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obsession
Ok so there is this guy I really like .. but I can't tell him. I really shoodnt like him, hes always like making fun of me but he says im his best friend. Like and hes really sweet sometimes, which is probly why I like him. I know nothing could ever happen .. but I find myself constantly wanting to talk to him and i leave lots of comments on his myspace. Ive never had a bf, so i think I like him just because i want a bf. How can i chill out .. and not be so obsessed? I wanna be the person he wants to talk to. I want him to start the conversation. Please help<3
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i've been in your position once before. you don't have an obsession. you really do like him and care for him. but i wouldn't call it love. if he is always making fun of you there's most likely a reason behind it. he either likes you back or just needs a reason to talk to you. don't put yourself down to let him make fun of you more though, if you do this then he will just get worse. find something you have in common and just talk, but always leave him hanging so he will want to come back for more. and he will start the conversation.
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I think almost every girl has been in your position. Give him clues that you want to be more than just friends. If hes a smart boy he will figure out what your saying and what you want. If he brushes it off and starts talking to you less than thats not what he wants. When he does that act cool and everytime hes online or you comment him or whatever dont talk to him everytime and maybe he will start to talk to you. I hope what you want happpens hun. <33
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Well you should talk to him alot more about random stuff and then once you talk to him then you should realize what you want to do (*date him or be friends*) so that way you know all about him and how he acts etc. If I was you I would give off hints so he knows you like him and then if he likes you he will flirt back that always works for me ..but i dont really think you like him because you want a boyfriend it sounds like you like his personality (most of the time) well I hope I helped
Ashley
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there's nothing wrong with you guys being friends. juss talk to him about it. you guys can hang out, be friends, etc. maybe that way you'll realize you don't like him er either you really do wanna date him & you guys could have a good bf/gf relationship. juss try different things. if the friendship doesn't seem to work out, then you should try hanging out with other people too. you can't wait on him to start a convo. you should start it. that way he'll know you're somewhat interested in him & that's a good thing. go for it.
-hope that helped!♥
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