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so live like you mean it,

love til you feel it

it's all that we need in our lives.

so stand on the edge with me,

hold back your fear and see

nothing is real til it's gone.

& hold on before it's too late,

well run til we leave this behind.

don't fall just be who you are,

it's all that we need in our lives.

♥ ♥ ♥





i'm britney. i'm seventeen, and just got out of a long term relationship. :( i'm here to give advice whether you use it or not. anything else, just leave in my inbox.

advice

can a girl get pregnant from dry humping?
if he is naked and shes only wearing underwear? :/

it's very very unlikely.

unless your underwear slip off or something other then that it cant just go thru the underwear and go all the way in your vagina. so im pretty sure your safe.

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im confused can some1 explain to me whats 1st base 2nd base etc...in love life..thanks alot!

1st base-making out
2nd base-getting felt up [fingering & handjobs]
3rd base-oral sex [sucking it and eating out]
4th base-sex

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I am 13, female. I have a female art teacher who I have a crush on. No one but me knows yet. Since it is almost at the end of the school year (week and a half untill last day), I wanted to send an email or note or something similar to her after school was out and tell what I feel about her. My question is this: Should I send her the email or not?

your probably just going thru a stage right now. i wouldn't send her a e-mail or anything because that would just make things not good. she's probably a lot older then you and no affence you probably wouldn't have a chance. just let things go. if you ARE a lesbian try getting with someone your age. but like i said you could be just going thru a stage i'm not sure.

hope everything goes well.

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me & my boyfriend have been together for almost 7 months.
we havent done more than like make out and feel up.
(btw were both 14).
i need some more things for us to do,like games & stuff.
im thinking about letting him finger me but im not sure yet.
i dont AT ALL wanna go past that.
please gimme ideas.
thanks ...=]

if you don't wanna go past that it's fine. sexual things isn't just a relationship. watch movies and cuddle, go walking or bike riding together. go out to dinner. that stuff is just as fun as doing sexual things.

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What do you do when your best friend is a lesbian?!?!?!?!



thanks in advance!

you should be a good friend and not let it bother you. that's the best thing to do. comfort her and make her feel like it's alright. i know it's different and weird but if she doesn't hit on you odds are you wont even notice. just go on like you did before you knew.

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My boyfriend and I have been having sex for the passed couple of months. Everything is going great, but I want to find new ways to turn him on. Any ideas?

you don't need sex to be the only way to turn someone on. my boyfriend just turns me on when he smiles. that's corney and all but it's true. i don't know what your boyfriend likes and everything but the little stuff is the best for me, like rubbing my back or something. i just think that stuff is adorable. try something like that.

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if you don't follow the trend, why are you wearing abercrombie in your picture... just wondering.

i like it.
it's MY choice.
thank you.

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ok well my parents have a huge rule about boyfriends and Sex. but ive had a boyfriend for months now and im thinking about having sex with him. What do you think i should do should i do it...i really cant figure this out on my own.

well if YOU want too then go ahead. if you honestly think your ready to give it up and all. i understand your parents would be disapointed and everything but mostly likely they wouldn't find out. unless you went to a gynacologist, but i think they gotta keep those thing secret. so if you're ready, go ahead.

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13/f

okay i am having horrible horribile cramps right now [i'm on my period.. hehe]. like worse than ever. what can make that go away? & bloating too?

midol!
it works great. :) believe it or not the more physical you are the less cramps you have. my doctors told me that. so try walking or something, and if it still hurts i suppose to lay down cause we could be different. feel better.

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my friend liked me, so my other freinds helped him ask me out. this is my first real boyfriend. i said yes. he was really, really, really happy. this happened today. i dont want to m/o with him, just like be friends still basically just like idk. he like lovessss me. its fine talking to him online, i feel akward talking to him in person. i dont know what to do. omfg help.

If you do like him try things out. If you don't I wouldn't make it last anymore. I'd much rather be dumped if my boyfriend didn't really like me. He might be upset but he'll understand eventually. I know it's probably weird because you were friends and such first just see if anything gets better.

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Hey ima 13/f and i these dreams at night ware ima lezbian and dont get me wrong or judge me okay. But i dont think its just my dreams i think its accualy getting to me i think im a lezbian and like for some odd reason i have the erdge to touch other women and i have tolled my friends well kind cuz im afraid that if i tell them that they wont wanna hang out with me anymore but please help me
Love,
think ima you know....:(

there's nothing wrong with being a lesbian. but just like everyone else said you're young. you probably don't even know what you want at the time. you can want to experiment with different things and are curious. nothing is wrong with that, we ALL pretty much go thru it. if your friends are true friends you should be able to tell them anything and telling them wont change anything. just see how things go. if you continue having these dreams, and want to touch girls for a long time then try it sometime if you can. see if you like it, and if you don't maybe your not. AH. i don't know sorry. good luck?

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okay so theres this guy that i like alot.
&&i want to go out with him so badd !
but besidess that i think i'm in love with him.
how do you know when your in love?

thanks
--Ashley

well i can't really give you good advice about this one but it's kinda un-explainable. you just sorta know. you feel so happy when you're with that person. you get all mushy inside. i don't know though because i can also be describing liking someone alot. so this advice isn't really good because it's not something you can really explain. you just know. try and go out with him. :) tell him how you feel! and good luck.

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Ok, on the weekend I had my 2 best guy mates over and my best girl mate. I've known for a long time that one of my guy mates who I will call Ben likes me and if I was single I would probably like him back. But I have a boyfriend. So I had them over and my girly friend and the other guy went off and Ben went and lied down on my mum's bed coz he was feeling sick(we were all very drunk). I went and lied with him because I was bored with no-one to talk to. We fell asleep in the early hours after a nice talk. Next thing I know I wake up and he's moaning my name and grinding himself against my butt and leg. I was still half asleep so I just rolled over and went back to sleep...Wake up I don't know how long later and he's trying to finger me. I moved and went back to sleep again and nothing more happened.I didnt really think much of it the next morning coz I was so tired and hungover but i've been thinking about it now and it makes me sick! I told my boyfriend and he wants me to go to the police and if not he wants his name and number and shit so he can get him bashed!! But the thing is, I dont blame Ben becoz he was drunk and here I am lying next to him, it mustve been pretty tempting because he does like me, and the thing is I don't blame him! But I know the right thing to do is go to the police...Please Help me :S

i wouldn't go to the police. first of all he's one of your best guy friends. he probably would hate you. people do stupid things when they're dtunk and it was probably one of those stupid things. ask him if he meant to do it. odds are he wont even remember. i can see why your boyfriend got mad and stuff that's understandable. but you pretty much called for it. two drunk people in a bed, anything can happen. but i wouldn't go to the police or even have him beat up. just talk to him and tell him he did that and you didn't appreciate it.

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theres this old song that i realllly want to get off of itunes, but i dont know the name. It goes...."I saw you last night at a hotel......"

i love that song. picture by sheryl crow & kid rock.

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if u were a tampon do you lose your virginity

hahahhaha. not at all.

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i wear and a and im 15. all my friends wear a c-d and alot of them are 12-13 years old. someone please tell me how to make my boobs grow!

there's unfourtiently no way you can. those pills don't work and they're dumb and aren't good. just like everyone else said just have to wait it out. sorry.

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i have a stomach ache because of my period. it's on and off. i already took motrin to help stop the pain, but it's still there. i don't wanna go to school tomorrow feeling bad, but i can't afford to miss another day since our finals are getting closer and i've missed enough days. what can i do?

uh i feel the same way. try midol that works great. i'd go to sleep early too, because that way you can be rested. i hope you feel better.

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I apologize for the length.
I have a bad cold first of all. So in this matter it probably only makes the pain worse.
I have 2 large hard spots on my abdomen about 2 inches (each side) away from my belly button and it connects down below my pantsline
(about 3 inches from my belly button.)
I also believe that I have contracted a UTI or bladder infection. (I've never had one before.)
I have pain when urinating and often feel the urge to constantly urinate, even after I go.
I have a history of ovarian cysts and i had one the size of a tennis ball a few years back.
The other day i remember myself having some ovarian pain but ignored it as it is usually normal for me.
Thursday me and my b/f had sex. Unprotected and we used baby oil as lube (we usually do this as it hasnt harmed me that I nknow of, well i recently found out that the baby oil we used had aloe in it. I am allergic to aloe. Later that night he fingered me.
Friday, I woke up and urinated, and the took a shower, I felt fine, about 10 minutes later i felt this sharp pain like i had to pee. I went and expierienced the awful pain. I avoided peeing that day and drank water at a constant rate. it wasnt as bad and I took some AZO pills to help. Saturday (today) the pills stopped helping and I realized that I had these hard areas in my belly. I know on monday to see a doctor even if i feel better, but until then what should I do? Ive taken plenty of vitamins to help, but im still in pain.

well it could have been the alergic reaction. i'm sorry i can't really help you, but possibly you could help me. ovarian cysts - i was at the hospital and they said i have that. what happens with it? what is it? they didn't explain it very good. i'm sorry i just need advice too. :[

hope your feeling better.

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during puberty where I think about sex a lot, and kinda get attracted to it.

I kinda sneek into my parents rooms and look at their porno videos, its sooo BAD. But i can't stop looking at that stuff.

And sometimes I go to websites with pictures, bad pictures.

I wanna stop, but cant, what do I do?!

thx

kp:\

you're completly normal. almost everyone goes thru that stage in life. you just wonder and want to experiment. you'll grow out of it eventually. if you want to stop then just stop thinking about it and think of something new, or just hold yourself from going into there room.

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Is cunt the same as cum?

no. a cunt is a vagina. cum, is well cum.

=D

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