So my boyfriend just left yesterday to go on a triop with his friends (guys and girls) for a week..and he called tnite saying he was at a bar..i am worried he's gonna meet some girls and cheat..is there anyway to make myself not so worried?
mariahwannabe answered Friday December 29 2006, 9:15 am: Hey.Hey.Hey!!
If you love him and vice versa and you trust him and vice versa things should be fine.You should trust him, especially if he trusts you.It's not very nice is it, imagine how you'd feel if your boyfriend wasnt sure if you'd go out and meet someone and cheat, not very nice feeling eh?Let him know you trust him , I'm sure you have nothing to worry about.But I guess those thoughts would go through my mind too, us women are liike that!.But you'll be fine, you'll see.
Dont expect the worst him!Have faith, he loves you
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xXxPorschexXx answered Friday December 29 2006, 8:57 am: You should worry if he loves you then there is no way he would cheat. He sounds unique as not many guys call their girlfriend to tell them where he is. If you are relly worrid call him later and ask him how it went tonight. Hearing him will reasure how much you love each other and then you will realise there was no point in worrying about it. Relax hun he wouldnt.
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AMYGWENDOLiNExO answered Friday December 29 2006, 3:43 am: Hey!
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To help you calm down, you should definitely call him instead of waiting for him. Hearing his voice will help. I always get scared that my boyfriend [who`s 24 & i`m 16] will meet girls at bars, because I`m not there and like flirt with them & what not.
It`s just a matter of trust. You have got to trust him, otherwise you`ll always be scared when he goes out, and that`s not right. When he gets back explain how you feel to him, and get his input. He`ll probably laugh & tell you that he loves you, & only you. Then you won`t worry again, hopefully!
iloveaar answered Friday December 29 2006, 1:59 am: be thankful that he called and told you where he was , when he could have lied about it he didn't so that's a good sign he really trust you =) dnon't worry keep your self distracted until hes back again..go out with friends hang out etc! so you would have no time to be wondering if he'll cheat hope it helped =)
xxlilreddivaxx answered Friday December 29 2006, 1:28 am: Trust him. If he truly cares about you, he will do nothing to hurt you. A relationship is nothing without trust. Just think positive, and stay away from the negative thoughts. At least he called oyu and told you he was at a bar. Not alot of guys do that. They just go and dont tell their gfs. So hold on to him, because you have someone special and unique.
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