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i think my friend has an eating disorder! i don't know how to ask her if she does, and if she does, wich i'm like 99% sure she deos, how do i talk to her about it, help please!
I think its best to just ask her. I mean, she might get pissed if she finds out you try snooping around her business and looking for hints and stuff. Do some research and see if those conditions match her. If they do, just talk to her about it. You'll have to contront her sooner or later. Tell her your there for her instead of yelling at her, presuring her, anything that might be stressful towards her. Hope this helped
After I had unprotected sex for the second time with my boyfriend I bled a little and now for the past 2 days I have been bleeding on and off my period was about two weeks ago and I'm sure it could not have come now, I took a pregnancy test yesterday that came out negative but I think it's only because if I am pregnant I would have to wait longer. Could I be pregnant?
I'm not 100% sure so heres a site that is smarter than I am with pregnancy..
http://babymed.com/faq/Content.aspx?13241
I would think that your cherry just was poped, like it still bleed even though you already had sex before. But if its a heavier flow then try waiting a few days before taking another pregnancy test. If it comes out negitave again then I think you'll be fine. Hope this helped, good luck.
Katie
so i have a boyfriend and he is the nicest guy ever, but i also talk to this other guy who seems like such a nice guy. im starting to have feelings for this other guy friend but i dont no if i like him like that or just a realy good friend. My boyfriend is great in all but im starting to have feelings for somebody else and not him anymore. and i know he likes me a lot. witch makes this even harder.
I say that if you want to stay with your boyfriend then try staying away from this other guy so you don't have to see him and fall for him. You know what I mean? It might help to kind of try and forget him or you'll end up just missing him. But if you want to find out if you could like him more than a friend, hang out with him. To make your boyfriend not jealous/curious/worried try hanging out with him and a group of people. Don't think its horrible to not like your boyfriend anymore, most of the time you can't help how you feel. If you like someone new, then you like someone new. You shouldn't feel bad but you probably will cause you don't want to hurt your boyfriend. Hope this helps
Katie
i'm going to be a freshman and im nervous of the school . im scared illl get lost and whatnot and be pushed around and stuff. what should i do. i mean i am a very outgoing and friendly person so any advice ?
Heyyy me too =]. I'm also pretty nervous about my classes, how i'll get around, being late to class and stuff like that. The plus for me is that the school is open the week before or so, which means I can go and look around, walk my classes and stuff. I'm not sure if your school offers that option, but if it does definately go and walk around.. get familar. If it doesn't, then think of it this way- there are other freshman so you arnt the only one who will be nervous and scared. Try sticking with a friend untill you get used to the people and everything new. If your out going and friendly then you shouldn't have a lot of trouble finding friends. Hope this helped
Katie
hey katie
well i have thi sone sn that is
cute but liek i dont really like anymore
do you no any cute sns. like can you give me
some options. thanks so much.
Ummmm Ive been ask this alot but you need to understand that its hard to think of sns for someone you havent talked to. Please just i.m me so you can tell me what kind of sn you would like, im not sure what your name is, your style, anything. Sorry just i.m me
im 14 a girl and i have 2 younger brothers and i have to look afer them a lot i dont mind i love them my mum works more hours since our dad died
the youngest is 3 and he is adorable kid i like playing with him my other brother is 7 and lately he doesnt say too much or he just stays in his room he igores me a bit im not sure if he a bit jealous about me spending more time with my younger brother everytime when i try to help him or play with him he seems to ignore me what can i do? could he be a bit jealous?
Yeah he could be jealous. If you think he is, try finding an activity all 3 of you can do together that gives both him and your youngest brother equal attention. Hope this helped
i became sick from anesthesia, so i had nothing in my stomach for about a day. the next day i began to eat normally (maybe even a little less then usual). the third day i ate completely normal...how i usually eat. i weighed myself and i am FIVE POUNDS HEAVIER THEN I WAS WHEN I BECAME SICK. why would this happen? will my weight go back down to what it always is? is there an explanation for this?
When you don't eat your metabolism slows down. So then when you start eating again your body clings to every morsel of food and it doesn't naturally burn it off. I am not 100% sure on that, but Im pretty sure.. hope this helped
Hey...today is my birthday (16th)..and my parents said i could probably get my belly button pierced for it.
I found a trustworthy place to get it done...but rumor has gone around that theres a new law in Pennsylvania that you have to be 18 (even if you have your parents with you) to get it done. Has anyone else heard this.
Also...if any of you have yours pierced...could you give me any disadvantages of getting it done...? I am active (soccer and basketball)...so will it get infected constantly?
Thanks!!
I've got mine done and I'm only 14. My mom had to come with of course, and the guy asked for my i.d. but I didn't have any form of i.d. He let me slide so thats a plus. But I'm from Illinois so I don't know much about Pennsylvania laws.
I like having my belly button pierced, its cute and all its just that for sports it can be a nusence. It probably is different for the sport though. See Im in cheerleading and I have to bend backwards, tuck into a ball, flip, jump.. do a bunch of weird positions.. also catching people and flying because it can easily be ripped out. I would think that soccer and basketball might be not as rough on your piercing as cheerleading, but you still might get it bumped into and psuhed against. Eventually getting it bumped won't really hurt but for the first month, week, whatever.. it might hurt. I don't think it'll get infected if you clean your body. I didn't do anything really special to mine, I just cleaned around it with Lever 2000 soap. Going in hot tubs, pools, & baths help clean it out. Hope this helped!
im 5'4" and 12 years old. how much should i weigh?
First, don't think you "should" weigh anything. You don't have to do anything or be anything you don't want. I'm not going to say you have to weight inbetween a certain amount, I'll just name a healthy weight for a 5'4" person.
Self.com says between 108-145.
http://www.self.com/fitness/body/calculators/idealweight
Hope this helped.
how much should you weigh at 12 years old?
Well, whats your height? You can be 12 and like 5'6 and your weight will be different from someone whos only 4'11. Try these..
http://www.caloriecontrol.org/ibw.html
http://www.seventeen.com/health-sex-fitness/bmi-calculator/
ok, so lately i've been working out a lot. I run three miles in the morning and then do the elyptical for an hour (600 calories) plus some free weights. I eat about 1000 calories a day. Do you think this is too much? I feel like it isn't, but my mom is starting to act like she thinks i'm over doing it. I'm not overweight, 5'5" and 130, i'm in good shape, like i'm athletic, i just want to lose that "baby fat" around my stomach and arms. Should I keep going at this pace, and what should I tell my mom, because she's gonna think i'm anorexic if I keep turning down chocolate icecream!
Somewhere I heard if you exercise for more than like an hour you should eat atleast 2000 calories. I think you should just eat around 1600. I mean your doing alottt of working out too, so 1600 is good.
http://www.caloriecontrol.org/calcalcs.html
Try that. Hope this helped!
ok so me and my friend both have boyfriends that smoke, and we make out all the time.
we were both wondering if there is any way that their smoke and everything from the cigerettes and everything else can get into our systems by making out.
we know that the scondhand smoke can like damage our lungs and all that but is kissing them going to be like us smoking ?
and she has to take a drug test in a few weeks for her job and doesnt want to fail because of that.
any help you have will be great !
thanks !
For drugs test, don't they look threw your blood or urine? So I think.. im not sure.. but they won't find the smoke unless they are looking for nicotine. And it's not an illegal drug unless your underage which I'm not sure if you are or not. I'm not real good with this subject so I had to ask a few people and I got.. that kissing a smoker isn't affective because second hand smoking is like inhaling the smoke from the smoker. And unless they are making out with you with smoke in there mouth, the only thing that might happen to you is you might smell or smoke or have a smokey taste to your mouth. Hope this helped =]
Katie
my gf and i have been together almost 6 months and
were both 16 and she wants to take things further
im a bit worried my penis well is not that big its quite small and its a bit embarrassing she hasnt seen it yet but im nervous abou what shell think or if shell stay with me does it matter that much? will it still grow?
I'm not sure what your girlfriend would say, but I believe if she cares about you alot then it won't matter to her. It probably won't grow if the rest of your body is gone growing. Hope this helped
is diet coke better for you than regular coke since it has 0 calories? because i heard it was worse for you, but i'm so confused.
Diet coke is just hidden sugar's and crap. It's better than normal pop I believe, but that doesn't mean its good.
im 15 a guy and lately ive been getting erections a lot the other day i was with my gf at home and we were kissing and she noticed i had an erection she laughed a little and i went to my room for a few minutes i was a bit embarrassed so im wondering if this is a normal thing to happen?
im a bit worried
Yeah I'm sure its normal. If it gets too much of a problem, try un-erecting yourself, haha. Think of nasty things that turn you off.. maybe that'll work. Hope this helped
ok so like i think some boys are
cute but like i would never go
out with them.
but like i no im not gay becuase
i dont think girls are cute etheir.
like is this werid? is it maybe becuase
i dont have my period?
please help.
thanx =]
No. The only reason your period might affect this is because you haven't gone fully through puberty so your not fully mature. Even though you'll mature even after your period, and anytime later in life. Just cause you wouldn't go out with a guy doesn't mean your gay. You just arn't intrested in them yet. Hope this helped
i was just wondering how you got your pic to change colos like that? please tell me.
I just answered a question like this...
Well I first edited the picture on this program "Picasa2" on my computer. I don't know how it got on there but yeah I used it, and picked out colors I wanted, then tinted my picture with those colors and saved each picture. Then I went to ...
www.lunapic.com
and after uploading one of the pictures that was colored, I clicked on "add animation". Then you just follow what the site says about adding pictures and stuff. I set mine to change in .5 seconds. If you don't have a program to tint your photos, then just go on luna pic and browse around for different editing things you can do to your picture. Hope this helped!
Katie
how do you like bold a comment on myspace.
then un bold it? haha sorry i just never know
how to do this and im wondering, k thanks katie=]
To make something bold? Like the font.. use this code..
your font will be bolded.
If that doesn't show up.. then the code is.. the little side arrow (less than), "b", another side arrow (greater than). Then put your font you want bolded,then do the same thing as before but put a forward slash infront of the "b". Hope you understand that.. hah
Ok so I have this friend. I don't really like her. At all. I dont want to be mean and tell her i don't like her, but i dont want to keep pretending i do. What should i do?
I guess just try ignoring her. It's not nice and not the "right thing" to do.. but it's your choice. You can ignore her and stay away, avoid talking to her, lie if you don't want to hang out. Hopefully she'll get the picture or just be like.. "she doesn't hang out alot so maybe I'll talk to someone else more often". Hope this helped
Katie
So i met this boy at my best friends grad party and he was so cute. We started talking and stuff and he seemed so nice. Now, he says like gay shit to me like "when we gonna hook up" and stuff and it bothers me because i havent really hung out with him yet, so why would he just assume im gonna hook up with him? what should i do?
He might assume that because 1. hes a guy 2. you talked, you hung around him, he might just jump to conclusions that your into him. I'd be pissed too, it's pretty rude to say that to a girl. If I were you I would suggest hanging out to see if you think hes as great as he seemed. If he is, then maybe you will hook up, have a relationship.. who knows. If hes not-so-great, then thats that.. you just met a "not-so-great" guy I guess. Hope this helped
Katie