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I MIGHT BE PREGNANT. HELP PLEASE!!
okayy im 15 and im in love with my boyfriend. so we had sex. and i think i might be pregnant.i had protected sex its just i havent had my period for like almost 3 months and i throw up a lot on random mornings. and i eat so much more than usual latley. and on top of that i cant see my abs anymore! i think im pregnant and im deatly afraid of what to do.! i dont know how to tell anyone. and i dont want to take a test cuz i know ill be right. i just dont wanna know the truthh. i cant handle a baby; things are too rough for me already. what WHAT SHOUD I DO!? PLEASE HELP ME!!!
-DESPERATE.<3
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Well.. you are only fifteen. And I'm sure you realize if you are pregnant, your whole life is changed. College, dreams... need to put them on hold for quite a long while. Maybe forever?
Anyways I highly SUGGEST you go to a planned pregnancy place, or buy a pregnancy test. It is the only way to tell.
I hate to tell you this, because I know you dont want to hear it, but you shouldnt have had sex until you were ready to be able to take care for another human being.
I'd tell your parents, or atleast your mother.
Tell her you know she is going to be angry, but its done now, and you need to focus on what you are going to do about it.
Good luck <3
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twoo words.
pregnancy test.
look i get that your in love with your bf but, if your insecure about it, then you shouldnt have had sex ya know.
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The only way you can really find out if your pregnant, is if you TAKE THE TEST! i know the results might be difficult to handle, but at least you'll stop stressing about it and know what to expect if you are.
next..whatever you do, PLEASE do not get an abortion. not only does it kill your baby, but it emotionally messes you up a little. and you'll regret later on in life. If you can't handle having a baby, why were you having sex in the first place? yes, it was protected, but there's always a chance of you getting pregnant.
But anyways, if you can't handle the baby yourself, put it up for adoption. and maybe you can actually pick out the parents who get to adopt your child.
i really wish i could help you more..but i don't want to make this answer so long. but if you need any advice at all, just send me a question in my inbox and i'll help you out however i can.
well, hope i helped..and didn't stress you out even more..
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You're 15 & having sex? Nice. You're too young for that, but at least you're protecting yourself.
Anyways, you're still young, so your period will be irregular the first few years you have it. I went a few months without a period too. If you're really worried, take a pregnancy test.
And you can't see your abs? You're scared & worried. When you feel that way, you're stressed out. Stress can cause weight gain, so maybe you're just gaining weight because of how stressed out you are. And you're probably wrong.
Take a test. If you're pregnant, talk to your mom about some options.
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Sorry sweetie, it truly sounds like you are pregnant.
The only way to find out is to in fact take a pregnancy test. If you want to keep it confidential, you can go to the doctor; and have them take a blood test, and they can give you options for what to do, based on the results.
And if you are, I wish the best for you, and I hope you make the decision to keep the baby or put it up for adoption.
Good Luck!
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One, you probably shouldn't have had sex unless you were for sure it was extra safe and protected. Next, you need to get a test before it's too late. And you won't want to do this, but you NEEEEED to talk to your mom or another trusted adult. Or, just goto a local pharmacy and ask for help, even though they're going to end up telling you to talk to your mother. Anyway, i`m against this, but if you're scared and not ready for a baby, you can get an abortion, even though it's so very wrong. But, since you're the one who made the choice to have sex, you deserve the responsibilites and troubles of raising a child. Or, you can have the baby and give it up after it's born, which really isn't any better.
Honestly. Talking to your mom would be the best bet.
Good luck, & don't harm the baby, if you are indeed pregnant.
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