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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

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Ok Lately I've Been getting these really annoying phone call's And i dont know who it is the caller ID says Private Call... and no number... When I answer I eather get a silence or someone says Hey im like who's this their like im jeff ( I dont know any jeffs!!) Im like I dont know a Jeff their like ok so whats up?... I mean i hang up on them told them not to call anymore i dont know them and they WONT get the hint to leave me alone... My parents havnt called the phone company yet and I cant get them to do it anytime soon! but these calls come anytime except for school hours... as early as 5:30 in the morning to as late as 1:30 a.m. I leave my pc online at night so I wont get woken up... any advice on how to handle my situation? Its really tireing me out and makin my b/f mad cause im getting these calls from a guy I dont know... Help! Sry Its so long

TnkZ

just threaten him and say you'll call the cops! or you can call the phone company yourself and see what they can do. i also know that theres a way your phone company can set it so your phone blocks all incomming calls with a blocked number, so they wont get through at all unless they dont block the number. x0x0x!

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hey -

i was just like wondering how you makeout.and wahts the difference between kissing and makingout.im 13

the difference is when you make out theres tounge involved. ts hard to explain "how" to do it because its soo natural. u just kiss, and eventually u open ur mouth and ur tounges touch n stuff...its really natural!

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my dad almost killed me, i wont go near him any more. im so scared! he came at me because i threw his glasses on the floor. he kicked me hit me and pulled my hair! oh yeah i did have a knife but i therw it on the table and ran!
im so scared what should i do?
Amy
ps: im crying my eyes out right now
pss i feal sick too

wow, he has anger problems. if it happened recently, call the cops immediatly. he'll probably go to jail..so call the cops if you want him too. if you plan on telling someone, the sooner you do it, the better because there will be more physical evidence. and you did nothing wrong because you didnt touch him. im so sorry that happened to you hun. x0x0x0x0

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im tired of waiting for this boy i love to make a move.. like he admits he has feelings and we talk and hang out alot.. but were not going anywere.. its been like 3 months.. do i move on.. or stick with him.. any thing should help! thank you

maybe hes waiting for you to make the first move! just go for it! lol gl

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My friends and I all want to go trick or treating this year together because it's probably going to be our last year. Since there's 5 of us, the only thing we could think of as a "theme" was the Wizard of Oz. Any ideas for homemade costumes?? We don't want to go out and spent the money. for instance, we need help with Dorothy's shoes, her dress, and the Cowardly Lion. Thanks in advance!

dorothys shoes, go to a arts n crafts store and buy some red glitter and paste it to some red pumps lol, you could use a picnic blanket and sew it to make the dress, and for the tin man, maybe you could wrap yourself in aluminum foil!! kinda crazy i kno but it sounds fun! ooo for the lion you could get some brown costume fur and wrap it around your head so it looks like a mane!! haha!!!!!! lol x0x

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Is giving a hand job considered 2nd or 3rd base?

2rd. the 4 F's - french feel finger fuck. i think its considered feeling...but some people think differentlyx0x0x

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So I like this guy, and he was about to sign off so he was like yeah call me or whatever so I did...and he said hes going to call back in a hour. but I'm soo nervous when i talk to him! I need things to say on the phone when he calls me because If I dont practice I'll end up being retarded!! What things should we talk about??? awww i love him! :D!

haha thats adorable. just talk about stuff he'll be interested in. remember its not one of your girls. talk about cars, sports, him, music, ask him wut hes interested, what he likes to do for fun, tuff like that! just keep him interested in. x0x0x!

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I broke my wrist lyk 2 years ago and sometimes it totaly gives out on me is that normal?
-kla
Ps.I wear a brace to do tumbling.
and im 13 so i was 11 when i did it so ya!
when i broke it it was a bad break it was all the way over and i couldnt feel it so it didnt hurt! bad break ya .

i think thats normal!! its still prolly healing n it prolly hit a few nerves but i think its ok! if it rly bothers you alot see a doc. hey my names kla 2 lol. x0x0x

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Hey,
Do any of you know any sites I can go to online to take a quiz to see if I'm depressed? Please help... I really need to know! I'll rate everyone who gives me at least one site.

i think www.emojoe.com has those kinda tests! or go a google search! x0x0x

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last year i gotinto this huge fight with my best friend in the whole world and its too long to explain but to fill you in the fight caused us to not be friends anymore. Now this year , out of the blue she apologizes and she confessed how she really feels and how she regrets how she stopped being my friend and stuff and i started to miss being friends with her. Should i be friends with her again...i mean theres always room to start over...right?

just try to start ove rand stuff, it cant hurt!! and if you decide you just dont want to, then just tell her tht its not gunna wrk! it never hurts to give people 2nd chances, just be careful! if she was ur best friend, she deserves another chance! x0

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Does anybody no some good stores that sell some basic cute shirts or does anybody have a good shirt that would look good on me i have blonde hair and im tall

forever 21, rue 21, rave, rampage, dept. stores, aeropostale, abercrombie, ae, i sn just go to the mall and go into every store haha!!!

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ok..i have a bf and we live kinda close but he goes to another school but i never see him we r in the same religion class but that is for only an hour every week and he doesnt really like to go out like to the movies so does anybody no wat i should do without breaking up with him
thanks

if he doesnt like movies then do something you dont normally do like go bowling together, or get a group of ppl n start a big saturday soccer game or something, or have him over to ur house or go 2 his, go 2 the mall to hang out or something, to out to eat, go to a sports event or a concert together, you can do anything!!! have fun n i hoep it works out! x0x0x

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my two bestfriends hate me for no reason! they think i talk about them when i dont nd ive told them a million times that i dont talk about them. i still want to be freinds with them, what should i do? please help!

put them on the spot. ask them exactly what you said, when you said it, and where you were. they wont be able to answer you, and if they say "so n so told me blah blah blah" be like ok when did they hear it? hopefully theyll realize that its bull. and if they dont, theyre not worth ur time anyway! xoxxo

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My room is always messy and when I clean it up it just gets messy again! Im try to keep organized but it just never seems to work! What are some tips or things I can put in my room that will help me?

when you take something away from its place, just put it back when your done. like right away..that way you dont have to put away like a million things at once. when you do laundry, just put it away right away, n have a little place for everythng -- not your floor lol. hope i helped!!

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Anyone know any ways to fix short curly hair?

straighten it, put gel in it n keep it down n curly, put it 1/2 up, put it all the way up either tight n clean or loose and messy, little clips, anything!! x0x

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ive been with my boyfriend for just a week or so and he wants to have sex, and i want to too...and he told me he loved me but i dunno to belive him or not, what do i do?

depends on the person. in most cases the guy just wants some ass. a week is kind of soon for love, so i mean if you want to have sex with him than you should, but dont get up hopes up for him really being in love! good luck w. the relationship!! x0x0x

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okay in like 3 1/2 hours my next door neighbor is having a birthday party and im invited. i have no clue what to get him! hes 12 , likes baseball , basketball , rap ! any ideas?

a baseball or a baseball glove, a basketball, a cd, a baseball cap, or a poster or something!! hope this helps!

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hey everyone. im manda and im 14 years old. i need to start babysitting in order to get some money. well i just moved into my new house in a new town. i want to make babysitting flyers to take and give to some of my neibors. i just need to know what to put on it. um.. i get pretty decent grades, im responsible, i love kids, i dont mind changing dipers. i am trained in CPR and First Aid and have the cards to prove it. so what should i put on the flyer to make it look appealing to parents n stuff? thanks for ur guys' help!

much love
xoxo
manda

Jut at the top something like "babysitter looking for work!!!" n then below it put in a list or something all your expierence and all the stuff you mentioned to us, and at the bottom put your full name and phone number! n a good place to put them is a bulliten board at the hair cuttery...alot of moms look at those!!! x0x

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I met this guy I really like at a football game this past Friday.. Well.. he called me Sunday and asked me out. Since he asked me out.. we talk on the phone for HOURS at a time. I mean like 3 and 4 hours for each call.
Im really starting to like him ALOT! Is it possible to fall in love with someone u barely know?

It's probably just a very very big crush right now, but you could end up falling in love!! I don't think you're "in love" with him, but you might love him! Trust me there's a very big difference!!!

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hey please read this...i know its kinda long!?. ok i need your help pretty badly. saturday night i spent the night w/ one of my friends & she was really tired so she went on to bed. her brother came home & me(& 2 other girls who were spending the night) stayed up & talked to him for like 3 hours. so anyway i've been talkin to him on the internet like eversince saturday. so yesterday i got my braces off. he told me last night that he knew this 'cool guy' who wanted to make out w/ me since i got my braces off. so i guessed for ever & he told me his friend knew & would probably tell me. so today at school i saw his friend & he told me that it was the guy that told me about the 'cool guy' or w/e(my friends bro). soo he wants to make out & stuff. he is a senior though & im only a freshmen! but...i think he's real fine & he can make me laugh & idk he's really cool. sooo do you think thats bad if we like make out just for fun or w/e?

Noo I think that's fine!! Haha there's absolutely nothing wrong with a night of fun! Just run it by your friend first just to make sure she's okay with you going on a date with her brother! Just make sure he's not using you for a make-out session! But if it's straight with your friend and you want to do it, then do it! Have fun x0x0x!!!

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