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I dont like him the way he likes me
So there is this guy named Randell and he is REALLY into me. HE calls me atleast 5 times a day just to let me know I'm the only one he's thinking about. He leaves really sweet messages on my phone about how he likes me. But the thing is I don't like him like that AT ALL. And I feel really bad because I even lied and told him I had a bf (I know i was wrong) So I don't know what to do or what to tell him. Tommorrow night I'm going to a very big party and he's going to be there. So I will have a chance to talk to him in person about "the situation."
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Make sure that when you talk to him, don't talk to him like where theres a bunch of people talking and like where it's loud. See if you can go to a quiet place and talk, it will be much easier for him to understand you. Just say "Hey Randell, I really appreciate those messages that you left for me. I know that you care a lot about me, but I don't want to pursue a relationship with you. You're a sweet guy, but I just don't feel the same way towards you as you feel towards me." Say something like that. Be calm, and don't rush when you talk just so that you can get back to the party and act like this never happened. Look into his eyes and show him that you are serious. Hopefully, he'll understand.
Good luck! xx :]
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tell him; "i dont want to jeberdise our friendship so i think we should just be friends. i am really sorry"
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♥ Flaggal
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Hi hon,
The absolute best thing you can do is to let Randell know that the extent of your feeling for him is friends. Don't lead him on any longer letting him think that it is or could be more. He sounds like he might be a really cool guy and may make a great friend you just need to let him know this from jump.
Tomorrow night at the party, just sit him down and explain it to him. Let him know that you really like him as a friend and that you would like to remain good friends with him. If he cannot accept this, than it is his loss, but better to be honest with him than not.
Good luck and let me know how it goes
Wrain
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Set him up straight. Tell him that you do not like it and never will. Tell him that you just want to remain friends, and nothing more. Dont go around the bushes, just say it. The longer you wait, the more he will get attached, and the more it will hurt. I hope i helped u with this situation. Have fun at the party!!!
xoxo
jennifer
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just tell him that your flater by the way he treats you but you really dont want a relationship right now and you don't wanna ruin your friendshÃp hope he get the idea and don't get hurt =)
Diane
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You really have to let him know as soon as possible that you aren't romantically interested in him. Telling him that kind of thing at a party is kind of a bummer...are you going to see him tomorrow before the party? That might be less painful for him. Just let him know that it's sweet that he likes you, but you don't like him in that way. It's going to be awkward for both of you, but it's really for the best.
Good luck!
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If you don't wanna hurt his feelings, sayy..'Are friendship means too much to me, if we ever dated, it'd ruin it." if he trys to sa it won't..say, yu've seen it happen& just insist it would.
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