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Hello... I'm a girl of 18 and i'm really confuse... I don't know why no one ask me out.. Everyone says that i'm a pretty girl and would rather want to have my face and figure.. I think i'm pretty and also sexy.. I have 34 25 36 and
guys enjoy staring at me when they see me.. I also always caught my friends staring on my belly or breast.. I have long dark brown hair and sexy lips.. But hey, i dunno why no one asks me out.. Almost all of my friends have their lovelife and i have not, and i'm prettier than them honestly.. Guys love to hang out with me because they think that i'm a cool girl.. Actually i have more boyfriends than girlfriends.. My friends also say that i'm really kind, understanding and i can always make them laugh.. Whenever a friend ask me if i have a boyfriend or a suitor, when i say no, they wouldn't believe it... I really don't understand... I had boyfriends but no serious relationships, they just cheated on me.. I don't know what's wrong with me... And i also don't hear that someone has a crush on me or something. CAn you tell what's going on???
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Don't rate me bad for this but maybe they think yur vain no offence but if you make it known that you think yur really pretty and sexy they may think yur selfish and self absorbed, but if you arent i'm sorry and maybe the guys just are afraid and figure yur interested in another guy.
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if all of this is true about you, then the guys are probably thinking that they aren't good enough for you. bum it once in a while and show that you dont always have to be pretty, but keep it cute. that should get them thinking that they are on the same level as you.
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maybe because its your too caught up in yourself.. it really sounds like it. guys dont like divas and thats exactly what you sould like
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This may be hard to believe but not every "pretty/sexy/hot/gorgeous" girl gets a guy. Thats only in like movies, most do, but not everyone. Guys may like you but they can feel intimidated to tell you, it can be hard for guys to tell girls they like, especially if their friends with the girl because they dont want to ruin the friendship they have. Also are you coming off as a flirty person that maybe wants a bf or just being "one of the guys"..i talked to my guy friend and he said that most likely your being "one of the guys" and they dont quite see you as gf material. Dont worry you'll get your turn with a boy sooner or later just be patient! =] hope i helped
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I think there are two things here.
A.) Since you are prettier, lets face the truth you get the hotter guys. But not all hot guys are nice, and they can get a lot of hot girls, so they are probably more likely to cheat on you as opposed to a more homely guy (and I'm not telling you to date ugly guys, not at all!) I'm just giving an explanation.
B.) Guys are intimidated by your looks. You look good and that scares them in a way.
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Well maybe alot of guys like you and they are just scared to tell you I mean I have alot of guy friends that like me and they are scared to tell me because they dont want to loose my friendship if we start dating and something goes wrong.So I mean its not because your doing anything wrong they probably just dont want to loose you as a friend.If you like someone though I would tell your friend to tell the boy and I can gurantee he will like you ... it always works for me
Hope I helped
Ashley
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uhh i always went by this saying-
girls are like apples. obviously the easier ones are on the bottom of the tree & the more precious ones are on the top of the tree. the guy that comes to the tree is going to go for the easier ones, but the real man will climb to the top haha =)
okay basically that means that they either are intimidated by you er think they have no chance & are afraid of rejection. it doesn't mean you'd be a bad gf er something. it was like that with me for years but i have a great bf & everything worked out. maybe you should start going for guys instead of vice versa er juss wait for the right guy to come & ask you out.
-hope that helped!♥
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