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Is he worth fighting for?
Hi well im having troubles,i really feel i love my ex boyfriend.We had a really intense relationship and it got to the point we actually said we LOVED eachother and meant it.He is a "player" he has had many girlfriends in his life and im the calm girl who only has had him.He did so many things for me,he went back to school...and my parents(specially my mom) didnt like him and he fought against them until he was given permission to be my boyfriend,NOT MANY GUYS ACTUALLY STAY WHEN PARENTS GIVE THEM A HARD TIME.The point is that it has been five months since we broke up,we have talked...and in our first conversation after we broke up he made it seem that he wanted to get back together but he hasnt done anything.He did do a lot,he lied to my parents and lied to me,Making up the lie that he got his ex girl pregnat which after he told me that he did it to "test" me.I feel that we broke up because he missed being single.I still love him and.But is he really worth fighting for?? or should i just forget about him and move on??Please help me
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girl you better go fight for your man.if you love someone enough you wouldnt let him go .Theres olny one person in this world for everyone.So tak to hi ask him how he feelsabut getting back togethrYou sound like you care about him enough that you would fight.Neither one of you has hooked up with another person.And here is a bg helper that i wish i would of notices a year ago when this happened to me .when you love someone you never stop.its like they have a chain around your heart.but before you go on your battle make sure you REALLYlove him,and he TRULY loves you !!!!!
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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hey, you need to move on. you DONT need a guy like him in your life. if he needed to test you and your relationship then there is a big red flag right there. he didnt want to stay in the relationship so he tried covering it up by making up lies and HE LIED TO YOUR PARENTS TOO! thats a big no-no. good luck =].
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im not exactly sure hes worth fighting for. testing you is a way to look for trouble in the relationship, you should move on. hes a playa .. and its hard to get a playa to forget the game. if he initiates getting back together and he proves that he really wants to work at your relationship then go for it otherwise find someone else.
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Honesty is the single most important ingredient in any relationship, more so even than love. This guy is a liar, and he lies about very important things. Furthermore, he seems to think that his lies are justified.'not be the kind of relationship you want.
Move on, but don't forget him. REMEMBER him so that you will recognize his type in the future, and avoid them like the plague they are.
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Girl....RUN. There are to many men out there to be playing with a "player". If he played others he will play you and like the previous answer you received, a relationship without trust is not a relationship. You may think you loved this guy but my guess is that you loved the things he may have done for you and you wanted to prove to the other girls that he was YOUR man. I am sure some of the girls he has "played" were actually glad that he hooked up with someone else and finally left them alone. Women get tired of that and let me tell you, it only gets worse, they do not get better.
Move on and find a man out there that will love you for your and not put you through "test" that was a lie in itself. Don't waste anymore precious tears over this jerk. Let him be someone elses problem!
Good luck to you and let me know how it goes.
Wrain
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I think that you should totally MOVE ON!!!! its been 5 months now, and im sure that you have met better guys. If he lied to you to "test" you, then screw him! Love needs no tests. Love itself is a test, and you do not need someone in your life to hand you even more tests. If he lied to you, then you cannot trust him. And a relationship in nothing without trust. Sure he did alot of good thing for you, but he also did alot of bad things. And the bad overcomes the good. If he is a player, then it wont last. Believe me it wont. I kno alot of players, i am related to a couple of players. He will cheat on you or leave you for someone. PLayers get tired quickly. So he is not worth ur time, and will just bring more drama into your life. Forget about him and find a special gentleman that will NEVER lie to you. After all, there is plenty of fish in the sea. Hope i helped you, and know that if you need anymore help, you can ask me!
xoxo
jennifer
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