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Boyfriend Help
Well my boyfriend is acting really strange...well he always act like he doesnt want to do anything with me i always have to make the plans...he doesnt call me....he doesnt ask to meet me places accept for at times that is really not a good time...and i call him all the and he doesnt pick up unless i send a text message saying PICK UP YOUR PHONE...and i think that is very unacceptable i dont want to take up tooo muck of your time but please help HELP
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Well by da sounds of ur letter, it sounds pretty serious. b4 u do anythang,confront him! ask ur boyfriend why he's been acting so strange. and if worst comes 2 worst,there r plenty of other fish in da sea!!!
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a few years ago, i had a boyfriend of 2 months...(i know, not a long time, but it was for me at that time.) we had a basketball game during school. he wasnt old enough to play yet, but he was really into basketball...the whole day he ignored me...he usually would talk to me and eat lunch with me and everything guys should do..but he ran off and left me at lunch. his best friend was even worried. 2 weeks later he broke up with me. i dont want to hurt your feelings but maybe he's just a normal guy who cant settle down with a nice girl for crap. i think maybe you should break up with him...that might get him to thinking about what he lost. and if he doesnt want you back then maybe its not ment to be. hope i helped!
lovealot06
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Look dumb the little boy. If you have to be his mom then hes not worth it. And of course this is unacceptable. He is supposed to be chasing you not you chasing him.
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Talk to him. If that doesn't work, break up with him or deal with it. Sorry hun, but you can only change people so much. And if this is "strange" and he's not usually like this, then he may be cheating on you and spending time with someone else.
I'll pray for you and your boyfriend.
-Farren
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We are not meant to chase after guys like that. I have had so many guys pull that with me. He usually is the one who started the relationship and so in the beginning he calls all the time and eventually I start calling occasionally...then he gets used to it and its always my responsibility to call. As things go on, he stops picking up his phone and makes up random ass excuses why he didn't pick up. I get pissed and just end it...and they wonder why. I have a list of guys calling and there is no reason why I should run after one fool because he likes to be chased. Don't call him. If he's your boyfriend he should be more considerate. Threaten him and tell him that if he doesn't change its over. If he refuses to change, move on. Now some guys are just like that by nature...but they're not going to improve...so if it already annoys you now...think about it a long time from now. I can't deal with irresponsibility...so those guys are immediately crossed off my list. Be confident always and know that things should either be equal (with regards to calling and making plans) or if anything he should be chasing after you. That's the ways its always been and how it always should be. A bit old fashioned, but its the truth.
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play hard to get. let him know that what he has isn't forever if ignored, and what he's in danger of losing. best way to get a guy's attention while your dating him is to be seen smiling around another hot guy.
best of luck
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i think that is very unacceptable too. i can tell you really like him, but u have to make sure he is in it as much as you are. belive me i have been exactly where you are now, when you give a guy ur all, and hes just not giving it back. you need to think about it, and talk to him, see if he is still in for it, if not then its time for you to let him go, thought it may hurt, and if he says he is just busy lately, try setting up a date he cant bail on. good luck
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I'm sorry to say this but I don't think this dude is into you! Dump him and find someone more caring and better. [Hope I helped]
-Emily-
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In my opinion, he's probably just "one of those types of guys." There's a lot of guys out there like that, they're pains in the asses!! Good luck!
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ok i had this same problem with an EX ok you see it was just like that with my EXEX l0l like he neva called me and he neva picked the phone up and that stuuff two i delt with it for a wile to see if h would get anymore respectful and start actully treattin me but he didnt s0o i got sick and tired of it i mean i liked him but he was so not treating me right so one day i just decided to break up with him because i got tired of it ! and i have had 2 boyfriends since him it actully worked out i mean right now i am even with this one guy i really like ! hope i helped !
XoXoBaByXoXo
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Try dropping hints, for example: you,"hey, call me tomorrow we'll hang out or something". If that doesn't work, you're going to have to tell him the truth. You'll have to tell him you're tired of being the only one putting effort into the relationship. Good Luck hunny.
-Rachel.
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i think maybe your boyfriend needs some space let him do what he wants wit his buddies for a weekend. its sounds like ur crowding him alot back off for a little ask him if he wants to do something with you dont tell him hes gonna do something with you he may even end up breaking up with you because your being just a little to bossy give him some space!.[[bLonDii]]
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Instead of asking him to pick up the phone, ask him what's going on. Let him know what he's doing is unacceptable. You've gotta set limits with your guy. Tell him you want him to call you sometime and let him know you feel like you're doing all the work in the relationship. You've gotta work together to make a relationship work. One person cannot do it.
Sounds like a communication problem to me. That's a HUGE relationship killer. You two need to talk about what's going on - you need to tell him what's going through your head, and you need to find out what's going through his. Communicate, communicate, COMMUNICATE!!!
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Well, i was wondering... how did your boyfriend ask you out??? If he doesn't ask you in person, that usually means that he doesn't have a lot of confidence and you don't want a guy that is cautious about stuff like that... And have you ever considered the he may not like you or is cheating on you??? No offense or anything, but it sounds like he isn't that into you... why don't you try talking to him in person and see what he thinks. If he just ignores you, then i should say, just dump him!
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Oh, dear. Did your boyfriend always act like this? He could be going behind your back with someone and ignoring you so you won't get suspicious. He could be tired of you, or Maybe you just need to back off. Maybe he isn't in the happiest mood which we all get in sometimes. Just lay off him for a while, he'll come around.
Hope I helped
xo0x adriana :)
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hi, DUMP HIS A$$!!!! how do you stand him? if it was me...G i would've dumped his ass long time ago...why do you need someone like that? someone that is not there when you need him...someone that doesnt call you unless you dont call them...someone that basically doesnt give a shit...break up wit him and dont talk to his ass ever again...u kiddin me...you call that a b/f? damn i'm sorry but that just pissed me off...."and i call him all the and he doesnt pick up unless i send a text message saying PICK UP YOUR PHONE." think about it...and break up! xoxo effy
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i think hes tryin to ditch you..no offence but he may be cheatin or something apperantly he dosent want to be around you and your right thats not acceptable you need to let him go!...talk to him bout this 1st tho and see whats rly goin on
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