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Q: Does anyone know any movies similar to 'When Harry Met Sally...' or any movies that deal with best friend (guy & girl) relationships? Thanks!
Maybe the Wedding Singer?
or Music And Lyrics.

Q:

this is veryy embaressing.
but, what does it mean when a guy is cirsumsized?!
When a guy is circumcised, the foreskin is removed.
When your not circumcised, the foreskin goes over the head of the penis.

Q: theres some song on the new macys commercial where there are girls outside in the sun in like cute dresses.. whats the song called? or its like a poem i think... its really good can someone post the lyrics?
try using youtube, and search "macys commercial" and maybe they will have the thing there, because i doubt someone knows the whole song/poem.

Q: 13/f..
ive never hooked up, and im kinda afraid i might mess up (if thats possible) or make a fool of myself.
any tips or ideas that will make me relax or make it seem not a big deal?

help is appreciated.
Just go along with it and you'll catch on.

Q: My tonsils are getting red and they have like white specks on them. It's really gross. Is this strep throat?
If it hurts to swallow, it could be strep, or tonsillitis. I had the same situation, but i had tonsillitis.

Q: Is it possible to get pregnant through clothes? i dont just mean underwear, but through our underdwear, jeans, and his pants. my period wont come also, and im really nervous. but thats as far as he and i have gone. please answer men asap because im terrified.

18/f
I doubt it unless you felt wetness through your pants near your vagina.

Q: I'll make this short: red pasta sauce. How do i make it?

Please no canned tomato stuff..tomato paste is fine but canned tomato doesn't exist where I live.

Merci.
This should help you out!

http://www.pizzatherapy.com/basic.htm

Q: Can someone teach me how to curl your hair? I know it's stupid but I'm really confused so can someone give me directions to have the prettiest curls for my grad?

I was going to get my aunt to do it but it wasn't what you would call curl because all the curls were different and half of them were curled the opposite direction than the other.

I don't know like whne you but the curling thing on your hiar if you hold the thing straight and just curl straight up, or like hold it diagonally and curl, etc.

Something like this girl's?
http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/boahair.jpg
This site should help you a bunch!

http://www.ehow.com/how_2831_curl-hair-with.html

Q: I've always wondered how couples make their relationship last. How do 2 people stay together for 2 years & still be so happy with each other? I understand that it takes love but there's gotta be something else to it. So if anyone can share how they have made things last, I would really appreciate it.
Well, for me, it hasn't hit 2 years yet, but I think I can put some input in because the 18th of this month will be a year and a half with my boyfriend.

What makes a couple stay together is the love and trust, and the relationship itself between the two of you. Of course you'll experience plenty of fights, but you need them in a relationship. The fights are what makes your relationship stronger, because you know you can get through rough times together. It should take time to love someone. In my opinion, there is no such thing at love at first site. You must spend plenty of time and share plenty of experiences with one another and build your infatuation and "liking" to love. You eventually learn how to live with (not like in the same house, but like dealing with and learning about each other) your significant other, and that's what keeps you going.

I hope I helped. =)

Q: 15/f

Okay so there's a guy at school. And we flirt all the time, and I realized that I just don't want to be in a relationship these days. I like being single. And the guy is probably going to ask me out again like last time, and I'll feel so bad just completley rejecting him. And he probably won't want to be my friend at all anymore!
What should I do?
If I were you, I would just tell him straight out, be like, "Look, I enjoy being single, and I don't feel like I could use a relationship at the moment."

Just make sure you let him know you want to still be friends, and don't want this to ruin your friendship.

Q: I'm thinking about getting my haircut tomarrow. I really want to get side bangs..the kind that are kind of short..and straight across on one side. If anyone knows what im talking about and has a good pic of it for me that would be greattt. =] Thanks.
Possibly my hair?
you can check my page out to see what I'm talking about =)

Q: okayy im 15 and im in love with my boyfriend. so we had sex. and i think i might be pregnant.i had protected sex its just i havent had my period for like almost 3 months and i throw up a lot on random mornings. and i eat so much more than usual latley. and on top of that i cant see my abs anymore! i think im pregnant and im deatly afraid of what to do.! i dont know how to tell anyone. and i dont want to take a test cuz i know ill be right. i just dont wanna know the truthh. i cant handle a baby; things are too rough for me already. what WHAT SHOUD I DO!? PLEASE HELP ME!!!
-DESPERATE.
Sorry sweetie, it truly sounds like you are pregnant.

The only way to find out is to in fact take a pregnancy test. If you want to keep it confidential, you can go to the doctor; and have them take a blood test, and they can give you options for what to do, based on the results.

And if you are, I wish the best for you, and I hope you make the decision to keep the baby or put it up for adoption.

Good Luck!

Q: where have all the REAL ones gone?
seriously. all the people that regarded themselves as emo a year ago had turned into a "scene kid" by june. now all the so called "scene kids" have decided they;'re now an "indie kid"
and they all reckon they're being alternative
when its actually the new chav :s if you think about it
i dont wanna offend anyone by this but its only the truth that bands like panic at the disco, fall out boy and MCR are not emo and liking them does not make you emo
does anyone agree? haha
x
It's the new style/"thing to do" or w.e.
If it weren't for MTV, Panic, MCR, and FOB would still be unknown, and only known by their true fans.

Not the ones who the first song they heard by them was Sugar Were Goin Down Swingin, and idk any other songs by the other bands because i don't listen to them.

Q: what is it?
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=what+is+phone+sex%3F&btnG=Google+Search

Q: Hi.. 14/f/120 pounds

How do I get the same type of body as Paris Hilton? I have thigh muscles from soccer and they are big, but I dont really like how they look.. Thanks
I can almost guarantee your body is fine the way it is.

and plus why on earth would you want to look like her? Even the guys I know think she is disgusting!

But if you want to look like her, just like everyone else said, cut out food completely and just kinda starve yourself.

No I'm not advising you to do this, it WILL serious hurt your body.

Q: ok well i am 13 ok n my bf iz older then me ok nd he keeps pressuring me into things what should i do? cuz like i have been goin out with him for awhile now n he iz like telling me wat to do n shit n its very confusing n on msn he keeps telling me to flash him n finger myself on cam ok nd i dont no wat to do about that either ok plzzz help me i dun no wat to do!!!
End it.
He's obviously using you, and jeez, you're 13. I personally think you should have a little more time to yourself and grow up a little more without the worry of guys! Not saying that in a rude way. Just have sometime to yourself and friends, have fun with them, and not have to worry about a guy! =)

Q: I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess.
Life is a gift, and it's hard. There are people out there that have way worse situations; and they're still out there, and probably are trying to make the best of what they have. I understand that you have lost your parents and I'm truly sorry to hear that. But, think for a second, what if they were still here, would you want to commit suicide? How would your mom and dad feel about it? How would your brother feel? You shouldn't just try and take the easy way out. How would your friends, brother, and sister-in-law feel? Think about how you would impact them. It should bring you to tears. Everyones' had their phase of wanting to die, and this is yours. I swear it's just a phase, if you try and make things better, you'll come to realize the great things in life you would be missing. Suicide is permanent solution to a temporary problem.

What I ask of you is to just think of your peers and friends and how they'd feel, that alone could change your decision.

Q: K, so I'm doing the softball team for my high school this year-everyone makes it, so I'm guaranteed to be on the team. Anyways, my friend just told me that it's FASTPITCH softball. I'm used to slow pitch, and I'm not even so good at that. What are some ways to make me better? The scrimmages start on March 22..

I really want to do this without getting made fun of-there's tons of juniors and seniors. And, I'm not really so good under pressure.

PLEASE HELP. *I GOOGLED IT, SO DONT TELL ME TO DO THAT!

Thanks (:
Maybe you can talk to the pitcher of your team and have her pitch to you to get you used to it.

Or you can get a hit-a-away and practice that way.

And I'm sure the juniors and seniors won't really care if your good or not, because you most likely will not be on varsity.

Q: what are 5 ways atomic/nuclear energy is good and 5 ways its bad? please and thanks
www.google.com

Q: everyone thinks that im dum. im not. they think it just becaws im blond. its stupid. what can i do to make them think that im NO DUM BLOND.
thanks.
oh and by the way people
who do think that im dum
are ussaully juss jelose
of my smarts and looks .
yeah. so agane advice !!
please.!!!!!!!!!!!!1.?!!
It may possibly be because you can not spell very well.

And you may come off ditsy, so that's why they might say it.

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I'm a sophomore this year at Quinnipiac University.
I'm majoring in Interactive Digital Design.
I haven't been on this site in years, maybe I'll pick it up again. (:
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