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What can she do
My friend, she grew up havin a hard life... and so did her boyfriend, but his was really bad with an abusive father who was really bad. and know her boyfriend is like pshyco. I love my friend to death, and her and this boy have been going out for 8 months or more now and shes so in love with him. The other night she came over and she told us a story. He beat her up, threatened to kill her, and told her to get in a cage and she said no so he started beating her up. shes only 14, same with him. Im scared to death for her, but i know she loves him. He's been sent away to soo many places to try and fix him, but none work. Does anybody know any advice to try and help him.. Iknow when hes not in one of his pshyco stages his a really big sweat heart.. but what if someday something more happens, and he really hurts her/ or worse.
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OMG She needs to find help for him from authority right away. we both know we don't want the worst to happen. You need to calmly speak to your friend and let her know that you are there for her and ask her if she can contact an anger managment program. He's not psycho he's had a hard past. When all those emotions are kept inside, when there is no room to fill, everything he may have wanted his father to feel is coming right out. You have heart thinking about someone ya call psycho be proud and do the right thing. you know what you need to do. I know your friend will be alright. No matter what do not call DR.Phil. Keep this personal and on a low profile type of level.
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this is a really tough situation..the best advice I can give is that she needs to go away for a while. She is only endangering herself at the moment. Even if the kid is nice, its not good to let him get away with that..because he will only get worse. Her best bet is to refer someone on his case, and then tell him (with supervision case he freaks) that she loves him and is doing it to help him and will be waiting for him. But she absolutely cannot subject herself to the terrible harm..I know this case very well I have had a very similar experience but the guy did different things, and by the way something horrible happened and we are no longer together..at all. GOOD LUCK
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Tell your friend. Not to leave him fi she loves him, but thgat she can't be alone with him, adn that if she really loves him then she needs to take him to psychiatrist or a mental hospital before he does something that will ruin his life. She needs to realise that telling on him is the best way to help him. Even if its just to her parents and maybe if she talks to him when hes not being insane (with a parent present) that things'll get better. He needs her right now/ He needs to know that he has friends and family, and he needs help.
Hope it helped =)
and I seriously hope this guy can get some help and turn his life around.
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Hmmmm..i understand how much she loves him but she really needs to leave that relationship....if you really care for her you would help her get out...she may can get really hurt and you dont want that...i think you guys should talk to a helpline or a trusted adult to help him....but for right now my thoughts would be for her not to meet him alone...they should meet in public places untill he gets fixed up...if she really loves him i believe she should try...but i advise you not to leave her alone with him for now.. hope that works for you..iif you need more advice ...just holla back:-)
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