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hey, 2morro is halloween, and i was wondering, wat would b some things yu could do with a couple friends? we're in 8th gradeee. thx =) (link)
dress up go out in a group of friends...get eggs...screw around you kno play round...go in to ppl houses
scare ppl off...or you could go in to a party...halloween party dressed in costume and dance and stuff u kno just chillax..xoxo effy


i have this really long closet...and im just wondering if there is any ways i can re-organize... (link)
well you could put in one side ur shirts...in one side ur pants...in one spot all ur skirts
and in a corner ur shoes...and sandels and w/e xoxo effy hope i helped


I am having a hard time meeting people at the university I go to, and I'm not sure why. My friends say I walk too fast and that I'm unapproachable because I don't always speak first. I am a little shy, but I would really like to make some friends because most of the people I know recently dispersed to schools in other states/cities. I do talk to people when I can, but it just doesn't seem to develop into a friendship where we could hang out anywhere but school. Is there anything more I can do? Thanks. (link)
hi, well when u have time during classes dont walk so fast...and when someone talks to you or you end up talkin to someone...b like "hey do you wanna do something this weekend" or "wut u planning on doing this weekend" or w/e and they'll tell you and if u ask the 2nd one...u might get invited in to their plans...so why not...give it a try...dont b 2 shy ;) just dont worry bout 2 much stuff...go out there and have fun ;) live it up..xoxo effy


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hey i wear contacts and i really want colored ones..but im not sure what color would look good on me..is there any way to try it out without buying them first..? Oh and if you think you know a good color..please let me know..I am indian with tan skin..dark brown hair and i have dark brown eyes! thanks! (link)
hi, yes they let you try em first...and you decide...wut i think willl look good is the honey ones...hmmm and may b green ones...give it a try...try em both and see which one looks better...i've colored contancts...and they let you choose em and try em on and see how they look on you and everything ;) so...xoxo effy


13 - female

I started my period about 9 months ago and I know that it takes about a year or 2 to get into an exact cycle..but how do you know when you're gonna have your period..because I don't wanna have a leak at school or something and not know about it until I get home! Please help! (link)
hmm well lot of ppl get cramps...or just moody, or their boobs hurt...or the back hurts...b4 i get them i get mad cramps, my back hurts, and my legs 2....i've hurd boobs hurt to but it never happend to me...only once...and it was kinda weird...but yah...hope i helped! xoxo effy


Hi okay this might sound dumb but, whats a g*string? please help me! i rate high ~ (link)
hi,a thong! lmao xoxo effy


I'm 15/f ... and I liked a certain guy last year... and once i was talking to him and he totally crushed me, he said he wanted to go out with me, and then told me he was just kidding. Well he went out with another girl. Well I thought i would never have feelings for him again since he was so mean. Well yesterday he broke up with this girl, and I still have feelings for him- strong feelings. What do I do?! (link)
hi, well i would let him kno how i felt...and if he liked me and w/e then yah w/e happens happens...you kno start talkin w/e...but if he doesnt feel the same then forget his ass....if u let him kno you got nothing to losse anyways...so why not?!?!... if ur 2 shy to tell him up to his face...then write it in a note or tell him through aim...or something like that...or to start wit b4 u do all that...talk to him as friends and flirt a lil ;) (may b alot) and see wussuh :))) xoxo effy


Well my boyfriend is acting really strange...well he always act like he doesnt want to do anything with me i always have to make the plans...he doesnt call me....he doesnt ask to meet me places accept for at times that is really not a good time...and i call him all the and he doesnt pick up unless i send a text message saying PICK UP YOUR PHONE...and i think that is very unacceptable i dont want to take up tooo muck of your time but please help HELP (link)
hi, DUMP HIS A$$!!!! how do you stand him? if it was me...G i would've dumped his ass long time ago...why do you need someone like that? someone that is not there when you need him...someone that doesnt call you unless you dont call them...someone that basically doesnt give a shit...break up wit him and dont talk to his ass ever again...u kiddin me...you call that a b/f? damn i'm sorry but that just pissed me off...."and i call him all the and he doesnt pick up unless i send a text message saying PICK UP YOUR PHONE." think about it...and break up! xoxo effy


hey...my friend wants to know how u can tell if ur bi! plz help..thanx!! (link)
lol i guess if ur a girl and u've feelings or w/e for another girl...and u have feelings for guys 2 then thats how u bi.lmao(dats a guess) xoxo effy


hey well i hear people calling people dooshbags. like theyll be like omg you dooshbag! well... wats a dooshbag? (link)
thats sometihng a girl cleans their vagina wit lol xoxo effy


What are some good ways of curing boredom? (link)
talk on sa phone, watch tv, go online,eat lol , go oout xoxo effy


Hay effie! You are sooo pretty and you have an awesome body. How do you keep in such good shape? Any tips? Thanks!!
-Emily- (link)
hi Emily, thanks for the compliments..:-D that just made my day rite there :) lol...hmmm well i use to b out of shape like 3-4 yrs ago...and what really helped me is the class i had in perosnal fitness..we had to run a mile almost everyday...like 3 dayz a week..and also i use to do crunches and dance in my room and i lost lot of weight...since then i'vent done anything relly to keep in shape i just dont eat as much junk food and when i do eat i just dance round to like loose wut i ate...hope i helped ;) xoxo effy


whats that song by nelly and tim mcgraw??? (link)
over and over again...got to google...write the title down it will give u mad websites wit it ;) xoxo effy


I'm 15 and female and I've never kissed a guy. I go to an all-girls Catholic high school, and I haven't kept up with ANY of my very few guy friends from when I went to co-ed schools.

*reads question, cringes at own stupidity*

So . . . how can I meet new people? I have a lot of really great friends, but it would be nice to meet some new people, and possibly get a boyfriend.

Any ideas? (link)
hi, well its ok that u'vent kissed a guy...my first kiss was at age 15...time will come no worrys bout that....and bout meeting new ppl...go out wit friends...meet new ppl by i dunno going out and being outgoing...dont b shy and stuff :) and hmmm i dunno things like that xoxo effy


i jus moved to another skool and ive been there for like three weeks and everyone seems nice...but thats not the problem...all of my friends from my old skool seem to always seemed to b pissed at me!!it kinda seems like there happy that i moved! i tryed to talk to them and they all r sayin that ive changed big time scence i moved...i dont think i did!i really want to keep my friends but they seem to not wanna keep me ...HELP!!!
i rate good! (link)
hi, well listen when ppl move...they start a new life...new everything...you'll have ur old friends...but it wont b the same trust me even though you want to...just try to make as much new freinds as possible and pay more attention to ur new friends...to the ones ur gonna spend time with then the old ones...i'm not sayin forget the old ones ...but dont worry bout wut they say so much...b/c with time you'll see that nothing will bring you guys together b/c you guys wont know eachother like you use to...you wont kno everything thats going on like you use to ...so just spend time with your new friends and have fun...and live life to the fullest...dont worry to much bout what ppl say ;) xoxo effy


Ok see i have this friend and we have known each other since we were little. For the last two years he has liked me and i dont know if i like him i tryed to go out with him once but i dont know i felt weird, so i broke up with him and never told anyone i went out with him. But see if he is going out with someone else i suddenly get jelgous and want to be his gurlfriend but when he isnt going out i dont really like him as much. It just really confusses me please i need someone to help me (link)
hi, well i totally understand you...what happens is that you care for him...and you like him as a person and as a friend a lot...you like his friendship and also his attention towards you...you dont like it when he goes out with someone else...b/c even though u dont relly like him as a b/f you want his attnetion b/c you like it..its ok...and its normal b/c it has happend to me b4...no worrys you'll get use to it wit time...or when u go out wit someone else you wont care no more ;)...or there's a posibility that you might like him without knowing...which i dont relly think so b/c ur ssayin when he is not going out wit anyone u dont feel the same way...so its prolly what i was talkin bout erlier...no worrys ;) it will b ight ;) xoxo effy


i need to fake being sick to get out of skool tomarrow!!!! what should i do!! i need sum good ideas to get me out of the play tomarrow!!! i dont kno my lines!! (link)
hi, well i dunno who u need to b fake to to the deans at school or to ur parents when they come and pick u up...well, when i wanna fake something...which i've done it once lol...i started pretending like my period came and i had mad cramps...and i did the face like my stomache was hurting real bad....and when the nurse of the school asked me whats wrong i said..."i got mad cramps" so she goes call ur house or w/e so i call and mah mom picks up ( i usually have mad cramps so thats nothing new) so i told her wit a low voice "mom, come and pick me up plz...i've mad cramps" so she goes ok...and it worked...then i kept this face like something was wrong...like a mad face sad face...if u kno what i mean..and dats it :-D lol for me it worked lol i dunno...give it a try...xoxo effy


Is it ok to aproach a guy like makeing out if you not dating? Please HELP


sara (link)
yes i think u could hook up even though ur not dating..and then if the guy likes u and u feel the same...then u guys can start dating ;) xoxo effy


Well, i know this question gets asked a lot of times, but i really need help. i need it now too. i need to lose weight. i want to go on a strictly water and fruit and veggies diet. i run 15 mins a day on a tredmill, i do pilates 3 times a week. i need to lose 30 lbs by christmas... what else can i do ? (link)
damn...well i lost 30lbs by exercising...and runiing 1 mile 3 times a week...and exercising and doing crunches and stuff...also i didnt eat much...basically u eat helthy food...like salads and fruits and stuff...basically dats it...dats all i did and i lost it...if u do dat i'm sure u will to..xoxo effy


my g/f tld me 2day tht she felt different abt wen we made out n tht she didnt luv me as much as she used to..n thn i tld her how i felt n she said((no joke))o well i luv u but not as much as i used to...wat shuld i do? (link)
give her some time...see how she feels...if it doesnt work out...i'm sorry dont worry bout it though ;) just try to forget it and hang round wit diff ppl n meet new gurls....if it works out then :) i'm happy for u :)xoxo effy




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