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okay well it's kinda complicated but i'll try to explain the important facts. the guy i am with is the MOST wonderful guy, and i mean it. we will be getting married soon, and i really want that more than anything. today people brought up some things he's done in the past, before i knew him. nothing horrible, but they were tryna tell me that he is a bad guy. and it was one of his ex's also, but i don't know if i should listen to her bout it. anywayz, i don't want to talk to him bout the things cuz it was in his past, before we met, and i don't think i have should inquire bout it cuz it was before i knew him. and yesterday he found out that one of his ex's is getting married, and he really had a thing for her, so it brought up past memories for him, and he said "please don't ever run out on me" and i told him i wouldn't. and i meant it. but what should i do about the things people have been telling me? should i ask him bout it or just leave it? thank you (link)
heyy...firstly, congrats on your soon-to-happen wedding


I am 15 years old and my grandmother (50) is expecting me to haev kids at 16 but I feel that is too young.i want to have kids at 30 years old but my parents thinks it is old. so can anyone tell me if it is?I really want to enjoy my 20's adn have fun.so thanks for your answers! (link)
i think you should explain to your parents and grand-mother that you still want to do alot of things before you settle down and have a family..(eg finishing highschool, going to college, partying with your friends etc)...explain to them that your not ready to take that reponsibiliy yet, and you want to wait untill you feel that have achieved the things that you wanted to do...and also if you feel you havent found the perfect guy yet, you can tell them that your waiting for the right guy.
Good luck and hope i helped.
-Krazy


I started to babysit for money. But there's this evil little kid that is very young (only 6!!) but is verrry perverted. He watches rated R movies, fastforwarding to sex scenes, and he's always trying to touch my parts. I'm 15!! How gross is that?! I told his parents about it, but they wouldn't believe me. He acts like an angel in front of them I guess. I yell at him and everything, but nothing works!!

WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? (link)
WHOAA...hes only 6 YEARS OLD!!! ....what you need to do is tell his parents that you cant babysit for him anymore if hes doing that because you feel uncomtable...really, some children like that are not going to listen even if you do yell at them...you really need to stop baby-sitting for that kid and get some new clients
-hope i helped


How should I politely say bye and hang up on the phone or MSN Messenger or anywhere when people take up my time chatting. (link)
heyy...if you dont just want to say "okay ill talk to you later bye"...you can make up an excuse that your mom or anyone needs the phone/computer now.....or you can say you have alot of hmwk to finish or something...there are many excuses to make up LOL
-hope i helped!!
kraZy


Well yea here is my problem, i have a boyfriend lets just call him henry, and we have been going out for almost 2 years and he is ready to settle down with me and have a family but and we have been promised to each other for a long time and he is ready to settle down but i am only 16 years old so wat do i do ? (link)
your only 16 years old!! You still have alot to do in your life...other guys to date,party all night, finish high school and work or go to college/university etc. Settling down and having a family is a BIG reponsibility..Think about it..you only have to stay with one guy, you wouldnt be able to hang out with your all the time..when you have a baby, you have to spend ALL your time with it...you have PLENTY of time for that when your older....right now your a teenager and you should live your life to the fullest!
-hope i helped and good luck with your decision


I need as much information as possible!! it's highly apreciated!!!!!!

Ok, i'm normally one to give advice, and it'e driving me insane, because i'm stuck in this situationand i feel as if i'm cornered. This guy i've liked for a good couple of months now, just started really talking to him this week and last week and a little from the week before. But we just now really started getting into deeper conversations. I really like him he's sweet, considerate, and never ditches me for his other guy friends. He talks to me and yesterday when he was driving me home, we talked and I felt like I was in heaven. But he talks to me about this one girl he wants to ask out.... yes it totally crashes my moment. And he tells me that he doesn't know if he wants to go out with her or not because he dumped his last GF a few weeks ago and his ex is best friends with the girl he wants to go out. So I feel pretty evil for wanting to do this but I want to make it so he goes out with me instead of the girl he keeps wanting to ask out. When I flirt with him he flirts back and we just have a great time talking and just talk for hours. What are things I could do to maybe catch his attention more? Anything that I can do to maybe make it so he'll be more interested in me?
I want to make a bold move but not something too bold that might scare him away but enough of a bold move to be like hey look at me i'm interested...

-Thank you so much, advice is needed!
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

-Very interested
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hmmm....this not be the best advice but i think you should go ahead and ask him out now...i mean if you dont do it now and he asks out another girl and she says yes...then they will be going out and you will feel down....but if you ask him out ans he says YES..then you would feel happy..this is all about taking the risk...i mean if you dont do it you are probably going to miss out on that guy...u went to the next level with flirting and maybe u shud step it up again...whats there to lose? so what if he rejects you? that doesnt mean you guys still cant be friends...basically im saying ask him out soon when you feel that its the time before another girl gets him...and if your really risky kiss him now and see what he does back...hope i helped a bit! good luck...bye


he has given me 2 nicknames, but he also has my friends but i was first. lol.i danced with him at a dance. he ocasionaly talks to me but i am shy and don't want him to know i like hiom so i don't really show any affection or talk either. he gives me high fives, and rests his hand on my head( and totally messes up my hair) so what i really want to know is does he like me and should i let him know i like him. please help. please. (link)
well i think you should flirt with him first and if he flirts back and you guys hitt it off, wait a while and then i think you should tell him that you like him...whats there t lose? if you dont ask him first some other girl will get him first and you want him not her!! LOL...hope i helped


At night I get REALLY scary dreams and I wake up terrified.In every dream I die. Not a peacefull death I mean murdered.Well I do't know what triggering these dreams im not watching scary movies and I havent resently, and before i go to sleep I eat a sandwhich.I've had about 4 diffrent dreams but have the same dreams multiple times.The one that accurs the most is the one I hate the most.I'm trapped in this house a house with like 9 other kids at any age.In the house we have to find a way out of the house and the guy that has us there planted maps and clues on how to get out.So kids are ripping things and its just a mad house but theres one girl i think 7 she has herself huddled in a corner crying, I try to talk to her and she never talks back she only looks up with these huge eyes and I can't help her.The first time I had this dream I never saw her and I just ventured off on my own and when I entered this room I woke up and I knew that I was killed.
Another dream I'm in this cage at the bottom of the ocean and im locked in it and i have to find the certain key to unlock myself and the other kids get out long before me and the same girl that was huddled in the corner in the house.I have never seen this girl before and in every dream she's there and I feel so helpless cause I cant even help myself.
This question is really long but theres more.
I dont know if there a similarity to my dreams to my actual life.I stayed back last year and I have no friends now and when I go to school im in hell and i feel helpless there too so i just wanna know why im having these dreams and how to prevent them from happening.
I'm sorry its so long but if you would please help me. (link)
wow...i am soo sorry that you have this dreams...i beileve you should go to a doctor and tell them about your dream beacause you never know if it could mean something...tell your parents/anyone close to you....once you talk to a doctor im pretty sure that they will recommend a physicatrist to you....and hopefully they can help you with your problem! Hope i helped bye!!


my mom and step dad broke up, so this christmas it's just me, my mom, and my sister. We'll be filling her stocking this year and i'm jsut wondering if anyone has suggestions what to put in it. little things, they don't have to be really cheap, but not too expensive either, just fun stuff.
thanks (link)
Hey...im thinking maybe cute little keychains...or little stuffed animals...cute socks are cool too.....or funky pens...hope i helped!! if you need some more ideas just holla!!


Alright so im 5'3, im 13 years old & i weigh 144.5 lb. I feel so overweight and a few guys have been calling me fat. It really upsets me and i REALLY want to loose weight! So please, anyone, give me tips on what excersizes work best & what i can do to get my body in shape (esp. my stomach and love handles) Thanks anyone who helps :D (link)
heyy OMG i have almost the same problem as you! i entered my question about this a couple of hours ago...once you get any good advice about this, can you please pass it on to me? oh and if any guys call you fat again just tell them that you may be fat but you still look good! ...i use that all the time...they shut up after that...anyways take care bye!!


i really want uggs for christmas but they are sold out EVERYWHERE
neimens
nordstrom
saks
lord and taylor
and uggs.com
if any of you know a site that sells them BESIDES ebay please help!!!!!!!
im looking mostly for talls in chestnut size 9 or shorts in brown size 9 THANK YOU (link)
ooo so you live in america...try the boulevard mall in Buffolo if you live near there....they have great stores there....or come to canada and there will lots....really every mall you go to here will have many selections of them...


okay i am a virgin, so i haven't had experience with guys pleasing me "down there". i am getting married next month and i know it is something that will come up soon, so i want to know how i could make sure that it is fresh. so it doesn't smell or taste nasty. thank you:)
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hey..just wanted to say congratulations and best wishes on your wedding day!:-)


My friend, she grew up havin a hard life... and so did her boyfriend, but his was really bad with an abusive father who was really bad. and know her boyfriend is like pshyco. I love my friend to death, and her and this boy have been going out for 8 months or more now and shes so in love with him. The other night she came over and she told us a story. He beat her up, threatened to kill her, and told her to get in a cage and she said no so he started beating her up. shes only 14, same with him. Im scared to death for her, but i know she loves him. He's been sent away to soo many places to try and fix him, but none work. Does anybody know any advice to try and help him.. Iknow when hes not in one of his pshyco stages his a really big sweat heart.. but what if someday something more happens, and he really hurts her/ or worse. (link)
Hmmmm..i understand how much she loves him but she really needs to leave that relationship....if you really care for her you would help her get out...she may can get really hurt and you dont want that...i think you guys should talk to a helpline or a trusted adult to help him....but for right now my thoughts would be for her not to meet him alone...they should meet in public places untill he gets fixed up...if she really loves him i believe she should try...but i advise you not to leave her alone with him for now.. hope that works for you..iif you need more advice ...just holla back:-)


hey okay im 5'3. and 113 lbs. i wanted to lose weight, or takesome flab off my stomach. what are good songs todance or do crunches to?? Thanks! (link)
the new workout plan- kanye west....hope u like it!:-)




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