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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
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is an MRI bad
No, it's just like an x-ray done on your whole body. It's painless and it's quite fun actually. You sit in this big thing and you watch lazers go around you and you have to lay really still. It's fun. Hope this helped.
I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think..
Okay, really think it through. You are 15 years old with your entire life ahead of you. You have to go to college. How are you going to support this kid? You're pay checks and his can't help. You need a REAL job where you're making good money. A baby is a big responsibility, there's diapers, food, clothes all of that stuff. You're still young yourself and you really need to go to college first. My cousin had a baby when she was 18 and totaly regreted it. As soon as her boyfriend of 3 years found out she was pregnant he started denying it was his kid even though he said he'd be there through everything with her. You don't want a baby now. You have to think about yourself first before you can start taking care of someone else. Please, do not have a kid this young. You WILL regret it. I know girls that are 13 years old and have kids. Their mothers wouldn't let them put the kid up for adoption and they are failing out of school, they are broke and the baby's father doesn't want to have anything to do with them. They did it all because they loved eachother and said they'd be there for eachother forever. That's not reality. Wait until your married to have kids. I don't care if you have sex at your age but wait until you're married to have kids. You will COMPLETELY regret it. My ex boyfriend pretty much tried to force me into having sex with him unprotected because he said he'd love me forever and never leave me. A week after I said no to even having sex with him he broke up with me because he was fooling around with a 17 year old slut and got her pregnant. Oh and guess what?? Now he denys he's the father of her kid! Go figure. Really think about what you're getting yourself into. You WILL regret it, I said it a couple times but I mean it, you will. At our age, we wouldn't know what we are getting ourselves into. Even if you say you have money, it's not going to be enough. Who's gonna watch your kid when you're at work? You have to watch your kid. How can you support your kid if your not working and you only have one persons pay check to support you? You can't. PLEASE, really really think about it.Hope this helped.
Hi, my friend,Yukia, is changing she going out with guys, and kissing them, which she NEVER did. I feel like we are growing apart. I have known her for about 9 years. What should I do?
Well eventually every girl is going to have boyfriends and kiss them. That's just what girls do. I know girls that were always like "Ew, french kissing boys is so gross why would you want their tongue in your mouth?" Stuff like that. But when you get older, you'll start to be interested in that kid of stuff. It all has to do with your hormones. Hope this helped.
how much is it to rent or buy a tuxedo?
Well, not alot normally. Depending on the place where your rent it from. It could be as little as 20 dollars to as much as 100. Hope this helped.
Is there a way you can get rid of a face full of acne fast? its barely visible but they are sorta red. Tel me any methods please!
Wash your face day and night with clearisil acne scrub then use Oxy pads then use clean & clear oil free acne moisturizer. Works on lots of people. Also, try to avoid eating greasy foods because that can also make acne bad. Also (if you're a girl) when you PMS and get your period you tend to break out more. Hope this helped.
is there a certain time of the month lykk # of days after your period where u can have unprotected sex w/o getting pregnant?
Not really, there are is always chances of getting pregnant no matter how long it's been since you finished your period. Just keep a condom on and you won't end up pregnant and your man won't end up bringing you on Maury saying that he's not the father of your kid. Also, a condom will protect you from STD's. Hope this helped.
How do you scrunch ur hair?
Wet your hair, towel dry it, put a leave in conditioner, mousse, and gel and then scrunch it, like take it in your hands and scrunch it together to make it curly. Hope this helped.
i've been playing guitar for a while now, and think i should take a step up from my junk old one. i don't have the deepest pockets, but might be able to manage around $400 after a while. I'm not so much into the les paul or stratocaster hype and am looking for something different and good, but not too gothic looking, my main choices so far are the fender cyclone, the ESP viper, and the epiphone flying V. any suggestions are appreciated, thanks
I was actually going to say the ESP viper. That is a GORGEOUS guitar. A friend of mine has one in like this metalic bluish grey color. Oh jeeze it's SO pretty. As for the cyclone, it's not so much my style but it is a nice guitar I must admit and the Flying V is a total rock star guitar, EVERY rock star has to have one, that's the next one I plan on getting. I have two piece of shit Fenders. But, in all honesty, either a Flying V or the ESP viper, those are great choices. They are beautiful guitars and they play nice too. Hope this helped.
Ok so I had a big argument with one of my best friends and I cried a lot. Now my eyes are really sore, are there any ways to soothe them apart from cucumbers?
Splash cold water in your face and then take a nap for a little bit. Always works for me. Oh yeah, and with the friend thing, ALWAYS eat a cookie to make you feel better. Hope this helped.
Where can i get monologues from movies like Legally Blonde 2?
http://www.whysanity.net/monos/legally.html that was one that i found... there is another one just go to http://www.whysanity.net they have a bunch of monologues from a crap load of different movies. Hope this helped.
hey .. i wanna try out for cheerleading in my school and i am new to the area but i have good friends ANd were all gunna try out.. and like i am not the skinny type and i dunt wanan get made fun of by the skinny ... experienced in cheerleading but how else am i gunna be good if i dunt go on a team i never did cheerleading i think it mite be fun .. but I REALLY WANNA MAKE IT.. ND I DUNT WANNA BE MADE FUN OF IF I MAKE IT.. by the skinny bitches..! any advice this is really important x3amanda06 is my s/n thankx xox
Well, this girl in my school is, well, bigger than the other typical size 0 cheerleader. She's on the varisty squad and she's amazing. Just go out there and do your thing, don't even listen to what they think. You'd need to be like trained for it though because you can't just try out, they expect you to know how to do certain things so I'm almost positive that at any of your local dance schools they also teach cheerleading. Stop by your dance school and check it out. You could probably get a few classes there and you'll be an expert. Just DON'T listen to what they say about you. Be confident. Hope this helped.
Hi, I straighten my hair everyday, but now that its rainiing im afrid it will get frizzzy and wavy. I use john fried hair serum and i have a chi. Do u think it will go wavy on me? Or do u have any ideas wut to do with my hair so it wont get frizzy and wavy? * I rAtE*
I use both of what you just mentioned and I have extreamly curly and thick hair so as soon as it hits moisture, it goes POOF! Try to keep your hair dry, use an umbrella or if you have a hoodie, pull it up over your head so your hair doesn't get wet. That's what I do. Also, carry a hair tie with you just incase of an emergency. Hope this helped.
Hi there! I've got my own column on here (EMiLYELiZABETH) but today I'm needing some advice.
I'm 2O/f and tomorrow I've got a huge job interview with the police department. My question is... what should I wear and how should I do my hair?? It's brown with reddish highlights, half way down my back (about to the bottom of my bra). I like it either up or down, so that isn't an issue.
As far as what to wear, I was wondering about pinstripe pants or a skirt? Also, what kind of shirt? I've got a few nice sweaters or some that I can layer with.
Any help would be GREATLY appricated!! Thanks so much!
Em
I definately think that you should have your hair down but have it neatly back sort of in a clip or something so that you look professional. If you wear a skirt to an interview for the police department, it won't seem as if you're ready for that kind of job. So definately go with pinstriped pants. For a shirt, go with a sweater in a matching color of your pants. Hope this helped. Oh yeah... my name's Emily too.
Ahh.. i used "subline-bronze" and it turnd me orange! ANYONE know of a 'self-tanner' that actually turns u tan? PLEASE HELP and if u could state the name and price..and tell me if it leaves ya with "discolored hands" THANKS BUNCHES!
Estee Lauder Sunless. It's the best out there. It doesn't have that fake orange color. Me and my mom use it all the time in the winter. Try it! It will be worth it. Hope this helped.
Okay so today i went jogging for the first time in awhile. I was planning to jog for 2 minutes and alternate between that and walking. But when it came to jogging, after 3O minutes i felt like I was dying. My throat started to really hurt and i could taste blood but there wasn't blood in my mouth. This ALWAYS happens when i run or jog and i have a friend that it happens to her also. It took a good 15 minutes for my heart rate to go down and about 3O minutes for my throat to stop hurting. Does this happen to you and how can i stop it?
I'm not sure how to stop it but that does happen to me. I have asthma and whenever I breath in through my mouth it burns like that after a while. I can taste blood and it's really disgusting. I'm sure it's just from the cold air hitting your throat and it's trying to itself moist again. Hope this helped.
Is being almost 14 and 95 pounds fat or should i go on a diet
Uhm, can you please not ever say you're fat again? Excuse me are you on drugs or something to think you're fat???? I'm 14, 5'3" and 113 pounds and size 2 in pants. I'm not fat. You're like anorexic. Get some weight on you girl!!! Hope this helped.
well my best friend likes my boyfriend and they talk on the phone and on the internet all that time and it kinda feels like there is something goin on between them and i confront them both and they both said nothing is goin on...but it still feels like there is! what should i do?
Well if your friend admitted to liking your boyfriend, odds are that something is going on or that something is about to happen. Girls are bitches and alot of us are backstabbers (One reason why I'd prefer to be friends with guys). How long have you and your boyfriend been dating? If you're really worried about it talk to your friend first and say "I'm really not 100% comfortable with you talking to my boyfriend all the time, I kinda feel like something is going on." Yep, it happened to me. Of course it had to be my first boyfriend and a friend from church. With guys, if they are bored with you, they will go and cheat if they feel like they aren't getting any. Hense my last boyfriend: Dating for 4 months the most we did was make out he tried forcing me into having sex and giving him oral and when I wouldn't do it, 2 weeks later he dumps me for a 17 year old whore from Newark. Yeah and that's the story of my life... You really need to talk to them again. Be firm. Say I swear if you're lying to me I'm not going to forgive either one of you. If your boyfriend truely does like/love you then he won't do that to you and you have to calm down. As for your best friend? In the words of 'Violette' from Jaw Breaker "This is highschool detective Cruz, WHAT IS A FRIEND?" Try to keep that in mind. Try to be careful. A heart is a delicate thing, and it can be broken VERY easily. Hope this helped.
I just recently got over my ex..but now im realizing that i may like my best friend's ex. She is still far from over him..i could never go out with him..help?
I think it's okay for you to LIKE your friend's ex but if she's not over him yet, I think you might want to hold off on trying to go out with him. If you end up going out with him because you discover he likes you back, you might end up breaking up a friendship for a guy. Chicks before dicks. That's what I always say. Give it some time. If or when you see that she's over him, talk to her and say I like so and so (the guy's name) and see what she says. She could be okay with it and she could not be. It all really depends on the relationship she had with him before they broke up. Hope this helped.
please dont delete this question..id really like 2 kno. well im a freshman in high school and ive been having my period since the middle of my 7th grade year. my friend told me that she had discharge before her period but then it stopped. i still have discharge. is there something wrong?
NOPEEE. I still have discharge. Totaly normal for some girls. Most girls still get discharge. There are pantie liners that you can put on your undies to keep then from getting stained with the discharge. Kotex dailys I think they're called. In a yellow cardboard box. Hope this helped.
ok this may sound stupid! and i have an excuse im blonde!lol...um...what does "gimme sum dap" mean?this guy at skool says it to me all the time n im not sure what it is..plse try to explain it the best you can!..THANX!
If I'm not mistaken, I believe it's a hand shake of some sort. All of the "ghetto" people in my school do that. My friend asks me that all the time. I'd sit there and be like "What the hell are you talking about" But yes, I'm 99% sure it's a hand shake. Hope this helped.