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Hey, I'm Jen. I basically get on here when I'm really bored and I promise to be honest when answering your questions. :)

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well i want a myspace tracker that tells who views your profile and i found this: http://getimaged.com/special/2.php is this real or just a scam? thanks

nope its a scam the myspace trakcer does not exist. carful cause now they are doing alot of those things just to hack into ur account so dont give ur password to any of those things

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How can you tell if a coach purse is fake?

if it says made in china, then it is fake....u can check on ebay or google it...there they give u alot of tops on spotting a real coach. also, try to feel it, it should feel like real leather...i hope i helped

jennifer

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Ok so the deal is that i had this boyfriend that i truly loved and we broke up,and he is a liar and its really not worth going back with him.The point is that i still love him.I have another guy who is really nice and wants to get to know me,even though it has been 5 months since my ex and i broke up i still have feelings for him and im afraid that jumping in another relationship is bad.I feel that i might end up hurting this new guy or maybe im just afraid of getting hurt again but im also afraid of letting a good guy go...Should i take the risk and give this new guy a chance because he is really nice and does make me feel something,or should i just be single for a while more until i dont have any more feelings for my ex?

My opinion is to get with this nice guy. He will help you forget about your jerk ex. bf. Also, love is full of risks, the only ways to have love is to take a big risk. Hope i helped you!

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Hi well im having troubles,i really feel i love my ex boyfriend.We had a really intense relationship and it got to the point we actually said we LOVED eachother and meant it.He is a "player" he has had many girlfriends in his life and im the calm girl who only has had him.He did so many things for me,he went back to school...and my parents(specially my mom) didnt like him and he fought against them until he was given permission to be my boyfriend,NOT MANY GUYS ACTUALLY STAY WHEN PARENTS GIVE THEM A HARD TIME.The point is that it has been five months since we broke up,we have talked...and in our first conversation after we broke up he made it seem that he wanted to get back together but he hasnt done anything.He did do a lot,he lied to my parents and lied to me,Making up the lie that he got his ex girl pregnat which after he told me that he did it to "test" me.I feel that we broke up because he missed being single.I still love him and.But is he really worth fighting for?? or should i just forget about him and move on??Please help me

I think that you should totally MOVE ON!!!! its been 5 months now, and im sure that you have met better guys. If he lied to you to "test" you, then screw him! Love needs no tests. Love itself is a test, and you do not need someone in your life to hand you even more tests. If he lied to you, then you cannot trust him. And a relationship in nothing without trust. Sure he did alot of good thing for you, but he also did alot of bad things. And the bad overcomes the good. If he is a player, then it wont last. Believe me it wont. I kno alot of players, i am related to a couple of players. He will cheat on you or leave you for someone. PLayers get tired quickly. So he is not worth ur time, and will just bring more drama into your life. Forget about him and find a special gentleman that will NEVER lie to you. After all, there is plenty of fish in the sea. Hope i helped you, and know that if you need anymore help, you can ask me!

xoxo
jennifer

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So my boyfriend just left yesterday to go on a triop with his friends (guys and girls) for a week..and he called tnite saying he was at a bar..i am worried he's gonna meet some girls and cheat..is there anyway to make myself not so worried?

Trust him. If he truly cares about you, he will do nothing to hurt you. A relationship is nothing without trust. Just think positive, and stay away from the negative thoughts. At least he called oyu and told you he was at a bar. Not alot of guys do that. They just go and dont tell their gfs. So hold on to him, because you have someone special and unique.

xoxo
jennifer

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Me and this boy used to date. We really liked each other a lot, things went wrong and friends got in the way, we both got hurt end of story. We always feel diff.about each other at dif times.and its been like 6 months since we broke up/ We been hanging out a lot lately, and we got into this jealousy fight, and then i just spilled it all out that i liked him. He pretty much said what i just said, i hurt him before, and he never knows how i feel, but he has thought about us gettin back together. We hung out the past two days, flirt soo much, but nothing more. I know i cant force something to happen, but i know somewhere inside of him he likes me, and im sometimes afraid to show him howw much i like him cause i dont want things to feel awkward for him, and just rush things and f*** it up. But idk, we might hang out tm. I jsut need to get some advice on what to do from here, i dont wanna hear juts wait it out, i wanan hear from someone who has once been in this situatoin and got past it. Like in my mind im thinkin talk to him about it in person, then see what happens, instead of the comp like we have been

thanks

talk to him. ask him where ur relationship with him is heading. Sometimes its better to ask the person, than to just guess. Also, just wait, and keep flirting, maybe he need times to think. Alot of things that we dont know go thru a guy's head. If you want, you can make the first move, since you think that he likes you. Just have patience, and you will see that if its meant to be, it will happen.

xoxo
jennifer

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one friend that i have mentioned before has been relly gettin on ma last nerves. i was late for skool one day went up behind her and said "boo" the girl turned around and punched me in the face and i was ready to scream and cry but i didn't.All i could do was hold my nose.Then, another day i was in the lunchroom and i tripped on her bookbag and fell on her and she took he hand and dug her nails into my wrist and i started bleeding. i have been in so many arguements wit her and she says stuff behind peoples' backs. it wasn't pretty. please try to answer me right now!!! THANKS!!! and she said she is very nice. HA!!

It seems to me that you are by far better off without her. Who in the world needs a friend that hurts you physically? Isnt that abuse? Well get rid of this friend until she does something worse...that can be life threatning. Just ignore her, and find a new friend that will actually be there for you and never hurt you. I know its hard since there isnt alot of decent people in the world, but im sure ull find someone. Hope i helped!!! remember: she doesnt deserve you!!!

xoxo
jennifer

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ok sorry this is kinda long

14/m

alright well the other day i was talking to my girlfriend and she told me that she was going out of town for a few days this week, and she didn't kno why. the next day she asked her parents why they were going, and they said to look at houses because they might be moving to that city, so now she's not talking to her parents and stuff....

well, we've been together for a while now, and i don't know what to do...i think about her all the time and i absolutely love her, but i know it's not going to be able to work out when she lives on the other side of the state! so what do i do if she is moving...? should i just end it there or should i stay with her until she moves? i really don't know what i should do...

awwwwwww this is sad! :( I think you should stay with her....who knows maybe they wont find a house and they will end up not moving. Also, maybe ur gf should talk to her parents about the situation, they might understand her!!! If she does move, then know that everything happens for a reason, and it was probably for the better good. You could still try to be with her, but just know that you are 14 and still young. This is teenage love, who knows what the future holds for you?

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15.female.Texas.

I'm 15, freshman, still havent gotten my frist kiss! Ugh so frusterating! But in this area like 50% of people havent gone out wit someone yet or kisses someone. Is this weird? and makes me frusterated! Wat can I do?

I am 15 and i havnt gotton my first kiss yet either...dont worry...itll come...just dont force it, and dont wait for it. The right guy will come eventually, and you will be happy that he was ur first kiss. Just be yourself, and everything will fall in its place. :)Besides, at this age, guys are way too immature!!!

--jennifer

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So there is this guy named Randell and he is REALLY into me. HE calls me atleast 5 times a day just to let me know I'm the only one he's thinking about. He leaves really sweet messages on my phone about how he likes me. But the thing is I don't like him like that AT ALL. And I feel really bad because I even lied and told him I had a bf (I know i was wrong) So I don't know what to do or what to tell him. Tommorrow night I'm going to a very big party and he's going to be there. So I will have a chance to talk to him in person about "the situation."

Set him up straight. Tell him that you do not like it and never will. Tell him that you just want to remain friends, and nothing more. Dont go around the bushes, just say it. The longer you wait, the more he will get attached, and the more it will hurt. I hope i helped u with this situation. Have fun at the party!!!
xoxo
jennifer

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well i have a boyfriend that i love wiht all my heart. but i have a problem. i like two other guys. one of the guys is my best friend's boyfriend. he likes me too but i have a b/f and hes dating my friend. the other guy is my boyfriend's x-best friend. they can't stand each other now. but my boyfriend is kind of being a butt hole too. i don't really know what to do. i know this isnt really a clear question but i need advice on what to do with all these guys. please!!! just do your best to answer my question. it could be difficult.

thanks!

I think you should take a break from your boyfriend, and date around. You never know if your boyfriend is truly the one unless you look around. Who knows? Maybe you will find someone you love more! You are young!!! Enjoy it while it lasts!!

xoxo
jennifer

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hi. i was wondering what some really good ideas were to cook for ilke appetizers, then the main meal, then desert. i don't need the recipe i just need the names of the kind of food and i can look up a recipe.
thanks in advance :)
P.S. i don't like spaghetti and neither does my brother so that is out of the ? and no green vegetables other than green beans in anything plz?

For appetizer, try Shrimp cocktail. It taste great!!!! I love it!!!For the main meal, try beef, or veal, i guess. If not, go for chicken filled with cheese and ham. DESSERT!!! so much to choose from!!!! My favorite is the creme boule. It is originated from Paris but in the internet you can find the recipe. If not, then just bake a cake or a cheesecake. I hope i helped you!!!

xoxo
jennifer

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Last semester for me wasn't really well for me. I was without the person that I truly cared for and obviously missed. I know he has a g/f and I understand that and i KNOW he has a j.o.b. But, when i asked him about it some months ago, he said he was just being a guy b/c that's what guys do.And yeah, I called him my x,x b/f's b_____, but we've talked since then and we seem fine. But I don't get it, you know. How can you be friends with someone for nine months and tell them that they're your friend and that you love them, and totally ignore them for the next 3 months? How, why, and how do I deal with this? I'm ready to let go, and believe me I will for my sanity, but I don't want to. Why is he doing this?
Also, the same guy hooked me up with his friend? Why? Anyway, we went out for 5 months.And he ended up cheating on me with his x g/f. And I feel so screwed up now. I mean, I find myself thinking about him daily and this was like 5 months ago. I don't feel really passionately about him but for some reason I can't get rid of him in my mind and it bothers me so much. My x,x, b/f's friend (the one I'm having problems with) tells me that my x,x b/f wants me back. But he hasn't asked me b/c I look too mean. I don't know what I would do if he asked me out again.
I'm so lonely and desperate. My social life hasn't been that great and my life at home sucked so much. But I was fine as long as I had...as long as I had them. And,now they're gone and I feel so screwed when I usually am strong enough to deal w/ stuff like this. So, why does it hurt so much and how do I let go?

Sounds to me that u are so much better off without them. They are just causing drama in your life. Just let them go, and try to find sweeter guys, guys that you truly deserve. You dont want trash like that, they are only going to make it worse in the long run. So cry it out now, and just remember that tommorow is another day, and that when you have hit rock bottom, you can only go up. Dont feel desperate, because mister right is out there somewhere (not those two), and you will eventually find him. Hope i helped you!!!
xoxo
jennifer

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Is there any way to make your boobs look bigger? I know, awkward lol, but i'd love to know....

You can try the Victoria's Secret push up bra. It works!!!! Also, you could put cotton in your bras to make it look real. But i recommend the push up bra.

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My boyfriend and I hang out three times a week. Wednesday & Friday - after school & on Sunday. He doesn`t go to my school, so those are the only times I get to see him!

Since I`m on Christmas vacation, I REALLY want to hang out with him. Because, I`m home alone, and yeah.. it`s way too boring for me to handle.

His brother came in for Christmas, and he`s staying for two weeks. He`s been here now for, four days. Tomorrow is Friday & it`s our day to hang out. I asked him if just ME & HIM could do something. (I hung out with him and his brother on Wednesday & I was COMPLETELY BORED OUT OF MY MIND! I felt so uncomfortable!) Like, I asked if we could drive to a different town & you know, just like chill. =]

Am I being way too selfish? I just don`t want to sit around all day & watch tv with his brother, it`s the worst thing ever. Is it bad that I don`t want to hang out with his 27 year old, older brother?

I`m 17 & he`s 20.

Thank you, mucho!!!!

Yes and no... You can look at it both ways...Either, no you are not being selfish because he IS your bf and you have the right to be alone with him. Or yes u are because he never sees his brother and his brother is here for only 2 weeks. Which ever you prefer, just think about it...no need for drama, after all he is going to be gone in 2 weeks!!!!

xoxo
jennifer

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15/f. i like one of my guy friends and i don't know what to do. i want to tell him but i'm shy and i'm afraid that if he doesn't like me then it will be ackward between us and we couldn't be friends anymore.

also a lot of other girls like him too. like i know of 2 girls that have already told him that they liked him and he didn't feel the same way and then he doesn't talk to them anymore.

what should i do? and if you suggest that i tell him that i like him how should i do it?

thanks!

Only one thing to do...FLIRT!! Flirt with him like crazy. Guys like it when you play around with them. Also, that is a great way for you to get more confortable with him and he will eventually figure out that you like him. Also, by flirting, he might start to like you if he doesnt already.
xoxo
Jennifer!!!

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15/f. i'm missing a tooth. it is the one right next to my front teeth on my right side. i just got my braces off today so on my retainer the orthodontist attached a fake tooth so that when i wear my retainer it looks like i'm not missing a tooth. but what do i do when i eat lunch? is it bad to eat with a retainer in?

also is it weird to kiss with a retainer in? because i'd be too embarrassed to take it out.

thanks =]

Retainers arent that bad...You have to take them off when you eat and i suggest you also take it off when you are about to kiss someone. I hav had retainers. They may feel bad now, but you will get used to them in like a week...Dont be embarrased to take them off, if anyone makes any remarks just tell them "Wait until my teeth are perfect, you are gonna envy me!!!" After all, almost everyone has gona through that and dont mind!

Hope I helped!!!
Jennifer

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I'm 14/f and I'm usually very "in-style" and girly-- not sporty. I easily get cold. I am also outside a lot, but i absolutely hate hoodies and North Faces unless im just at school or something. Does anyone know a winter coat that looks lightweight, very warm, and not sporty at all? I prefer under $50 but I will go up to $75 if it's excellent quality.

Try Hollister, it has alot of warm, yet preppy clothing. If not, Abercombrie! These stores are totally in style now...and they have really good prices. I hope this helped!!

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I didn't know what category to put this in.
Hope that's k.


What's a good/free photo editor??

Thanks =)

try fxfoto. The web site is fxfoto.com. It is free!!! But i do higly recommend microsoft picture it...Thats my favorite!!! Hope this helped!!!

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what does it feel like to be high when you smoke pot? like.. how do you act? how do you feel? thanks!

Everyone reacts to pot differently...some act happy and dont stop talking. Some are quiet and shy. A lot of times you forget things and put your worries away. Its like getting drunk, only more dangerous. I DO NOT recommend you do it since it is addictive, and CAN cause cancer...

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