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possibly suicidal.
15/female.
well lately things have NOT been going the way ive hoped. i got kicked out of skewl for drugs. my parents hate me. my boyfriend is getting annoying. and it feels like i just cant take it anymore. i used to cut. but then i stopped becuase i got some help from friends. but lately thats all i thinkk about doing and i cant stop. either that or smoking the pain away. getting high always seems to help. and i hate the way i think like that. i need some advice on how to stay away from weed and cutting. and just a lot of things. like life just doesnt interest me anymore. i really dont think id actually kill myself but it always runs through my mind. like i would never but i cant help thinking about what it would like if i died. i want to know. is there more to life then i thinkk. i just need to know. thanks. :]]
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Suicide is never the answer. Think about it like this- your parents DONT hate you, they just want what is best for you. They have spent a lot of time, money, and a lot of their lives looking after you, and caring for you. Nothing will make them sadder than knowing that their daughter is suicidal, and harming herself. It is the most devistating thing they will go through in their lives. Sure- everyone has their secrets, but this one is unsafe. When you cut, if you go too deep, or in the perfectly right spot, you can get a worser life. When you feel as if you must cut, or smoke, just take a walk or something. Maybe go to the mall with friends, or ride your bike. Go to the movies, just DO something that will not cause harm to you. Not only would death effect you, but it will effect everyone around you that loves or cares for you. Think of someone you know that has died, a friend or a relative. Live your life not only for yourself, but for them as well. Dont let what happened to them happen to youl A person can change whenever they want, they sooner the better. Just keep holding on, because you will make it through this. Life is a rollercoaster- ups, and downs. Even though there are a lot of downs right now, that means that you are due for some "up's", it will all even out. Live each day like it is your last. xx
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Hey,
You can't go through life thinking your life sucks. Just compare your life with other people's. If your parents hated you like you said they did, they would probably have kicked you to the curb and make you live in a box. Weed can make you think differently, so maybe now that you smoke it, you have a different, more depressed, way of looking at things. & The cure to your weed addiction:Occupy your mind! Do sports, extracurricular activities, stay off the computer, exercise...the possibilities are endless, but the basic idea of this is to NOT GET BORED! I know you're not asking for advice, not a nag, but there's so much that you can do that's better than smoking weed..or smoking anything, for that matter.
Remember, there's always a light at the end of the tunnel! SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER! THERE IS WAYYY MORE OF YOUR LIFE TO LIVE!!
Good luck<3
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In order to stay away from weed, concentrate on something different. When you feel like getting high, go to sleep. Or watch a movie.
For cutting, write your feelings down. Get a livejournal & vent. Writing things down & recording them allows for self evaluation & you can calm yourself down.
Cutting is never the answer. I used to cut, and it's hard to stop, and you should know that too. Just ask your friends for help. I'm pretty sure they won't turn you away.
And there is more to life than you think. You can be anything you want. And you can be successful and happy, why ruin it?
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