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Hello Sunshine!
My name's Jamie..call me what you prefer.
I'm not here to judge, just to help people with their problems.
I love helping people out, it's one of the most satisfying feelings.
When you rate me, I'd prefer if you put a reasoning behind the rating, just so I know how I'm doing/how I can improve.


Feel free to leave me questions!
XOXO.

>> PS. If you plan on asking me a question, please, type grammatically correct and put punctuation marks where necessary...instead of like this: "muh boyfran lefff meh nD eye dunno waddado. halp?" (haha okay maybe that's a little exaggerated.. but you get my point!)





advice

what is spooning?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=spooning

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okay so i have stretch marks on my inner thighs. i got them from having to stop gymnastics for almost a year because i had to get surgery on my ankle. anyways i'm getting back into everything so will working out and strengthening my thighs more make them less noticeable? i also use mederma i've been using it for a couple of months. anything else to help them? i'd really like them to fade before summertime thanks!

Stretch marks will never go away completely. However, by using Palmer's Cocoa Butter formula, it will minimize the apperance of them.

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I have different sizes of breasts. Do you also have that? I know it's normal, but for those who did have different sizes of breasts, did it eventually grow evenally?
-Alien

Yes, I had this problem-but hang in there! Becasue everything gets so much better down the road. :)

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I recently received the prom dress that I ordered online, and the top part is too small, as in it won't zipper up the whole way [here's the back of the dress http://www.loralie.com/images/Product/Dresses/Back/7461b.jpg ]. I got a size 10 and it fits fine everywhere else except for the bust and a bit below [I have a really big and broad chest :/ ], so a larger size would be loose everywhere else. I cannot return/exchange it, it was a sale rack item so they won't take it back. I'd really rather not just buy another dress, plus this one was a decent price. Are there places where they can somehow make the dress wider? Like, would bridal shops or other tailor shops [I live in central PA] be able to alter my dress?

Thank you for any advice.

That's a gorgeous dress. :)

http://www.google.com/maps?hl=en&client=firefox-a&channel=s&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&hs=ZV8&q=tailor+shops&near=Benton,+PA+17814&sa=X&oi=local&ct=title
Try these.

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Ok..soo i went out with my good guy friend the other day. We went to get some subway and we were just talking about relationships n stuff. He asked me if i had been kissed and my response was no. I have been kissed..but not a full on makeout session. Im 17/F. I dont really trust him that he wont tell neone. Im pretty sure he will go to his guys friends and tell them. Im so embarassed. I feel like im the only girl in world that hasnt been. Is something wrong with me?

No, there definitely isn't anything wrong with you. There's plenty of people that are in the same situation, but don't even have a chance to be kissed. Don't be embarrassed, kissing is perfectly fine. :)

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if i bleed ALOT when i urinate do i probably have UTI?

There's a lot of possibilities....
http://www.wrongdiagnosis.com/symptoms/blood_in_urine/causes.htm

You need to see a doctor ASAP.

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When boy celebs talk about their chest hair, girls scream and stuff. What's so hot about chest hair and back hair? I think it's kinda gross..

I guess it's all a matter of opinion. They probably think it's so hot because you don't need a shirt on to see it, if that makes any sense?

It's kind of like when girls like abs..
Only it's hair. lol.

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I'm about 5'3" and i weigh 86 pounds. I am not anorexic or bullemic, I eat a lot and eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner everyday (unless i wake up late and miss breakfast) but I have a fast metabolism so it doesn't really do anything. I really want to be on the school gymnastics team but you have to be atleast 90-100 pounds. Does anybody have any helpful hints or advice that i could use to gain weight? Thanks so much!!

Don't worry, you're not alone with this problem!

http://chetday.com/howtogainweight.htm

Good luck, hope this helps

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well im a 16/f and i im indian which means im not allowed to date. but i decided to get a boyfriend and i've been dating this guy for like a little over a month. and im not sure if i should tell my parents because my mom always says they'll find out eventually the things i do. so yah should i tell them?

Personally, I'd tell the parent you're closest to first. Yes, parents do usually find out the things you don't want them to. While dating this guy, did you feel like, while around your parents, that you were hiding something? I know this feeling, and it's not a good one. Muster up the confidence that you have, & tell them, before they find out themselves.

Best wishes! :)

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is there any good sites that i can go to and get aim profile things, like the ones you copy and paste. i already know about buddy4u.com.... is there any others?

Some Xanga sites have them.
http://search.xanga.com/searchgroups.aspx?q=AIM%20profiles

Click on any of those, and there'll be some. :)

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Does anyone know any reliable websites where I can get a sweatshirt like this :
http://buzznet-74.vo.llnwd.net/assets/users13/punkxisxlove/default/Adam_Lazzara--large-msg-116624748166.jpg

i cant find one anywhere!

online sites ONLY please:)

Probably from HotTopic.

www.hottopic.com

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anyone know any really good lyrics about basically living life or having a great time being alive? it can be practically any type of music, preferably not rap or hardcore. (i doubt they;d have any happy lyrics anyway, haha.) indie/acoustic/alternative is best, but it doesn't matter :)

http://www.lyricsandsongs.com/song/46377.html

Sorry, this is the only thing I could find. :(

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I have a boyfriend and hes awesome and everyhting and we KNOW we are SO gonna have sex VERY soon and ya any tips or advice 4 the first time over here :$ lol haha ya I'm 13 yrs old and my bf is 13 and we're both virgins

I don't want you to say you should wait you're making a mistake your too young blah blah blah Please just some advice for a virgain

Alright, well, I don't mean to be the causer of doom and gloom on you, but do you honestly think you're ready? If that isn't clear enough, let me put it this way: Are you ready for a baby? You're not even in High School yet.

My advice for a "virgain"? ...Don't do it when you're 13.

Just looking out for you,
Please, don't make this mistake.

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What is the legal age you can move out of your parents house? Some people have told me 18 and some have told me 17. I'm in South Carolina if that makes a difference. Also, how would you tell your mom you were moving out without hurting her feelings?

The people below me were correct, 16 to be emancipated, 18 to move out completely. I know you don't want to hear this, but don't move out. If you really are going to, though, just say "Mom, I need to get out of here, I feel like I'm ready, and I want to start being more independent".

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my name is Gabi
im loud
i talk a lot
im really crazy
i really want my name is my SN
i was thinking something like hii its gabi but thats taken
anything with my name in

if u help me i can help u back

thanks a lot

Chatty xO Gabi
Then Gabi Said
CrAzIi GaBi x3
Gabi Goo x2
HeyThere Gabi
Its Gabi xOx

Let me know if you use any!

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Well ii got itunes and that but i dont know how to put songs on my ipod nanocan some one please tell mehow to put songs on my ipod
and can use also tell me a few GOOD r'n'b' Songs
Thxx Muchh=]

Ok, well people already answered your question about how to put songs on your iPod. I'll tell you a few good R&B songs.

(These are my personal favorites)
-"Circle"-Marques Houston
-"Because of You"-Ne Yo
-"All My Life"-K-Ci & Jo Jo
-"Ice Box"-Omarion
-"True"-Ryan Cabrera
-"Don't Wanna Try No More"-Frankie J

Basically anything by Ne Yo and Chris Brown are good R&B songs. :)

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Does anyone have any tips on dealing with huge amounts of anger? Lately I've been sooooo angry at even the littlest thing and it upsets the people I love and I don't know how to fix it. Suggestions? And seeing a therapist isn't exactly an option at this point.

* Take a "time out." Count to 10 before reacting or leave the situation altogether.
* Do something physically exerting. Physical activity can provide an outlet for your emotions, especially if you're about to erupt. Go for a walk or a run, swim, lift weights or shoot baskets, for example.
* Find ways to calm and soothe yourself. Practice deep-breathing exercises, visualize a relaxing scene, or repeat a calming word or phrase to yourself, such as "take it easy." You can also listen to music, paint, journal or do yoga.
* Express your anger as soon as possible so that you aren't left stewing. If you can't express your anger in a controlled manner to the person who angered you, try talking to a family member, friend, counselor or another trusted person.
* Think carefully before you say anything so that you don't end up saying something you'll regret.
* Work with the person who angered you to identify solutions to the situation.
* Use "I" statements when describing the problem to avoid criticizing or placing blame. For instance, say "I'm upset you didn't help with the housework this evening," instead of, "You should have helped with the housework." To do otherwise will likely upset the other person and escalate tensions.
* Don't hold a grudge. Forgive the other person. It's unrealistic to expect everyone to behave exactly as you want.
* Use humor to defuse your anger, such as imagining yourself or the other person in silly situations. Don't use sarcasm, though — it's just another form of unhealthy expression.
* Keep an anger log to identify the kinds of situations that set you off and to monitor your reactions.
* [My personal favorite]-Think to yourself: Is this going to matter in 20 years?

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/anger-management/MH00102

Good luck :)

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I am really bored.When making a prank call,what should I say.I want to them to fight back.I want to have a mutual,harmless and fun phone fight.

Prank calls are so much fun!...

*Well, while dialing the number, be sure to put *67, so your number comes up as restricted.

What I usually say is "Hey, this is (*Nancy) from the pregnancy center. I'm just calling you back to let you know that your test is POSITIVE. If you need support, then call us back after this recording has ceased. Have a great day!"
*You can replace 'Nancy' with whatever name you fancy. :)

Or, say "Hey, wassssup. I was jus' callin' yah back to letchu know that I had a bangin' time last night, we gotta do that again baby, call me back, iight.. ONE" (Obviously use a manly voice. lol.)

And a tip: if they say "I'm going to call the police on you", STOP. Some people really do.

Have fun!

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Ok - not the right category, but there's no category for "travel". So here goes.

I'll be leaving to Thailand this Thursday for a university trip. I am SO excited.

Has anyone visited Thailand before? If so, can you give me tips and stuff, what to do, what not to do, etc. How are the people like there? Prices?...I'll be staying there for a week, how much money should I take with me?

Thanks in advance.

I've never been there, but I Googled it and found a site that should have everything you need to know. :)

http://www.smilingalbino.com/tips/

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I need some REALLY good chicken recipes [I have chicken breast],
I don't know what to do with it. I've tried a lot.
I just want something that tastes good, is easy to make, and one that you need basic ingredients for.

PLEASE help. :)

Thanks

Smear the chicken in "Cream of mushroom". Bake at 400 degrees Fahrenheit.

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