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Love advice for a confused teen


Question Posted Sunday May 13 2007, 3:21 pm

I am 13, female. I have a female art teacher who I have a crush on. No one but me knows yet. Since it is almost at the end of the school year (week and a half untill last day), I wanted to send an email or note or something similar to her after school was out and tell what I feel about her. My question is this: Should I send her the email or not?

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x0advice4y3w answered Sunday May 13 2007, 7:00 pm:
your probably just going thru a stage right now. i wouldn't send her a e-mail or anything because that would just make things not good. she's probably a lot older then you and no affence you probably wouldn't have a chance. just let things go. if you ARE a lesbian try getting with someone your age. but like i said you could be just going thru a stage i'm not sure.

hope everything goes well.

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ductape_n_roses answered Sunday May 13 2007, 5:05 pm:
Ignore the first columnist that replied to this. She is apparently very rude and provicial.

I have nothing agaisnt LBGT and I'm not saying that you are. You're at an age where people are going through emotional confusion and this happens to be one. You probably don't want to do this because it's going to create awkward tension and this phase most of the time will pass soon.

I think you should just wait it out and write it out and keep it to yourself and just really, really close friends you can rely on. If you do e-mail her, you're going to create very awkward tension between you and her and I'm sure you don't want that. I'm sorry if I sound like I'm against your feelings but--trust me, I'm not.

If you want to talk about it, my contact info is on my page =)

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joellamamama400 answered Sunday May 13 2007, 4:57 pm:
i too have had this problem, first of all i wouldn't email her cuz if she has a problem with it she could get you in trouble. but then you couldn't be all romantic. i'd tell her in person that's what i did to my teacher and she didn't complain (if you know what i mean) but be careful in what you say and when you say it and that she is interested kinda.

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DoesHeCare answered Sunday May 13 2007, 4:44 pm:
i wouldn't send it because, a] she's an adult and technically you're still a child, so you couldn't make a relationship of it, b] she's a teacher and you're a student, so even if you did make a relationship out of it you could get her fired, c] you'll probably grow out of it and gain a new crush over summer.
hope i helped. <3

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pacsunnnx3 answered Sunday May 13 2007, 4:16 pm:
i would not send her the email. what would the point be? i don't think you could make a relatinship out of it. chances are your art teacher is much older than you and could possibily be in a relationship already, and not even be attracted to girls.. that would make her feel really uncomfortable. try to find someone your own age.

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Lorrena answered Sunday May 13 2007, 4:06 pm:
EWWWW YOUR A LESBIAN?? ok eww, am sori, well do not send you art teacher that email, because that is so imature!!!!!! You make think am being harsh but it's the truth!!! And your art teacher is just going to think that your an imature child who is a lesbian.
hope i helped xx

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