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loosen me up??
19f.
i'm still a virgin and the thing that scares me the most about sex is it hurting like hell the first couple of times. within the past month i've had two exams where i've basically had to have that annoying silver clamp open up my vagina so they could swab to make sure i didn't have any infections. well the first time it was fine - didn't hurt when it went in or anything. well today when the silver clamp was going in it hurt sooo unbelieveably bad and the doctor could tell i was tense so she was like here i'll rub one finger a sec it usually helps people ease up, but that still kind of hurt. i've never been fingered or anything so now that just having that hurt i couldn't imagine what its going to be like the first time. is there anything that could help me maybe loosen up a little bit? thanks!! :)
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maybe masterbate alittle bit or try a toy. but i dont think it will hurt as bad as you think, if you are with the right guy it wont all. just relax and dont worry about it
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Actually, no one knows how your first time will be.
That person is unfortunately wrong who answered this. :/ It may or may not hurt.
It didn't hurt my first time, nor did I bleed.
Well the best thing to do is buy a vibrator. It's not exactly the same, but basically the same. Just a simple one would be just fine, unless you want other pleasure along with it. But buy one, and try that out, get a feel at what YOU like. Sex is better when you know what your doing. It will not take your virginity away or anything so don't worry about that.
Make sure you foreplay before sex too (Or vibrator) So you are wet. Or buy Lube.
Don't be scared, if your tense it don't help anything. :)
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Sorry to say but there really isn't the first time is going to hurt. :/ sucks huh? But don't worry because after the first time everything is fine
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