO!? and i dono i dono what to do lately i mean it seems like nobody wants to hangout with me!! and then if we do hangout..i never know what to do..i cant even drive..i never know of any parties..and neither do my friends. i have like seriously NO guy friends. i mean i do kinda..i just dont hang out with them you know? i dont know what to do..im getting a LIL better at being sociable but i dono..i just need help on this whole situation. no smartass comments like oh whats your question? get a journal..becuase this was pointless..=\

thanks guys

okay this is pretty easy. take a few friends with you & go random places. bowling, dinner, movies, mall, mini. golf, etc. that way you guys can juss meet people there & meet up eventually. obviously not juss girls are gonna be there so try starting up conversations with guys there. they like that haha =) juss try different things & go different places so you guys can meet new people & hang out.

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well..i guess i should start from the begining to give a good backround for ya'll to work on. well it all started back in 7th grade when this boy started bugging me. he was a new student so i tried to be nice but he was kind of annyoing and he would keep bothering me about stupid things so i ignored him most of the time. so in 8th grade, me and him actually became really close after a dance that we had at school. a lot of people thought we were actualy going out, we were that close. anyways 9th grade comes around and at we were still pretty close but not as much as we were before. now it's 10th grade and i don't really talk to him at all. now i don't know if ya'll get this but i really really like him more than just a friend and i have since 8th grade. me and him have the same lunch EVERY DAY but he sits at a different table and its weird because everytime i look over at him, he's always starring back at me with his gorgeous smile. i probably haven't talked to him in a few months. but i really want to change that. and every single day..i tell myself that i'm gonna go up to him at lunch and just sit down with him and just be there with him but i get wicked nervous and i chicken out. the same with calling him too. i just chicken out. does anyone have any advice for me on how to get my best friend back?? thank you soo much

p.s. i rate 5's for good advice =]

start easy. bring up random conversations er comment his clothes er something. guys like that haha =) you want to seem interested. maybe not like "oh i really wanna be with you" interested but that you want to be his friend. juss start talking to him randomly & it'll probably grow into a friendship & then you guys can slowly become closer & maybe even go out er something. try juss being friends first obviously. juss go for it. you don't want to miss out on a great guy er anything so juss talk to him.

-hope that helped!♥

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Well I really like this guy, and the other day we were on the bus and this girl came up and said, "yes or no? I need you to tell me before lindsey get's on the bus". i was kind of confused so after he said he had to think about it and she left I asked him what he had to think about, and he said "if im gonna do my homework or not, she wants to borrow it". problem was, it was a friday. so idk why he lied?

Also... I kind of like his best friend, and people say he likes me, but idk, what should i do?

juss talk to him about it. that way you can see where he was coming from & what exactly he meant. that's all you can really do though. i wouldn't mention that you like his friend unless he brings it up.

-hope that helped!♥

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A guy that I'd been friends with for a while invited me out to have lunch with him. At the restaurant he started asking me some questions. First he asked me where was I going to meet the guy I wanted to marry, and that Prince Charming wasn't going to knock on my door. Then he said to me that if I was still single in 5 years I would'nt be happy. The whole time he was looking at me romantically. So far we have just been friends but I had always suspected he liked me a lot more. My question is, do you think with these questions that he's hinting that he's the right guy for me, and that he's thinking long term? Why else would he be talking about 5 years from now?
I rate high!

yeah it seems that way. i mean why else would he be asking you those kind've questions ya know?? ask him about it. first sit down & think & try to see how you feel about him. if you have extra feelings for him tell him. either way, you should ask him what he exactly meant by what he said. he might see you as the wife type & want to be with you more than a friend. i think you should go for it & ask him & then you guys can sort out your feelings.

-hope that helped!♥

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my boyfriend and i just got out of a heated argument. It lasted like an hr but i ignored him for like 48 hrs. Anyway ... we just made up and things are good again. But now he thinks i don't treat him like i used to. Meaning i treat him like one of my friends instead of a boyfirned. I have to disagree though.

How can this be? I think its because its the first day we talked since out fight. Does that sound right??

And how could i change it if it continues?

juss tell him how you feel. that's basically all you have to do. explain to him that you don't mean to treat him as a friend and since he's your boyfriend you want to treat him like your boyfriend. it's that simple really. juss say since the argument you were a little confused & mad so now you want to work on your relationship & show him that you want to be his gf & treat him like your bf & everything should be okay.

-hope that helped!♥

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could someone give me the steps to successfully scrunching your hair? i always try it and can't do it right

okay the best way to do is when you shower before. so you take a shower, towel dry it so its damp but not soaking wet. thennnn you take moose, i use trisemee(sry i cant spell it). it comes in a black bottle w/ green writing & you can get it at grocery stores, walmart, cvs, eckard, etc. then you take it and scrunch it. use a few handfuls er however many you want. my hair is really curly & it works good on me. idk anyone that messed up on scrunching their hair though haha =) it might be easier to flip your hair over first, scrunch it that way, then flip it back & do it that way.

-hope that helped!♥

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Hey. Well, I've never been to Queens, New York, and I was wondering if it's a cool place and all, what good malls or shopping stores do they have, tourist attracrions, etc. Thanks a bunch!

here's a few websites-

http://www.go-newyorkcity.com/index.asp?RegionID=45&CategoryID=1

http://queens.about.com/cs/attractions/tp/top_ten_Queens.htm

http://queens.about.com/cs/shopping/a/queens_malls.htm

http://www.google.com/local?hl=en&lr=&q=shopping&near=Queens,+NY&sa=X&oi=localr

-hope that helped!♥

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Hello... I'm a girl of 18 and i'm really confuse... I don't know why no one ask me out.. Everyone says that i'm a pretty girl and would rather want to have my face and figure.. I think i'm pretty and also sexy.. I have 34 25 36 and
guys enjoy staring at me when they see me.. I also always caught my friends staring on my belly or breast.. I have long dark brown hair and sexy lips.. But hey, i dunno why no one asks me out.. Almost all of my friends have their lovelife and i have not, and i'm prettier than them honestly.. Guys love to hang out with me because they think that i'm a cool girl.. Actually i have more boyfriends than girlfriends.. My friends also say that i'm really kind, understanding and i can always make them laugh.. Whenever a friend ask me if i have a boyfriend or a suitor, when i say no, they wouldn't believe it... I really don't understand... I had boyfriends but no serious relationships, they just cheated on me.. I don't know what's wrong with me... And i also don't hear that someone has a crush on me or something. CAn you tell what's going on???

uhh i always went by this saying-

girls are like apples. obviously the easier ones are on the bottom of the tree & the more precious ones are on the top of the tree. the guy that comes to the tree is going to go for the easier ones, but the real man will climb to the top haha =)

okay basically that means that they either are intimidated by you er think they have no chance & are afraid of rejection. it doesn't mean you'd be a bad gf er something. it was like that with me for years but i have a great bf & everything worked out. maybe you should start going for guys instead of vice versa er juss wait for the right guy to come & ask you out.

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like how do you know if your cherry is popped 15/f ok when i was like 4 i had too many bladder infections formt he ymca pool so i had like a tube stuck up my crotch and i wear tampons but like how do i know if its popped or not?

if you go to the gyno. thennnnn yeah they'd tell you if you asked & you probably don't really want to ask, but that's really the best way to know.

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Ok so there is this guy I really like .. but I can't tell him. I really shoodnt like him, hes always like making fun of me but he says im his best friend. Like and hes really sweet sometimes, which is probly why I like him. I know nothing could ever happen .. but I find myself constantly wanting to talk to him and i leave lots of comments on his myspace. Ive never had a bf, so i think I like him just because i want a bf. How can i chill out .. and not be so obsessed? I wanna be the person he wants to talk to. I want him to start the conversation. Please help

there's nothing wrong with you guys being friends. juss talk to him about it. you guys can hang out, be friends, etc. maybe that way you'll realize you don't like him er either you really do wanna date him & you guys could have a good bf/gf relationship. juss try different things. if the friendship doesn't seem to work out, then you should try hanging out with other people too. you can't wait on him to start a convo. you should start it. that way he'll know you're somewhat interested in him & that's a good thing. go for it.

-hope that helped!♥

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