Hey lovies! =) I'm Julie and I'm 15, which makes me a sophomore at the lovely Branford High School. I'm in Model Congress, Concert Choir, and the Young Republicans Club. Besides being a student, I've been a dancer and acrobat for 13 years! It's basically my life. I love my friends to death and would be nothing without them! ♥ Well, I've been on Advicenators for over a year now so I know what I'm doing and you can trust me. I'm here to give you honest and helpful advice...So just leave me any questions you have in my inbox! =)
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Ok, a few days ago, I signed up for an account on LiveJournal. When I wanted to change the colors and add codes and all that stuff, I got so confused. I'm really good at HTML. Can anyone out there that is great at designing LiveJournals help me? Thanks (link)
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Sure, I'm pretty good with most of the HTML and some of the basic codes on Live Journal, I have my own site too! If you need some help feel free to IM me at XO SWEET PEA O3 or e-mail me at missjulez93@comcast.net
Talk to you soon! =)
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I have a bunch of new stuff on my computer but im scared to open it up because last time i did it, it messed my computer up lol. Do any of you know what Perfectexpert or wordperfect is and does? thanks! (link)
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Both of those programs are word-processing programs, very similar to Microsoft Word, where you type reports and other documents! They probably came with your computer and definitly aren't viruses or anything bad! =)
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How long does a pro baseball game usually last ? (link)
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Usually over 2 hours =)
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Ok, well theres this guy that likes me...he sits behind me in math and he is the play that i'm doing for Drama Class. He always looks at me and smiles and he's kinda weird and I dont like him at all. I mean as a friend, ya, but not as anything more. How can i get him off my back?!
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Try not to look at this guy and just ignore him. Hopefully, he'll get the picture! If he doesn't, when you catch him staring at you during class, just say "I really don't like it when you stare at me all the time!" And, if he still gives you trouble, come back to me and I'll see if I can help you more! =)
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Well im 15 and i have a WONDERFUL boyfriend. we've been together for 3 years!! and u have to admit thats pretty long..anyways, he gets horny a lot, and he tries to get me to have sex with him sometimes, and im just NOT ready!!! He understands tho of course since hes a real understanding person, but last night, he tried to have sex again!! and of course, (as always) i stopped him. And this morning he came over, and gave me a letter, and then left..here's whut it said..
Dear Nicole,
This no - sex thing just isnt working for me. Im sorry, its just that i get sooo HORNY whenever i see you..i jack off, and i just cum and stuff. I dont have a very strong will, so i think u should rethink about the no-sex thing. you know that i love you either way tho..and i cude never break up with you..but ur a fantastic person, and i neeeeeeeed you..
Love,
Chris
should i just have sex with him and get it over with? or should i stick with my first answer? PLEZE HELLLLLLLPP ME!!!!!!!! (link)
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Go with your heart! If you feel that you're not ready to have sex with Chris, he HAS to understand this! Don't have sex with him just to get it over with, because that lowers your self-esteem so much, especially if you were waiting until you got older and maybe even until marriage!
Just tell Chris that you're definitly not ready to have sex with him, but you still love him and could probably do other pleasurable things with him, but just don't want to have sex just yet.
Hope my advice will work for you! Good luck & stick with your heart and mind! =)
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My sister was like to me "what are you drinking" and im like "apple juice" and she starts yelling me calling me a heffer and crap! like im not even on my diet anymore...and im not even fat but she says if i eat stuff and drink all this sugary stuff im gonna be huge later on and im like..uhh its just juice. i was thirsty so i drake some. and she was like thers crystal light..and i didnt feel like crystal light so i drank apple juice..we always fight about this and i know she cares about me and she doesnt wanna see me get huge...but she always makes me cry and she makes me feel fatter times 200. idk what to do..i hate myself now i just wanna lose weight so im anarexic like her and then shes happy and she can get off my back. ugh! what do i say to her to get her off my back!!! (link)
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How cruel your sister is! She has no right to tell you that you're fat or that you'll get huge when you're older...who made her the judge of this?! Drinking apple juice is perfectly fine! =)
Since right now you're probably growing like most other girls, you need to keep eating! Don't starve yourself just because your sister does or says your fat. Eat whatever your little heart desires! =) I also recommend you should talk to your mom and tell her that your sister has been on your back about this whole weight loss thing!
Get back to me if you need some more advice! Good luck & keep eating, sweetie! =)
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Okay, im thirteen and i have a boyfriend who is the greatest thing in my life right now, hes so suportive towards me..and i really would like to spend the rest of my life with him and i know alot of people are gunna tell me that im 13 and alot of things are gunna go on in my life that might change and i dont even know what love is, but trust me i do i know exactly what it is thanks too him, but anyways...we both wanna go further..cause we both have the same feelings for eachother, and i wanna go further but i dont know how far..i mean we have made out alot...and like fingered..whats next? help me and ill rate you (link)
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You're very mature for your age, and I think you should just follow your heart, sweetie! If you feel you're ready to go further, and maybe even have sex, then go ahead if you're 100% sure. If you're going to do anything, always, always, ALWAYS have your boyfriend were a condom!
If you need some more advice just tell me! =)
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Okay, I have a journal, & i'm in the process of making a friends only journal, but how do i do it, i dont get it at all, anyone want to help me out with that, and if anyone knows how to use one of them layout thinsg too that would be great help! I'm pretty good with HTML, but LJ's.. I don't know.. Thanks alot. x3 Kayd.
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Thank's again. (link)
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I'd love to help you! I'll IM you or you can IM me - XO SWEET PEA O3 - because I have a live journal and can help you with a bunch of the HTML tricks and making it so just your friends can see it! =)
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I have a big poster of aaliyah on my door and its getting kind of old ive had in since i was in 7th grade. what should i do with my door? i dont want it to be empty! nothing i have to go out for just stuff @ home. thanks! (link)
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I love Aaliyah! Anyways, hehe, you should put more recent celebrities on your door! First, paint it a very bright color, and then tape them to the door. Also, put pictures of all your friends and good times that you had together! =)
If you need some more suggestions just tell me!
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Ok, here's my first question.
Sometimes I notice when someone asks a question, someone will reply with "I don't know and I can't help you." Well if you don't know, why did you reply? Skip it and go on.
The second is more of a philosophical question...if you clone yourself, and then have sex with your clone, are you gay, or just masturbating? Cause, you are having sex with someone of the same sex, but it IS yourself. (link)
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Wow, that's a really weird question! I think you're just gay because you are having sex with someone of the same sex, but it's really weird how it's like a mini-you! I bet you could ask a priest (weird, I know) or look it up online somewhere.
There are probably so many different ways to answer that question, but I think it means that the person is gay! It's really odd...good question and I agree with the other part you said before! =)
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In my old school, I wasn't all that popular, and this year I want to be way more popular than I was before. I want to know how to act and how not to act and stuff like that. Please help ASAP!! (link)
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Just be yourself! Also, be open to liking anyone, and I mean ANYONE in your school! That includes the cheerleaders, nerds, jocks, and other popular people. Because, after all, being popular means being friends with everyone and they like you =)
If you need some more advice on this topic just drop it in my inbox, sweetie!
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how on gods green earth do you kiss??? some instructions wher to put my hands, and what to do with my tounge would help!! hurry i have a date in 2 hours (link)
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Ok, ok! Kissing really does just come naturally, but you can just move your tongue anywhere in the guy's mouth! Most people don't like it when you like their face...haha =)
Also, just put your hands anywhere I guess. It kind of depends on the situation. Maybe just hold him...but see where he puts his hands on you and then maybe that's where you can put your hands on him?
Have fun tonight and tell me if you want more advice! =)
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duz anyone know if crunches really make u lose weight???? or do they just make ur stomach flatter? (link)
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Crunches DO make you lose weight, if you do them properly - lifting about 6 inches off the ground. That's the sure way to get abs and to trim your stomach! You won't lose weight overnight, but after a couple months of doing crunches everyday, you'll definitly see some amazing abs! =)
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i know this is dumb, but im scared to im my friend online to tell him that he did a really good job in theater arts today. i wanna say something but im scared he'll b like um thanks watever leave me alone. cuz we dont talk online, just in class...wanna help? =) (link)
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Well, if the two of you talk in class, then it should be even easier to be able to talk to him online! It should be even more comfortable to compliment him online! So I say go for it and tell him he did a great job in theater arts today! =)
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ok i'm grounded for a month ( no joke its been 2 weeks) and my frndship with ma best friend is fading away. i yell s0o much i lost my voice for 4 days and evrything. at this point i dnt wahna live nemore ! i'm losing it ! helpp me (link)
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Well this is kind of a hard question to answer...but I'll do my best! =)
First of all, in order to get your voice back, try to do as little talking as possible - and drink less soft drinks (soda, etc.).
For the friendship problem, you need to talk to your friend (once your voice comes back). Since you're probably not grounded from going to school for another two weeks, you'll see you best friend there =) Tell her that you feel like your relationship with her is fading away, and you're worried. Once your un-grounded, plan a day when just you two can get together and catch-up on what you guys have missed out with each other!
If you don't go to school with your best friend, you'll have to wait until your un-grounded to do what I said above (if you want to).
I hope I helped you! =)
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hey ive never been kissed, but at my friends party we're playing 7 minutes in heaven. i really wanna get my first kiss from the guy i like (whos invited, but has a g/f whos not) so i dunno what to do!! if u could help i rate =) (link)
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Just tell your friend who's hosting the party to say "I dare (your crush) to kiss (your name)!" Then it shouldn't be too obvious...Good luck and have fun! =) Tell me how it all turns out.
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When this site was getting hosts changed or whatever, and it was on a temporary hosting thingy, I could get in and stuff, and i answered a question in my inbox, and it hasn't shown up in my column? What happened? (link)
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The question was probably deleted. Sometimes that happens even after you answer a question, which would result in it not showing up on your column!
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I went out with this guy for 9 months, and I was in love. His family had to move so we broke up:( It was really hard but now were good friends and we talk on the phone and on IM. When we were going out, he was really over protective of me and he always kept me safe and all. Now that its over, I flirt with guys a lot and my "friend" told him that. Hes soooo mad at me and I dont know why. He shouldent even be mad because its over!! I just wanna tell him to shut up..but I wont..so what do I say to make him understand that were not going out and he doesnt have to be over protective and all? He even has a gurl-friend and he doesnt see me getting all mad..ugh!! (link)
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Just tell him that since you guys aren't going out anymore, he has no reason to be mad at you! It makes so sense - you don't even see him anymore and he's still overprotective of you. Tell him to cut you some slack and to mind his own business! =)
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k well i play feild hockey, and during the game one of our team members went missing...we were looking several hours after the game. know one knows wheere she went. we were both playing on the feild and then it was half time and she was gone. her father was there and didnt know where she went either. one moment she was on the feild then she was gone? im really scared and nervouse for her.....wht do i do! (link)
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Make sure that you call the police! There's nothing more that I can say! She could have been kidnapped or something, it's a very scary world out there!
Call the police, police, police, NOW!
...And I hope you guys find her! =)
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well i havnt had my period and i take a shower everyday and stuff but i keep having this like gupy sticky white wet stuff comin out of well u no....and its always wet down there and i dont no y....it also smells bad. Is there sumthin wrong with me? What is this? (link)
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Ok, that is discharge (the clear or white stuff) that you see, and it's perfectly normal to be a little wet "down there". Usually it doesn't have any odor, or a very little smell.
If it starts to smell more, you could have an infection, so tell your mom or doctor immediately!
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