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How can i get past this
Me and this boy used to date. We really liked each other a lot, things went wrong and friends got in the way, we both got hurt end of story. We always feel diff.about each other at dif times.and its been like 6 months since we broke up/ We been hanging out a lot lately, and we got into this jealousy fight, and then i just spilled it all out that i liked him. He pretty much said what i just said, i hurt him before, and he never knows how i feel, but he has thought about us gettin back together. We hung out the past two days, flirt soo much, but nothing more. I know i cant force something to happen, but i know somewhere inside of him he likes me, and im sometimes afraid to show him howw much i like him cause i dont want things to feel awkward for him, and just rush things and f*** it up. But idk, we might hang out tm. I jsut need to get some advice on what to do from here, i dont wanna hear juts wait it out, i wanan hear from someone who has once been in this situatoin and got past it. Like in my mind im thinkin talk to him about it in person, then see what happens, instead of the comp like we have been
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hey, i think that on the comptuer you should let him know that next time you guys see each other you want to talk about your relationship. letting him know will give him some time to prepare and be ready for the talk. once you see him let him know how you feel and dont hold back. he deserves to know what your thinking inside. let him talk too and hear his side of the story. hopefully from there you guys can work it out and make a descison. good luck =].
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you should tell him how you feel. be honest because he deserves to know. and if it freaks him out give him time. hes a guy they exaggerate. if he feels the same you will know. and if he doesnt then dont waste your time because hes not worth your love
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Hi honey,
I have been in your shoes before. Men are hard to figure out and the last thing you want to do is scare him away. If you both have feelings for each other things will work themselves out if you play it right.
First..spend time with him and let him talk about the things he likes and act like you are interested in them. Always try to make him feel like a million bucks when you are with him and make him want to spend time with you. If you brighten his day he will want to be around you. If you are constantly fussing at him or complaining he won't want to be around that.
Try to always make the environment you are in a fun one. Make him laugh. The best thing you can do is be yourself.
Goodluck and keep me posted as to how it goes.
Wrain
Talking to him in person would be better than talking to him on the computer. The computer is not a good medium because you can't hear their voice or see their facial expressions. When you do talk to him in person, just tread lite and remember, always make him feel like a million bucks, keep him laughing and act like you are interested in what he has to say. Men like to talk about themselves and in the beginning, we have to act like we are interested. Play it cool and if you really want this guy, you can hook him.
Good luck and keep me posted.
Wrain
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talk to him. ask him where ur relationship with him is heading. Sometimes its better to ask the person, than to just guess. Also, just wait, and keep flirting, maybe he need times to think. Alot of things that we dont know go thru a guy's head. If you want, you can make the first move, since you think that he likes you. Just have patience, and you will see that if its meant to be, it will happen.
xoxo
jennifer
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