I am 20 years old and i have a guy who i really like but i have never kissed a guy and i dont really know what to do and i have built it up to be so scary that it makes things worse help!!!
sizzlinmandolin answered Tuesday March 6 2007, 6:55 pm: I was 18 at the time of my first kiss so I get what you're going through. Everybody gets nervous about their first kiss, but it's even worse when you're a late bloomer. Just remember that you won't be judged by anyone, but yourself and this is one of the few situations where your opinion doesn't matter. Don't be embarassed to tell the guy that you've never been kissed beforehand. It should make him feel really special to know that he was your first if you do end up kissing each other. Don't worry about your technique. Everyone does it differently and it does come naturally after a little bit of practice. Just go with it and remember that even if it doesn't turn out like you planned, it just can't be that terrible. Good luck! :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
Annerszz_101 answered Tuesday March 6 2007, 6:41 pm: Don't rush it. If he leans in to kiss you, breathe deep and just let him lead and that will make things a lot easier for you. I haven't kissed a guy either, but try watching movies where people kiss and just watch their technique, and this may sound sad, but try with a pillow. Hey, it works and you won't mess up. The pillow won't make fun of you. :] [ Annerszz_101's advice column | Ask Annerszz_101 A Question ]
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