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I'm meeting up with my bf and I'm gonna give Him handjob through his pants. When he cums it's like an explosion. So he gonna have sticky boxers. I was wondering how it could be made less messy. Also we arnt in a house so we he can't get cleaned up. What shall I do? (link)
Whip it out, it's nothing to be afraid of. It makes it easier to get the job done and minus that messy explosion ha hope this helps :)


ok so this is sooo embarrigin = [ so i dont wan to become sexualy active becuzse i have a frckle down there... is that normal i know this is probably so funny but its really embarring and im afraid the guy wont like me or he will be disgusted becuz of it ... = [
helllp (link)
Don't be embarrassed!
I have a friend with several freckles down their, I know because I am friends with her and her boyfriend, tons of people have freckles down their. It's nothing to be ashamed of at all.
I even have a freckle or two down their and so does my boyfriend. It's very common, but if it's really going to make you self conscious cover it up with some make up.
I hope this helped


i thought my friend was lying about how she made her hair shine like crazy but i tried it anyway and it really worked so why does cold water make hair shine? do you know? (link)
I asked my stylist the same thing.
She said it's like pores on your skin except for your hair. When cold water goes over it the hair is smoothed giving it a sleeker look. After you shampoo rinse with hot water then condition and rinse with cold. It just makes your hair better and healthier.


What color skinny jeans look good with a blue t-shirt? (link)
Black, acid washed, faded


So, I have never dated anyone, for majority of the guys I've known are jerks and I have never met anyone I've actually been interested in. Now, I met this guy who actually has potential and who I know likes me. He is real sweet, we have hung out a few times, and we text often. My questions are: when is a good time to kiss? What do I do if he goes to kiss me and I am nervous? What does a kiss on the cheek mean? and Does kissing come naturally?

Details would be appreciated :)
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It comes as naturally as breathing. Really neither of you know when your first kiss will happen if it does. Really you just need a "moment" that puts it all into perspective and when you get that feeling in your stomach that says to kiss just do it. Chances are he's feeling it to.


16/male and im gay i really like this guy hes 17 im nervous to tell him im not sure if hes gay but i did flirt a little with him and he seem to like it he wasnt turned off by it so im not sure if i should wait or tell him or flirt with him more how do i find out if hes gay? do i tell him how i feel? (link)
Honestly, just keep flirting. If he likes you he won't reject you from flirting with him at all. Send off stronger signals to him. Ask him what he thinks about you. Listen to the way he says it and what he says. After you feel like you've increased those signals enough look and see if he has been sending off stronger signals. If not you'll just have to move on. Good luck.


Why do boys have ask girls out and why cant girls ask boys out. It make it so much more complicated for the boys. And the boys will never have a girlfriend if they are to shy to ask out the girl they like. (link)
Even though every guy I have ever dated has asked me out, I know plenty of people who have had girls ask them out first. I don't think it really matters and it doesn't.


19f.

i'm still a virgin and the thing that scares me the most about sex is it hurting like hell the first couple of times. within the past month i've had two exams where i've basically had to have that annoying silver clamp open up my vagina so they could swab to make sure i didn't have any infections. well the first time it was fine - didn't hurt when it went in or anything. well today when the silver clamp was going in it hurt sooo unbelieveably bad and the doctor could tell i was tense so she was like here i'll rub one finger a sec it usually helps people ease up, but that still kind of hurt. i've never been fingered or anything so now that just having that hurt i couldn't imagine what its going to be like the first time. is there anything that could help me maybe loosen up a little bit? thanks!! :) (link)
Sorry to say but there really isn't the first time is going to hurt. :/ sucks huh? But don't worry because after the first time everything is fine


So me and my friend dylan have been friends for about a year and a half now, but during december-ish we started getting really close. Around november, he had a girlfriend an i had a boyfriend but that didn't really stop us from flirting and whatnot. About two weeks later (The same time....ish) we both got dumped. We talked to each other about it and stuff and eventually started hanging out all the time and walking to class together. We are now pretty much inseperable.
I noticed, however, that he calls most of his friends that are girls his "sisters". He doesn't call me that for some reason and it made me ponder. He calls me his "best friend" instead, which is what we are. About two months ago i decided i liked him, and started flirting with him constantly. He seemed to be flirting back, so i didn't stop. Now whenever we hang out we always hold hands and hug and stuff. When he's talking to me he always brushes his hand against mine. The other day we went to see a movie and he kept trying to hold my hand but chickened out. At the end though he ended up just going for it and grabbing my hand. We're always having tickling fights and stuff, but the thing that really bothers me is when he says "I love you."
He says this to everyone, but it's kind of weird that he would say it to me because if he liked me, which it really seems he does, then he wouldnt say it. I guess it could mean that he loves me as a best friend, but he says this to everyone.
The guys in school tease us and are like "Yo you two should hook up." and dylan will always be like "Dude she's my best friend." But he never says "Ew! Shes like a sister to me that's gross" Like he does when i mention his other friends that are girls.
The thing is, i have no idea if he likes me or not. Just when i think he does, he says "i love you" or something like that. I don't wanna weird him out by telling him, but if he likes me then i don't want to wait. I'm really confused about whether he likes me or not and i don't kno what to do, if i should tell him or not. Because if i tell him and he doesn't like me back, then shit will be really weird between us and i dont want tha to happen. But ever since he broke up with his last girlfriend he hasn't once called any other girl "hot" or said tha he liked anyone. And whenever i tease him about a girl liking him he goes "Oh god no!" or "Ewww"
Ugh.
WHAT DO I DO?! (link)
This is exactly what happened to me, we both broke up with out boyfriend/girlfriends and we were already best friends we had been for about three years almost four. But anyways, I started liking him. and I decided to go for it. I didn't make it obvious...This is exactly what you should do

So text him and as him "What do you like about me?" If he says you're beautiful or amazing or something like that he has to like you at least a little.

If you get the hint that maybe he likes you if he says something like that. Tell him what you like about him, tell him he is an amazing person and you think he's cute. If he likes that just keep sending off stronger signals, only if he does too. If he doesn't then it's not a good idea.

Yeah, so just slowly increase those signals you're sending him. It'll work I hope! Tell me how things go :]


Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now & i'm ready to take things to the next level, but i'm nervous does sex hurt? what does it feel like? what are some ways I can satisfy my boyfriend in bed? HELPPPPPLEASSSSEEE!
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For me it hurt really bad, I know I should make you feel better about this, but it hurts really bad. You'll bleed a little but after the first few times it'll hurt less and feel really good.
Ask your boyfriend what he would like and he'll probably tell you. If not just remember the basic things you hear about sex like oral.


Over the years ive dyed my hair so much from boxes and its developed this orangish/yellow blonde color. A couple months ago, i got my hair professionally highlighted blonde..but the horrible tint/color in my hair is still there. So if i go and get my hair professionally done again, could they strip my hair (take out all the color/dyes)? If so, how much does that cost? I know when you strip your hair, your hair becomes red. So if i dyed it blonde (professionally) after i got it stripped..would it have a red tint to it? If thats not the way to go, what should i do to get rid of all the color in my hair, so i can professionally highlight it so it doesnt look bad? (I cant dye over it, that doesnt work. I need to get rid of the ugly color.) (link)
Stripping is a terrible idea, I had my hair stripped and it killed my hair it looked like hay. The best thing to do is go to a store like Sally's Beauty supplies, they have dye remover there you spray in your hair which helps lighten it. The best thing is just let it grow out and be healthy. Dye it as close as you can to your natural color and wait for it to grow out then cut it.


Im 17 and i know ill be losing my virginity this summer. But apart of me still thinks HE is too good for me. And that im not that beautiful and skinny enough to have sex. Has anyone ever felt this way? How should i get over these feelings? (link)
Everyone feels that way really, it's nothing to worry about, if anything you're too good for him. Just remember you can only lose your virginity once. I felt that way about my ex boyfriend I thought he was too good for me, but really no. Just don't worry he obviously likes you the way you are otherwise he wouldn't be dating you.


I really want to get my fake nails taken off. Does anyone know how you can remove them other than chipping them off and going to the nail place (not an option as of this moment)? (link)
I did a runway show for halloween, and they put these longer killer nails on me, after the show I sat wondered how do I get them off? They were so long it bugged me. I asked my sylist and she said go to walmart and get acetone it's in the nail section. I went and got some soaked my nails in it. and WALA! they kinda melted and then i wiggled them and they popped right off :] hope this helps


http://www.kohls.com/kohlsStore/juniors/shortscapris/shorts/PRD~593715/SO+YarnDyed+Striped+Hollywood+Shorts.jsp# (link)
Just a plain t shirt would be cute, or even a nice tank top.


I need new music. I really don't have a specific 'type', but I do like certain bands. So, I guess, I will just name those..
Boys Like Girls*******
All Time Low****
3OH!3
Ke$ha
LMFAO

Boys like girls is my favorite followed by all time low as a close second. Anything like these? (link)
Oh yes!
Cute Is What We Aim for is great!
Cobra Starship
Hey Monday
We The Kings
Brokencyde
NeverShoutNever
A Rocket To The Moon
Stephan Jerzak
Audio Summer
Jamestown Story
Amber Pacific
Red Car Wire
Hello Hollywood
Romance on a Rocketship
Second Hand Serenade


Ok sovi have a terrible headache and my back is really sore and my tummy hurts off and on... I have been having a lot more discharge and it's getting a bit darker...is this like pms or something? Also I feel like I could just lay down and watch tv all day (link)
IF the discharge is blood or really dark like brownish or black then it's probably you're period. Usually if you're back hurts it's cramps, I get cramps so bad the pain goes into my back. Talk to your mom, or a friend. If it is get some Midol for the cramps and headaches, also get some pads or tampons, since you're just starting get pads it's easier. Congratulations on your women hood :]


18f, it's so sad to say I can't stop shaking right now because of what i just heard and this whole situation. it may be long but i'm honestly depressed because of this so i will return the favor 100%.

there is this guy i like, his name is joe. we have known each other for a while. he broke up with his girlfriend of two years about 6 months ago, now he is a free man. he doesn't know what he wants though, he's kind of playing the field. one time he will be flirting with me and putting his arms around me, the next he will be cuddling with another girl by the fireplace.

sometimes i feel like he is intimidated by me which makes him shy away and not necessarily "put the moves on me" first. i'm older than him, by about a year and everyone tells me how gorgeous i am (do not want to sound conceited) so i'm thinking that may be the reason he isn't so out there with me.

it's basically between me and this other girl - samantha. the funny thing is my cousin nick, is joes good friend and also next door neighbor. joe goes back and forth between me and samantha, and we're both nicks cousins, from other sides of the family. it's a confusing situation!! i really dislike her, for good reasons. well bascially joe thinks that i don't know what he does with samantha, but my cousin (nicks sister) tells me everything. so a couple months ago i confronted joe about it asking if he liked her. of course he denied it saying "if i liked her i'd be dating her by now." then he was like why are you jealous? and i was like no, i just don't like her. and if you like her just tell me the honest truth because i want to know.

well tonight my cousin texts me saying that she walked in from coming home and saw joe and samantha cuddling by the fireplace. when i got the text, my hands started shaking and it ruined my whole night. i can't take this any more. why won't he admit to me that he likes her? joe hasn't kissed either of us, we don't get physical and i know samantha has never even kissed a guy before.

samantha uses nick to get to joe, and it upsets me. i will go to nicks to hang out with NICK, not to hopefully see joe like samantha does. when she is over there she doesnt even talk to nick and i tell nick this and he doesn't even say anything. it makes me so mad.

joe hasn't told either of us that he likes us, and i havent even told him i liked him but i just thought the feeling was mutual. i just feel like i don't even want him touching me anymore because i'm so much better than that, and than her. but next time he tries, i feel like i should say something about samantha but i don't want to sound like a creep and be like "i heard this, and this and this.." that would just be awkward.

how do i control this situation?? i can't stop thinking about it. i feel like she won, and i won't let that happen ..
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Ask him on a date, forget Samantha, just really go for him. Don't even think about Samantha, if you show him you like him then he'll start liking you more and eventually even he will forget about Samantha. Then you can smell sweet sweet victory, and have the guy!


Okayy, I'm 13 and I'm a girl. So me and this guy have a bad past together. It started in 6th grade. We started dating til 7th grade, then in 7th grade he cheated on me twice! Thenn we eventually broke up. We didn't talk or evenn look at eachotherr for about 10 monthhs. We started dating other people. Then randomly out of no where over the summer we started talking again. We started dating againn. He toldd me he always loved me and he never stopped caring and a lot more, But thenn I found out he cheated on me AGAIN! So we ended up breaking up again. Him and my friend are like really close and she was there when he broke up with me. [over a txt message] And she said he was crying because he didn't really want to do it because he loved me still but he didn't feel comfortable. So HE broke up with me. He started dating other girls and we still kept messing around. I mess with him because I LOVE him. I have no clue why he messes withh me. He eventually moved for 2 months and I was starting to forget him. Then randomly 2 weeks ago I get a phone call and it's from him. He called me and asked if I wanted to hangg out so I went. He's dating one of my friends but we ended up having Sex anyways. Thenn last weekendd him and his friend [My friends boyfriend] came to pick me up at my house. My friends boyfriend was like ATR [Her Initials] wants youu. So he was like get your stuff we'll take you. So I went, we were all hanging out and everything but my friend and her boyfriend starting fighting and she broke up with him and they were both crying. then we were talking and she said "No offense but I don't want to be like you and ZAF" what she meant was still mess around even though he still has girlfriend and I still have boyfriends and all that. I couldn't take that though, I started crying and I said to myself I feel stupidd. I kindaa think he doesn't even care about me or love me the way he says he does! Then he came in the room and layed down with me. then we went in the living room because ATF wanted to sleep with her EX boyfriend. So we slept in the living room. We had sex again. ATR kept telling me to talk to him and tell him exactly how I feel but I'm not sure how to tell him. I'm afraid to tell him because what if he doesn't care like I care. I just want to be with him. What do I do? Everybody says once a cheater always a cheater. But I honestly don't believe that. people change. And I know he messed up a lott but I can't help who I love! I just want him back! how do I get him back? Or is it even worth it? Helpp please! (link)
You're thirteen, you need to act like a thirteen year old, you shouldn't be having sex, cheating, or any of this drama, honestly if I were you I'd just dump him, because it IS true, once a cheater always a cheater. Just forget him and find a guy who doesn't cheat who is nice and can respect you. Show him you've moved on and he'll do the same. That's what I say, sorry if I sound mean.


Im 15/f. (:
Im with a guy i like for a long time. He is NOT a virgin, i however, am. I just had some question's. 1st- how bad is it going to hurt? I have been fingered, does that change anything?
2nd--is there anything i can do during sex that'll pleasure him too? Any tips to make me seem better? am i going to bleed bad?
Thanks in advancee (link)
You'll bleed a little, and it hurts a lot! After the first one or two times though it won't hurt much anymore. Think about if you even want to first, because honestly once you lose it you can't get it back. If you're like me you'll regret it eventually you'll only have one first time so don't do it with someone who you probably will regret doing it with. But if you're gonna, when you do, touch him a whole lot, bite his lip, kiss him all over, and put your mouth on IT. hahaha Hope this helps.


Hey 14 f

well I like wearing make up..i don't wear it that much though because I hardly have time in the morning to put it on..but never mind that.. I want it to look pretty and presentible. I don't want people staring and thinking i look bad.. ;/ haha. I love using the dark eye look..love using eyeliner..the black and green..it doesn't matter.Can someone tell my how i can get it on my water line without my eye watering..i want it to look decent. Not a racoon haha Tell me tips on what to do with my make up..i have almost every kind in my make up back so suggest anything
How i look like would help so..
-golden blonde hair? hhA :3
-blue eyes
-light skin
- a heart shaped face? haha >.<

no videos please XD thanks for all the opinions!
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If you like the dark eye look id suggest a greyish or silver eyeshadow, don't cake it on do a thing brush on the eye lid, to get liquid liner on, press your fingers on the outer corner of your eye and stretch the skin so your eyelid is stretched out making it easier to get liner on evenly.
Hold it sideways so you get a thinner line. Start at the outer corner and slowly move down to the inner corner, go slightly on the lash instead of above it, so you can't see the bare skin between your lashes. To make your lashes pop use an eyelash curler before you put on mascara. If you want a smokey eye they have a a smokey eye tube at most stores that you can just roll onto your eyelid for an amazing look, also use really dramatic colors like silver, purple, or blue. Don't over do it and have fun! If you want a clean look after applying your make up take some foundation and go over your skin and put some under your eyes to hide shadows, but not too much. This way more attention will be drawn to your eyes. To compliment them line your lips and fill them in with a nice lipstick that nearly match your lips usual color then gloss them. This is my routine daily and I get tons of compliments on my make up. :D HAVE FUN!




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