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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

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ok my boyfriend called at like 7-7:30pm last night and said he would call me back..at around 9-10 he normally calls to say goodnight an all that good stuff but he never called again last night and we only talked for like 30 sec. and today he had a f.ball game and he normally calls b4 then but we havent talked at all and if hes not gunna call b4 his game then he'll call in the morning and he didnt?!!.. whats does his "signs" mean???

Oh jesus. Calm down!!!!! You need to stop freaking out about where he is and why he hasn't called. Give the kid a break! Guys need space and you have to let them breathe. You can't get mad at him for not calling you. He was probably just exhaused after his game and didn't call and then in the morning he was rushing and forgot to call. Calm down. You chicks worry too much! A relationship is based on love, trust, and honesty. If you're getting suspicious, TALK TO HIM before freaking out! I'm sure it's nothing. Just calm down.

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how can i make homecoming extra fun?

Well, really there is nothing you can do but just go out there dance your booty off with anyone and everyone laugh eat... the sky's the limit... unless it's illegal! Just have fun!!

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Hey guys! Oh my gosh, mii homecoming is the 16th, and I am probably going. It is mii first homecoming, and you know..it kinda weird or whatever. Have you guys had your homecomings? What is it like? Well, thanks for the answersz!

Mine is the 16th too! And I'm a freshman so this would be my first homecoming too. I hear it's supposed to be SUPER fun! I'm actually going to my boyfriend's homecoming which is this Saturday and I'm really excited. There are 2 parts to homecoming, the dance and the game. The game comes first then the dance. The dance could be right after the game or the day after the game. For the dance you are supposed to get dressed up all nice with a dress and the shoes and the hair and all that hoopla.(sorry that's my "word") Anyways, it should be great fun! Just go out and have a great time. Hope this helped.

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1st of all im 17/f...me and a bunch of friends are all going out to dinner and to the movies on halloween and were all gonna dress up and i dont kno what to be... i wanna be something good not like a witch or nething but i dont wannahave some big costume and i wanna still look cute but i dont kno what to be any ideas?

PAM ANDERSON! Get the stripper shoes and be decked out in all play boy stuff, blonde wig and water balloons in a double d sized granny bra under a plain white tight tank top. Tons of make-up. and booty shorts or a tiny skirt (play boy of course) They have play boy stuff at hot topic and at TJ Max shockingly enough. Hope this helped!

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I just heard of a friend that if you cut your pubic hairs it heightens the chance of getting lice down there. This has shocked me because I myself cut them because of their length, and I am getting concerned about this. I was wondering if anyone knew any information about this, or any good sites where I could find out some information. Im totally flippin out about this lol. I'm a 17 year old male by the way. Any advice would be good. Thanx :-)

I've never heard of getting lice down there, but lets just say I'm quite clean down there and I do cut them and I've yet to see lice there. Lice are attracted to clean hair. Normally on the top of your head by the back of your head and near your neck is where you'll be itchy. But getting lice near your dong? Never heard of it. And if it's true, you'd be able to see them. They are little blackish brown bugs like the size of baby ants crawling around there. Gross. Hope this helped!

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Sorry.. didn't know which catagory to put this in.. but here goes:

Its kind of hard to explain this.. but like when something upsets me.. at first im fine with it.. like i can accept it.. but just a little while later.. i get depressed about it. Like seriously depressed. Or sometimes.. i can be in a great mood.. and just all of a sudden.. im depressed for no reason at all.
One of my friends said it could be a disease called Bipolar... Does anyone know anything about bipolar? like what it is.. and what it does to you.. or anything like that...

Or if u could find me a good site about it.. i'd appreciate it!

THANKS!!

Bipolar is also known as "manic" depression. It's a type of depression where you have wildly insane mood swings. You can be happy as ever one minute and then depressed as ever the next. It could also just be part of your hormonal changes. I had major depression for a year and a half and it also was like bipolar disorder. Bipolar disorder does n't mean that you're crazy, just to make things clear. Bipolar means your moods go back and forth between two extream emotional states. Bipolar is a type of depression because when you're feeling depressed you feel sad and hopeless for long periods of time and the "manic" is you feeling extreamly angry irritable or happy. You could have LOTS of energy and have never ending confidence. This can happen as little as several times a year to once a day or 24/7. Symptoms of mania (Bipolar disorder) are: *Feelings of exceptionally high energy, happiness, and creativity. *Extream irritability. *A tendancy to be easily distracted. *A decreased need for sleep. *Racing thoughts and hyper-alertness. *Increased moving and talking *Grandiose ideas, over confidence, and/or a feeling of being invincible. Talk to your guidance counselor and you could get things straightened out. Whatever you do, if they suggest you get put on medication for it, do not take it. It only makes things worse. I know first hand. Hope this helped.

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When was 13 i made a terriable mistake...i got pregnant by a 16 year old boy....i though that the boy and i had true fellings together that i could share my bodyh with him....but you see what thatg leed to...i was afraid to tell my mother but i told my sister and she paid for tol get and abortion she still hasnt told my mom and i am paying herf almost all of my allowences to pay her back...ever since thatg day of my abortion i feel like a killer...am i?????pleases help...

In my opinion, yes. Just as my opinion, an abortion isn't something women should do. First off because it can kill you too. I believe that if you truly felt that you were in love and decided to make a big choice as what you did to have sex and you got pregnant I think that it's your responsibility to take care of what you created. The only way I'd agree to having an abortion is that if you were raped and you have police files to prove it. Other than that I do not agree with it at all. You don't know what that kid could have been. I'm not trying to make you feel terrible because of what you did but there were other options. If you weren't capable of taking care of that kid you could have given the baby up for adoption. There are SO many couples in this world that aren't fortunate enough to have children and need to adopt. I'm sorry if in any way I was mean but I was just expressing my opinion. I'm not saying that you shouldn't feel bad because of what you did, because in my eyes I think that it was. You just need to move on in your life and be more careful about the choices you make. If you and your boyfriend decide to have sex again I suggest you go on the pill and double wrap. Also, 13 is quite young to be having sex. I really hope that you do feel better. Hope I helped. If you need anything drop one in my box. I don't hate you for doing what you did, I'm just not happy about the choice you made to have an abortion. But then again, it is your body. Hope this helped.

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can anyone tell me how to get an icon/picture on my column.. im trying to figure it out and its just not working.. so can someone please explain it to me in detail bcuz i really need help on it.. thanks

Well if you have the picture saved to your desktop then read the following: click on the "profile settings' under where it welcomes you. Next go to part III:stuff we show to everyone and then go down to "upload picture of you" and then on the side it will say "browse" click that then find where you have the picture/icon saved and click on it. The place where it was found will show up on the bar next to where it says "upload picture of you" then just finish up whatever else you want to edit in your profile and then go to Part VI: Get it done! and it will submit your changes. When the screen loads up it should say "Settings changed successfully!" Then under that it will say"
You successfully uploaded a new user picture." And the picture should appear underneath where it says that. If not then I really don't know what to tell ya! hope this helped though!

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Sorry it's long, but I need some help

Okay, no offense to this kid, or anybody out there, I'm just describing him.

There's this one realy geeky, kind of overweight kid (I'm a few pounds overweight too, so nothing against him) Well he likes me, and he does whatever he can to talk to me. I know he's trying to be nice, and his best friend said he liked me, but I have a boyfriend, and he doesn't seem to understand that. Today, we were waiting in the commentary during school, and he came up to me and started to act like a real loser (he's a loner with only a few friends) but he made all my friends leave, and when I tried to walk away, he'd get in front of me. I'm stuck sitting next to him in 1st period, I have tried talking to the teacher, and I told her I felt like I was being sexually harassed, because he has tried touching me, but she wouldn't really liste, because she knows hit too well, and he just wouldn't do that type of thing, so I can't move seats, I've tried talking to an administrator, and everything, the only thing I haven't done was talk to him. I'm not sure if he's mentally challenged, and I don't know how to say anything without being mean, He never said he liked me, but you can just tell, and his friends have asked me if I'd go out with him

How do I get it in his brain, I have a boyfriend, and I DON'T LIKE YOU!! I don't want to be friends, I just want him to leave me alone!!

Well if your boyfriend goes to your school, during lunch if he approches you (the guy that likes you) say I'm sorry I can't talk right now, I have to meet my boyfriend for lunch. Kind of emphasize on the boyfriend part. Also if you're alone and he happens to talk to you, just ask him nicely, say can you please leave me alone? I'm not trying to be mean but, I have a boyfriend you need to understand that. I don't want to hurt you though. Just try to be as nice about it as you can. I have pretty much the same problem with this kid in my class... He doesn't speak much English and what's worse is that my boyfriend doesn't go to my school. I've told him once or twice in Spanish that I have a boyfriend and he needs to understand that, but I don't think he even cares. Most likely, this kid is just lonely and needs someone, anyone, especially a pretty girl to talk to. Hope this helped. Good luck.

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Okay, I'm a girl show I should know, But what exactly does PMS stand for, I know pretty much what happens when your PMSing, but what does it mean?

Oh boy do I feel stupid lol.

PMS stands for Pre menstural syndrome. It happens when you're about to get your period, you get very moody, and/or overly emotional. Sometimes you get cramps in your stomach, you'll feel bloated or hungry or have a craving for something to eat such as chocolate (that's a popular one) french fries or something greasy. But PMS is those symptoms you get when you're about to start menstruating. Hope this helped.

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Is it wrong to like a guy, and love another? Does that make me a hoe?...lol I give advice, but every1 calls me a hoe b-c of that!! But after u r done reading this then check out my site...sExY_LiL_BoO_BeCkY

-*Thanks a bunch!*-

-bEcKy-

Okay, they are really stupid to call you a hoe because of that. It happens. It's not your fault that you are in love with someone and yet like another. It doesn't make you a hoe unless you are in love with one guy and doing things with him as in like makin out with him or dating him or w/e and then pretty much doing the same with the other guy. THEN you'd be a hoe. But if not then you're really not and I don't know what those morons are talking about. I personally have never been in that situation but friends of mine have. No you're not a hoe. Good luck. Hope this helped.

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Someone please explain homecoming to me! I know we dance and all, but what for? And what should I wear? I have no clue, please help!!

Well homecoming is normally you're schools first football game that is HOME as in their first game played on your feild. There is normally a dance the day after that pretty much celebrating it. Lots of people dress up for it and bring dates and have a great time. Mine is actually next saturday. I bought a dress for it. I didn't get a fancy one. It's more casual than fancy. You don't have to dress up all nice and everything for it but you'd want to look nice. Whatever you do, do NOT wear a pink or pink/black dress. It's TOO cliche and everyone is wearing it including everyones grandmothers to your dogs. Hope this helped.

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so is it okay 4 your boyfriend to call you baby but you wanna call him something other than "babe" but not like hunny, hunnybun, or other corney names?! like call him baby too or would that just be weird??

lol, no it's not. It's cute. My boyfriend calls me sweetie, beautiful, honey, gorgeous, sexy, baby, anything in the book. I call him sweetie sexy baby honey... anything i can think of. Nah it's not weird. I call him baby most of the time and he calls me baby alot too. So it's not weird.

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okay well i usually get my period around every 21 days.

i was supposed to get it like 5 days ago but it never came

i know its normal for periods to be irregular at this age but i've had my period for 4 YEARS now.

so why did it skip? what are some possible reasons? help im scared!

and im not pregnant because i never had sex before.

If you're active it can prevent you from getting your period. It's only been 5 days so just calm down, after a week and a half, you'd might want to go to the doctor. If you keep worrying it won't come any sooner. Your period gets delayed by stress and activity. If you play sports that could also be a reason. Just relax, you'll be fine, especially if you're not sexually active. Nothing to worry about.


..::..emily..::..

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when do girls normmaly start puburty? wat grade

It can start from as young as 8 to 18.... Really, it can. Some times it can be even later. My aunt was 21 when she got her period and started to develop breasts. Hope this helped.

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don't get mad at me for saying this because i KNOW that not all gay guys are feminine. but what about the guys who dress really preppy and they have the really girly voice, talk with the hand motions, are friends with ONLY girls, read girl magazines, and always know what girls are talking about. are they gay? because even if people asked them and they'd still deny it, does that mean they're gay and just don't know it yet? or they won't admit it? or does that just make them metro?

Not really... my friend Brian is exactly what you just described but he's straight. He has a girlfriend and she's really pretty and popular. There are guys that claim that they're straight but act just like you said but really they are gay. They could be straight like my friend Brian or they could be gay or even Bisexual. One of my cousin's teachers married and talks like that and everything, they even have 3 kids. It's weird. That's just how they are. So with those kind of men, you'll never really know for sure.

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If your a virgin (( girl )) then how can you get pregnant?

If your boyfriend was masturbating or you were fondeling his goods and he cummed then if he got it on his hands and then fingered you, you could get pregnant. As soon as cum or precum touches vaginal fluids it will start to swim. It's possible. I know girls in my school that have gotten pregnant and haven't even had sex yet. Hope this helped.

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i need help & fast. how do you scrunch your hair ? i used moose but minez not working so great. i need help & fast !

Get your hair wet, mousse it and then use alot of gel and let it air dry. Hope this helped.

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I am confused can you get pregant by precum

Yes you can. I thought I was pregnant off precum but thankfully I wasn't. Precum contains sperm, although in a small amout as soon as precum touches your vaginal fluids it can swim. So yes, you can get pregnant off of precum. There are girls in my school that have gotten pregnant and haven't even had sex before. And yes, that too is also possible. Hope this helped.

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how come people say it is bad for a 13 year old to be friends or have a realationship wit a 16 year old?

Because normally 16 year olds are young and horny and all they want is sex. Which is true 93% of the time.

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