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well i have a boyfriend that i love wiht all my heart. but i have a problem. i like two other guys. one of the guys is my best friend's boyfriend. he likes me too but i have a b/f and hes dating my friend. the other guy is my boyfriend's x-best friend. they can't stand each other now. but my boyfriend is kind of being a butt hole too. i don't really know what to do. i know this isnt really a clear question but i need advice on what to do with all these guys. please!!! just do your best to answer my question. it could be difficult.
thanks!
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Allow me to comment on the three guys one at a time:
(1) Your best friend's current boyfriend: Do not pursue him. Best friends' boyfriends are off-limits. If you're determined to go after him, have the decency to first tell your friend how you feel about him. There's a slim chance that she might actually WANT to break up with him and would give you her blessing (but don't count on it). Bottom line is, if you go after a friend's boyfriend, you will lose that friend. That is hardly ever worth it. Among guys, we have a saying: "Don't put gals before pals".
(2) Your best friend's ex: This guy is fair game, but once again, you probably ought to talk to your friend first. This time, it's not for her sake - it's for yours. She might be willing to share some insight on the guy, whether for good or ill. Also, there's a reason why they broke up; if he's dishonest or treats girls badly, that would be a good thing to know before going after him. Since she "can't stand him", it would probably be a good idea to find out why that is. Also, remember that you probably won't be going out on any double dates with her as long as you're bringing him.
(3) Your current: You say you love him with all your heart. Forgive me, but you seem to be awfully casual about considering other possibilities if that's the case. I don't doubt you have strong feelings for your current boyfriend, but be honest with yourself about those feelings - are they as strong as all that?
As far as how he's acting, that's something you need to confront him about. Believe it or not, guys sometimes don't realize it when they're being thoughtless or selfish. Talk to him and tell him what he's doing that you don't like. His reaction may determine whether you want to stay with him or not.
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I think you should take a break from your boyfriend, and date around. You never know if your boyfriend is truly the one unless you look around. Who knows? Maybe you will find someone you love more! You are young!!! Enjoy it while it lasts!!
xoxo
jennifer
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can you imagine how will it be to be without your boyfriend??...that can really answer some of your questions maybe you don't want anything serios or you guys just missed that spark , make him understand that he might be loosing you so he'll do what he has done to get your heart...i know sounds weird but hope it works =)
Diane
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