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OMg so i went to a soccer game w/ my friend amanda(for her lil bro) and Josh was reffing. at the end of the game we were talking and i don't know what to do now! amanda and her bro r going to camp next week so if i show up wenesday and he asks who i go there 4 I Don't Know WHAT TO SAY!


ps: ayla if you read this please help me(and you know who i am who else is bff w/ amanda and obsessed w/ Josh!) (link)
josh is the guy you like right? you could always jsut say youre going there for him, most guys like girls who take the first step


i am a girl that is very sexual with my boyfirend. and every time he eats me out or we have sex i always moan and etc but i dont cum.. he cums all the time when we have sex or i give him head.. and etc.. but why arent i cumming too? (link)
hmmmmmmmmm well the most likely explanation is that you arent going all the way to an orgasm. are you moaning from plessure? do you cum when you masterbate? becasue if you do then you just need to help him do what is needed. if not, you need to figure it out. it is alot easier for a guy to cum than it is for a girl, but really ive known girls that cum very little during an orgasm, because strictly speaking it isnt neccessary, so you could just not have alot of juices, relatively normal.


If I finger myself, could I get pregnat? Or could I bleed or anything. I've never fingered myself in my vigina so I'd like to know the main side affects.

I rat high for accurate answers ;) (link)
just to reaffirm, its religious propaganda that masterbation causes anything bad, it is in fact very healthy, as long as you dont do it exesively.


ok about what age/grade do boys start to get attracted to girls and start to think more about going out or being boyfriend and girlfriend? (link)
err this is different for guys but tends to happen around 12 or so


My friend Jane has a mom, and Jane is dating a spanish boy, and her mom says she has nothing against Spanish people, but her mom isn't allowing her to date Jane's bf! What is her point? (link)
well shes obv lying about not having anything against spanish boys. jane should jsut hide it from her


i dont know whats wrong with me but when i day dream its always about this one guy. I fantasize about him all most every second of the day. The weird thing is i never talked to him before. he lives near my grandma and whenever i go over i see him there. I think hes hot shyt but my mom and cousins wont let me tlak to him. I egt so mad when i go there and he doesnt come near me. why do i think about him all the time when i never even talked to him? (link)
if you have to ask if its love, then it isnt. you cant be in love with someone youve never talked too.


I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all. (link)
nah its fine. almost all of my friends are girls and im a guy. jsut make friends with whoever dont pay attention to gender


I am 13 and I want to start making my own money instead of having to rely on my parents so much. I'm pretty sure I can't get a REAL job anywhere yet, but I was wondering if there are any other ways. I already know mowing lawns and babysitting but it hasn't worked so well... thanx! (link)
to my knowlege you cant get a work permit at that young, ask your school councelor once school starts again they would know.


on myspace, how do i take out all the links. like where it tells "general" or "music" and all, all my writing is in links and i dont want tehm links. how can i change that? (link)
To disable clickable links on your interests, music, movies, television books and heroes boxes,
type "" (do not include quotes) anywhere in the input box.

thats taken directly off the myspace edit profile page by the way


This may sound disgusting, but my pee is hardly yellow at all and its really freaking me out. Please!!! help!! (link)
what color is it? is it like clearish? because that means your drinking too much water, any other color and go see a doctor


how do homosexual people men or women have sex. i have heard about "great gay experiences" but i have no clue how they have sex (link)
ask 100 women what they consider lesbian sex and youll get 100 different answers. guys on the other hand are alot simpler, its either blow jobs or anal sex.


HOW LONG SHOULD A 14 year olds penis be ? (link)
the average male penis is 5.2 inches long. thats a fully grown man's though at 14 yours shouldnt be much shorter.


Whats planned parenthood?
i rate 5's (link)
planned parenthood is a place you can go to learn all about sex, really learn not like those lame sexed classes most schools make you take. you can also get free birth control and STD testing there.


Theres this guy and he is 16 and sometimes i think i have feelings for him lyk a boyfriend but then i dont.....he likes me and he said he wanted to screw me and i told him id let him but i dont know if i would let him because im only 12 and loosing my virginity at my age seems a lil to fast but i feel ready, and i think i want to?? should I??
~Clueless~ (link)
12 is too early to loose your virginity, especially to a 16 year old


i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. i love him soooo much. we have fooled around a lot and plan on getting married eventually but were only 16 (im 16, hes almost 16) We are not having sex until we are married. I dont want to fool around anymore, not until we move in together in 2-3 years. But when he feels like fooling arund I always end up wanting to. I dont want to fool around anymore. What do I do? (link)
only do some light fooling around? thats a pretty vague term but jsut do less when fooling around thats a good compramise is it not?


does anyone think its bad to bring your bible to school or stuff like that? I mean my friend does and i want to but am scared someone might hurt me because of it! but i really LOVE god and want to like spread him with people but am scared to! thanks! (link)
no it shoudlnt be dangerous to bring hte bible to school, yo umight get made fun of a but though. but it really does depend on the area but to my knowlege there isnt a christian hating part of the nation.


Would lotion irritate my vagina if i want to masturbate/finger myself with it?
please help thanks (link)
no it shouldnt, isnt the whole point of lotion to be soothing?


14/f
0k, so I'm going out with this guy, and last night, he fingered me and ate me out.. He fingered me so hard that I bleed a little bit, and I was wondering, if there was any cum on his hand, like from the last time he jacked off, could I get pregnant? What are the chances?
Also, what can happen from being eaten out? (link)
unless he jacked off extremely recently theres close to zero chance so your safe there. and nothing except an orgasm (or lack of one) can happen from being eaten out.


hey i dont know if this is apropriate but i was wondering like howmany sleeping pills can u take untill its bad(like deadlY)
thanks (link)
um you mean all at once? for the most part sleeping pills are pretty safe and wont kill you, you might fall into a coma though. it really depends on the regular dosage of the pill but double dosing on jsut about anything is bad. you also shouldnt take them for more than a few nights in a row becasue if you do youll become addicted and wont be able to sleep without them


okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 weeks, not long I know but anyways we have been talking about haveing a 3 sum with me, him and one of his guy friends, and I am thinking about it, but the thing about it is, I dont know how 3 sum's work and everything because i've never had one, but I am considering it. But what my question is....I want to know a little bit about a 3 sum and I was wondering if anyone could tell me about what all happens and everything. If someone can help me out I will rate High, thanks!! (link)
this early in your relationship i really wouldnt reccomend it. i also dont get why he wants to have a threesome with you and one of his guy friends, most guys want a threesome with another girl which is alot mroe complicated. with two guys its pretty simple youll basically just have one in your pussy and one in your ass.




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