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wondering about my boyfriend...
okay when my boyfriend and i are making out, i get the urge to make a move to go further...but then i back down because even though he's in the moment and everything and will act like its "a-okay" for me to give a hj, he will resent it later. He really respects me, and i guess he doesn't want to cheapen my value as a women..if you know what i mean. We've talked about going further, and like every guy, he'd love to do more, but he feels like it's wrong and says "i want to but i don't". I respect him so much because of that. But what if i just can't help the urge to go further? (i believe it brings two people closer) How do i stop myself? ahhhhhhhh. =/
thanks
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First it sounds like your bf maybe a virgin and could be just as nervous as you are about going further. Ease into it, don't rush things or it could be bad for you both. As for that act bringing people closer, sometimes it works, and sometimes it backfires in your face. Giving up the v-card it is one important decision. Just make sure it's with someone you REALLY love. You don't want to have regrets later on in life. Hope it helps
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well you can just tell him you are ready and won't regret going further unless you think you will regret going further then you should just think that you love him so much and he loves you so much that you dont need sex to make you to happy
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