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Hey I've been through a lot! And I am try hard to give you a good answer! Im good with "girl stuff" too! So, leave me a question anytime, i check this at least once a day!!

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is it normal 2 get a boner when your making out with a girl or flirting with one,& if they could tell that you had a boner would they get freaked out & think im wired or anything!?

Nope! I wouldn't.
Its normal, and a part of life!
freshman/Female

:)

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-*KeLs*-
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I was talking to my boyfriend and he got a boner. I happened to glance at it and he noticed me looking and got real embarrassed. I can understand why he'd be embarrassed but now he's scared to talk to me anymore. I don't think it's gross or weird. It's natural and I wish he could see that I don't care. He doesn't have to feel ashamed or anything around me. He makes me horny too. TMI? Sorry!

well, if he is your boyfriend, then you too should be able to talk. so why not just tell him. just tell him that you dont think that it is wierd or gross.

:)

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-*KeLs*-
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O.K please help and fast... my mom has the flu and shes throwing up and stuff... what do i do? is there anything i can give her that will help her feel better?!? (not medicane) please help!
*i rate*

be good,o do what she says, and get her soup. and a card, and some good movies or something!!!

:)

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My sister has really bad cramps! Does any one know some quick fixes. She has already had motrain if that helps! Thanks!!

those heat things that you stick on your sumach!! WOW! THOSE ARE SO GOOD! its called like thermacare...

http://www.medco-school.com/images/products/34563L.jpg


there is the picture of them

:) Hope I Helped!
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*-KeLs-*
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all the boys at my school(but one)are cute in there own way and my mom say they really like me i flirted with some they flirted back but i never became closer to any of them but friends and enemys i don't know whats wrong im surronded by flirting hottys and i never get closer i feel invisable but i don't like it every one had a bf(or gf)'cept me i don't know what to do keep trying or just give up some one please help me ! ! !


~confused and lonley

well if everyone has one, then there wouldnt be one left for you.

i think that your exaterating tho.

just keep trying, and be yourself.

:)

maybe they like you but theyre scared that you dont like them

anyways, its better to have guy friends than a boyfriend!

:)
Hope I Helped-
-*KeLs*-

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Ok well.. i know this is a really odd question.. but what do you wear under a skirt...?? like i dont know what to wear under them.. i have a bunch, but i never wear them because its like, i dont know what to wear under?! any help??

I KNOW! you know tights right? okay, well there are some that go a little past your knees!

I have some mine are black! and i always wear it with my skirt!! you can look @ target, wal*mart, k-mart, or stores like that. mine were $6

Hope I Helped!
-*KeLs*-

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my 11 year old sister got her period, and she doesnt want her stuff in the bathroom or anywhere, because of my dad and brother.

okay. i dont really know what the question is. but its not a big deal. they know what it is. dont worry about it. i would say to put it in your room, but that is just nasty, coz then it can get on the floor or your clothes.

Heres what i did:
I got some cool colored shelves you know that slide in and out, and can do in the cabbinate or closet or next to the toilet in your restroom. So, you cant see what is inside of them. you can put tampons in one, maxi's in another, and mini pads in another. its awesome! and they should be all ontop of oneanother, so it should be pretty easy!

check this message again, or drop one in my inbox (Kels) and i'll send you a pic of the one i have, i just have to see if the the store has it in their online catalong, it was made for cds or dvds tho, but it was like $9.88 from Wal*Mart!

Hope I Helped-
-*KeLs*-

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i have tried all kinds of ways to get my self esteem up. but i just cant figure it out. i like myself a little bit more then i used to but not much. i want to love myself so that people can see the confidence in me because they like that. but i dont know how to raise my self esteem. any ideas, advice, whatever? lol

~♥~ Carrie ~♥~

k, well, it was the same for me. when something hurts you, dont let them know it. just always say, "yah, i can do this!" always think positive, and believe that you can do something.
try to smile and not frown because then that way people will see that you are happy. also if you always have a positive attitude, you will get a better grade! try that!

hope I helped-
-*KeLs*-

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okay. my bestest friend EVER is having a birthday soon. i want to write a poem and have it framed. the poem has to say how good a friend she is. can anyone help me out??? PLEASE!!!

You could use one of mine! or use it to help you think of one! i gave it to my best friend and she loved it!.

BTW_ its a great idea!

Late night phone calls, movies, shopping, chillin’ at the crib, sharing secrets about the guys, that’s how us girls live. Party all night long, dances, concerts, sleepovers, girl talk, late lights, shopping sprees, and doing what we please, lots of memories, secrets, and love, with your best friend. From school, to vacations, to summer crushes, the one who matters most, is that one girl. That one girl who means the world to me. She knows how I feel when everyone else doesn’t. She’s like the sister I never had. That’s the definition on my best friend.


+ People may despise you, or look down on you, talk about you, and lie to you. But what you have to do is realize who really matters in life. Its not the people who are two-faced, but those who were by your side when the two-faced were tearing you apart inside.+

**Some days we burst out laughing. Other days we break down and cry, but its nice to know you’ll always be there.**



those are them!

Hope I Helped!
please let me know if i did!

cha, i did write those!
:)

-*Kels*-

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My boyfriend always got love notes from his gfs and we were talking yesterday and he said I was the only girl who never wrote him any love notes so I was wondering what do you write in love notes other then I love you because I tired to write one but I dont think it turned out to be anything like a love note soif you can please help me out thx ill rate if ud like

well, i just write about him. ex" i love how you smell, thanks for alway being there for me, it means so much to me! you are such a sweetie! I love being with you! you are so much fun!"

things like that.

like complement him!:)

Hope I Helped-
{let me know what you think of the ol' advice!)
*-KeLs-*

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ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 1/2 months and on sunday im going to his house for a couple of hours... ok well we kiss all the time and i want to be able to kiss him in other places. please give me ideas of where guys like to be kissed nothing like head or anything cuz we've both said were not ready for that. thanks bunches

ear.

reallY! :)

and kneck!

and cheeks

lol

(face cheeks!)
:)
Hope I Helped-
-*KeLs*-

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anyone how do you make the little hearts??¿¿
*** i Rate 5z*

&
hearts
;

but all together! I couldnt show you or else there would be a heat. lol


:)
-*KeLs*-

Hope I Helped!!

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Is a disco party a good party for a 12-year-old turning 13? My little sister is thinking of doing that for her birthday, and I was wondering what everyone thought.

YAYAYAYAY!!!!!!!!!!

that sounds like soooooooo much fun!!

:)

parTAY!!!


:) -*KeLs*- :)

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Hey! Ok, I have to give a speech in 2 weeks about the Great Wall of China. We're studying China and you got a list of things you could make your speech about and I picked the Great Wall. You were allowed to have a partner, but only one of my friends is in my class, and she's friends with another girl, so they're partners. I have to give a speech by myself, and I'm so terrified. I've never liked speeches. It's so hard and I always forget what I'm supposed to say, even if I've rehearsed it a thousand times! And to make things worse, it has to be a MINIMUM of 5 minutes. I'm so scared and don't know what to do. Does anyone have any tips on not being scared? And any good ways to memorize a good speech? And also, any good sites about the Great Wall would be appreciated. Thanks so much!

well, since you said that your friend is in the class, thats good! this is what i do. I just look@ my friend thats in the class! :)

so try that! then i know its all gonna be fine! :)


Good Luck!

just relax, and always say that you can.

:) it helps if you think positive:)

-*KeLs*-

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I think I'm kind of short.. I'm 13 and just a little over 5 feet.. are there any ways that can help me grow taller?

lol no, but if it helps, i always wanted to be short, and im tall!! :)

SHORT RULES!!!!!

:)
Kels!

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What do you guys think of a 18-year-old(f) dating a 24-year-old(m). And don't give any of that "age doesn't matter crap" bcasue it does. What do yall think of the maturity levels?

The biggest problem I see... The 18-year-old is still a freshman in college and the 24-year-old graduated 2 years ago.

i think its fine! just ask yourself, why does a 24yo guy wanna be with a 18 yo girl? it could be fine, just be careful! :) and college will be over soon! in the mean time he will be getting a job, and some $$ so when you are out of college you will have a good foundation with him. :)

Hope I Helped-
Always there-
*-KeLs-*

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Well I straigten my hair everyday because otherwise my hair looks disgusting. My hair has a lot of static whenever I get done straitening it and I even put lotion in it sometimes since my sisters do it and they dont have any static. Is there anything I could do or a product could do for me? Any suggestions?

okay, here is what you do and it works.

you part your hair like you like it, after you are done straightning it, and brush/comb it out.
then you take your hair spray and spray it on the part, then take the can, and run it down the sides, not all the way down, but enough, {it'll make since when you do it} and then the hair spray holds the hairs in place {i do this every day i wear my hair down (thats offten)} and you just use the can to smooth down the hairs and make the hair spray stick to them. the can works because it wont stick to the can.


sorry thats confusing, but it works really good!

Hope I helped-
*-KeLs-*

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Does anyone know any really good girl books a 7th grader at the age of 13 would like?
Thanks. I'll rate 5's.

cha mon!

The Medieator Series By Meg Cabbot or Jenny Carroll

1-800-where-are-u series same author

teen idol by meg cabbot

dont look behind you by lois duncan

the five people you meet in heaven by mitch albom

:)
there's more, but i have to go, leave me a message in my inbox and i'l get back to you with the rest! { my user name is KELS)

Hope I Helped-
*-KeLs-*

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OK this is for everyone!
I have never had a boy friend! Is that bad?? And I want one, but no one wants to go w/ me! Cause i am a tomboy! I like to skate and stuff like that! I personally think i imtate boys! Cause i can shoot a ball into a basketball and i play sports! Is this a bad thing? I am 13 and i have a lot of boy friends! I have one that is my bff and i like hima lot is that ok? Plzz i rate high!!

Confused

not a problem, then guys can relate to you more! :)
you'll prob. have more in common!


*-KeLs-*

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see i dont know what to do i like this guy alot but he wants me to tell him why i like him what should i do?

well, just tell him why you like him lol, i dont really get the question i guess. like do you think he is funny, sweet, nice, caring, cute, nice eyues?


tell him! :)

he wants to know what drew you to him and not "bob" over there!

*-Kels-*

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