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there is no way to make it come. it will start on its own in no time. trust me, its nothing to be wanting. its a total pain once you get it. so enjoy your time being period-free. =]

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What Is Meant When Sum1 Says "will U give Me A Dance"

its the same as saying "will you dance with me?"

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i was looking on literotica's store section and found some vaginal tightening cream. i wanted to know what exactly it does and how it works

thnx a bunch

scroll down on this site and it will answer everything about it.

http://www.ayurvediccure.com/vagina-tightening-cream.htm

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The lyrics are
This is not the way that life goes down down down...
I googled it but it didn t find it.

lutricia mcneal-aint that just the way

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what works better? straighteners with ceramic plates or those brush ones? my hair is pretty thick and curls up at the front, the rest is wavy. i would just like to know what you think would work better?. thanks in advance.

ceramic straighteners definitely work much much better. i would get one of those. =]

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Is there anyway to actually get rid of dark circles underneath your eyes besides hiding them with cover up? I know it's from a lack of sleep, but I've been sleeping a lot lately and they're still there.

http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Rid-of-Black-Circles-Under-Your-Eyes

this site lists plenty of ways on how to get rid of them. =]

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okay so i pretty much hate my mom
we havent got along at all this year
and shes always cussin at me, calling me names and i hate it cuz ill be at school and then once i face her at home its like i wish i was dead, or ran away or something where i never see her again.
and then shes always blaming me on everything.
and she does drink alot of beers which kind of bugs me as well
and im just wondering if you can be put into child service or something on your say?
youll pry say ill miss my mom but im not joking, i noe some kids who wish they could runaway but then there problems get better. MINE HASNT!

i would talk to a school counselor or any trusted adult who can help you out. you should not have to go through this. instead of calling social services and getting some random family to live with, do you have a close friend you can live with for now? maybe you can talk to he/shes parents and they could let you stay with them for a while until you can move out on your own.

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I have a traditional family. you know, brothers sisters, a mom and a dad. but I feel like they don't care about me. don't get me wrong, my friends and teachers and church leaders think I'm amazing. They love me so much, and they never ask me to be what I'm not, but none of the people that I think should love me do. my sister is 3 and she's always telling me I'm a bitch and she hates me (I'm not lying), I'm 5'4 and 115 pounds and my brother keeps telling me I'm fat, my mother is always trying to make me dress in trendy clothes that I hate and telling my I'm weird because I'd rather be myself thatn what anyone else wants me to be, and my dad ignores me completely. I was suicidal for a long time and they never even noticed. I know they aren't right about me not being worth their time because how can everyone else in the world be wrong, but how do I deal with the people who are supposed to love me unconditionally seeming to not care at all?

17/f

what you need to do is talk with a school counselor or teacher or anyone who can let you know you are loved. spend time with good friends and other people who you can be yourself around. i think the best thing would be to tell either your mom or dad how you feel and how frustrated you are, and maybe they can talk with you about it or take you to someone who you can talk to. bottling up all those feelings inside isnt good. its much better to get it out in the open. calmly tell your parents how you feel. i know this is going to be really really hard for you probably and you may not want to do it, but once you get things out in the open i think you will feel much better. im here for you if you ever need someone to talk to. =] things will get better soon.

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are there any websites that tell what the starting pay is for places like handel's, ritter's, etc? if anyone works at any of these places and knows, please let me know. i'd also like to know which pays the best out of:
handel's, steak n' shake, target, marsh, ritter's, starbucks
and which one you guys think would be the best place for meeting people during work.
any other suggestions would be great too! thanks

starting pay depends on the state you live in, not necessarily the restaurant. most of the restaurants you listed off, however, will probably start at about $6.50 for minimum wage.

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what's a site where i can find cute bathingsuits? i want ones that are of good quality like the ones at j.crew, any store/website is good :)

thank you!

(and i know, completely wrong category. sorry :()

victoriassecret.com
everythingbutwater.com

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I need some help.. I am 14 years old and I still havnt gotten my period yet. I have been getting discharge for it seems like EVER ( I am very active and in a lot of sports idk if that helps or not) My sis (who is the same exact age as me we are twins) got hers like 3 weeks ago. Is somthing wrong with me?!?

no its no big deal at all. dont worry, you will get it at least by the time you are 16. for right now do NOT worry about it. enjoy being period-free. trust me, its much better not having it. there is nothing wrong with you.

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Is there some exercises or some exercise program (not a really expensive one) that targets by hips and thighs? (and rear)

if you do about 50 lunges a day, you will see results in no time. it will get rid of all the fat and tone the whole area. also running is great for thighs and rear. =]

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what are some good songs to play
at a birthday party w/ a bunch
of girls?!

give it to me-nelly furtado and timbaland
promiscuous girl-nelly furtado
my humps-black eyed peas
glamorous-fergie
fergalicious-fergie
do somethin-britney spears
girls just wanna have fun-cyndi lauper
wind it up-gwen stefani
l.o.v.e-ashlee simpson
beautiful liar-shakira and beyonce

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What does the phrase "to knock your lights out" mean?

to beat someone up until they are unconcious.

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Hey thanks for those good ideas,
you have anymore?

if you could pick a theme you want, tell me and i can give you ideas for decorations and food and things to do for it. =]

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k well like if i start to run everyday for like 30 minutes, will like my legs get all muscular,
because someone told me running turns the fat into muscle, or does it burn the fat off then start tog gain muscle, cos i dnt wanna be more muscular so could i like stop after i lose the fat?

&like would running help your whole body.

running doesnt exactly add muscle, it just tones your whole body. this means basically all the fat will be gone and you will look really tight all over, not muscular.

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hey,
does anyone know lyrics that are about falling for someone over and over again, and not being able to help it, because you're in love?

nelly and tim mcgraw-over and over again
alicia keyes-fallin

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ok well my sweet sixteen pary isnt until dec. but i want to start planning and buying stuff now to make sure its perfect. Does anyone have any ideas on what to do for it? Nothing to traditional. do you have any game ideas or things to do cuz i really dont know what people do. soo thanks in advance.

i think you should do a hollywood theme. everyone dresses up hollywood style (best dress) and you could have red fabric layed out on the floor when everyone walks in like a red carpet. have dancing. food. music. just go crazy. make sure everyone gets there picture taken on the red carpet with the birthday girl and then they can all get a copy at the end of the night to take home. if you need more ideas just ask me in my inbox. i would love to help you with more ideas for the hollywood theme. =]

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how do i motivate myself? my appetite to overeat seems to outweigh my desire to be skinny. but then after i binge i get so depressed that i'm not skinny.

look at skinny girls in magazines for some thinspo to get you motivated. it really helps.

http://groups.xanga.com/groups/group.aspx?id=2295591

this site has lots of it. also here is a bunch of stuff to do instead. so next time you feel like binging pick one of these out and do it

http://anorexicnation.mydeardiary.com/entry.html?de_key=1598176

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are beyonce and jay z broken up?

thats the rumor going around but im pretty sure they are still together. =]

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