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i like this guy, and my friend found out that i like someone, but she doesn't know who, but she wont stop asking me, i usually tell her everything, but for some reason i don't want to tell her this, but now she knows that there is someone, will she be offended? and should i tell her?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!



If, she is a great friend and you feel confortable telling your friend about other things and if she
never tell anything that you told her not to say, and she kept it. why , not tell her she sounds like
a good friend to me!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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I am 19 an a guy. Ok so about a month ago i went out with two friends of mine, with one being a girl i really like.We sat in the her car waiting for our other friend to come out.As we waited, we had small talk an jokes going, but she kept putting chapstick on her lips like 4 times the entire time while we talked.I didn't say anything about it.I just thought, man is she trying to tell me something or does she really likes putting chapstick on her lips? Do you think she is interested in me?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help!


She might of been giving you a signal for you
to kiss her. Or, she likes her lips moistured!
Or, she has realy chpped lips!



I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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15/f. So I have this friend, and previously shes been abused by her dad. Now this was a long time ago but i dont know what is happening right now. But lately I've been worried, she told my other friend (us two are the only ones who know about the situation with her dad), that she has thought about suicide before.

Now I know this sounds really mean, but I wasn't too worried before, because this friend likes to make people feel bad for her, and she usually exaggerates things a bit. And I know that is a terrible excuse but now I am starting to get really worried. What should I do? If I were to tell anyone who would I tell and how would I go about doing it? Should I tell a councilor or policeman or write a letter?

Any advice is helpful, thanks.

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!


You should realy tell your parents about your friend! They probably tell you what to do about
your friend! Then you should talk to guidance
counsler ! Or, realy tell any adult about your
situation with your friend! They are older and may
have diffrent advice for you!
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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A friend of my friend is considering suicide. What should I tell MY friend to do about it? who whould she notify? thanks --

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help


You realy have to tell an adult! If, you don't your
friend might go ahead and commit suicide ! You should try talking to her giving her compliments!
Tell, her that you need her more than everything!
You shoulf tell your mother and your school counsiler!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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Lately my boyfriend has been really busy, which is a huge 360, because I was always the busy one. Now, I'M the one who has nothing to do and always wants to hang out, but he's always working.

Then, when he has a day off, he'll call me and we make plans, but when that day finally comes, he's sleeping in. I understand he's tired, but I'm tired too. I'm tired of the false promises he's making me and I can only put up with so much.

I call him up while I'm upset and flustered (I'm only human and I have the right to be), then he'll say something on the lines of, "See, this is why I don't want to hang out with you, because this is how you act."

I thought he'd be more understanding because he used to be in my position, but now, it's like he's taking advantage of it. I'm the only one who's being understanding because I keep taking his crap. I'm so tired of getting my hopes up and being letdown.

Now, he made plans with me again to hang out on his day off, and I don't know how to respond.

I want to decline because I feel like he doesn't deserve me, that I'm not some lightswitch he can turn on and off as he pleases, and that I've had it. I don't want to give him what he wants.

On the other hand, why should I be so spiteful? Because in the end, that's what I wanted.. to spend time with him, and I'm gonna pass it up? But I don't want to give in. Like I said, I don't wanna play on his terms and play whenever it's "convenient" for him.

What should I do about this? Any thoughts or help would be appreciated.

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help!



I think no!boyfriend should be to busy to hang out
with his girlfriend! Even though he is tired , he
should still hang out with you! If, he is realy busy
during the week he should at least hang out with you
or go on a date with you on Friday, and on the weekend! If, he keeps doing this 2 you, you should
break it off with him! No Boyfriend is 2 busy 2 hang
out with his girlfriend!
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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Okay i got my toenails removed due to ingrown toenails. It kept occuring so the doctor's removed them completely. This is only on my two big toes. My highschool prom is on thursday and i want to wear toeless shoes but am too scared to show off my toes. Is there anything anyone knows of that i can buy, i know you can get fake toenails but they are all put on by glue and are for nail to nail contact it says nothing about skin.

any ideas?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!


How about wearing panty hose , then you can still
show your toes. I bet hardly any one will notice.
Plus, hardly any one will look at your toes .

I hope I helped,
Faith4:)

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I have this friend. She is amazing dont get me wrong, but she has another friend. I am not mentioning any names. She tries to hang out with both of us but when we are together her other friend always pushes me out of the way. Now everytime i want to hang out with her i have to hang out with her and her other friend or i dont hang out with her at all. What should i do? should i back off and let her other friend take over our friend ship? i dont know.. Help me!

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help !


Don't let her other friend take over your friendship
you been her friend first! You should realy talk to
her about how you feel! It's not fair for her to
hang around with her all the time! Ask, her if it
would be ok if she hanged out with you a day , then
with her a day, then you can all hangout a day!
Thats what I would do! If she doesn't agree !
Stop hanging around with her for awhile she will
figure out that she is missing out on her friendship
with you!

I hope I helped!
Faith42:)

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My boyfriend told me he wanted to french kiss me 5 times. But i want to know the difference between french kissing and making out???

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!


French kissing is when a man and a girl put their
tounge in each others mouth!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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I have the worst problems with shaving. Everytime I shave no matter how careful I am, I always get red bumps where I have just shaven. It is so gross especially under my arms because then I can't wear tank tops or anything. I have tried different kinds of razors and I am constantly putting new blades on, but nothing is working. PLease help!

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help !

I think you should switch razors, the best razors I
used and worked well were the venus razor and the
Bic Soleil Twilight triple blade. I prefer the
venus razor. The razor head bends with your body!
All, the time I used it I never cut my self once!
The Soleil Twilight triple blade is great but not
as good as the venus. It has 2 thin strips one yellow and one pink. It, helps you not cut yourselve. The venus has 2 thick strips one on the
top and one on the bottom!
If, you like one of these go to WalMart and pick a
pack up!
I hope I helped,
Faith42;)

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i really love the name laken, aiden, brayden and braylen.. out of these boys name witch do you like best.. and does anyone no diffrent spelling for these names.. most importantly laken .. people say if i change the spelling it turns into a girls name?

and any other cute baby boy names you can think of!

hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!

I like the name Braylen the best out of the names
you picked. I personaly like the name Andy , or
Jacob for a baby boy!
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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ok well here it goes..

last year i liked this guy, he liked my friend and i got them together. they didn't talk much and broke up. i still liked him. he like one of my other friends and i helped them get together. they broke up in the summer of last year.

he supposedly did like me last year at some point at least people said they thought he did because he supposedly was alway "flirting" with me.

i still like him and we havent talked like at all this year and we used to always be laughing and talking

i dont think he could or would ever like me but people said they thought he did and he is like not popular or anything. i hang out with some popular people but im not popular or like one of the extreme pretty girls.

i just want to know what i should do.

should i ask him to hang out this summer or should i just wait to see what next year brings... help!

if i should say something in his year book what should i write?

-ilovepink 14 female 8th grader

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help !


I think you should ask him to hang out because that
can show him that you like him as a friend. If, you
do hangout with him during the summer, if he did
like you, he can start liking you more and maybe
just maybe ask you out! I think you should say
this if you write something ;
"Have a great summer , (if you guys are friends you
can say) love , your friend (your name ) I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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i pulled a chair from underneath a guy and he fell and everyone laughed and then he laughed too as he got up. and then he gets up and sits right next to someone else and he barely talked to me when i asked him if he was mad at me.

i later found out he was embarassed? WTF? i wouldn't get embarassed if that happened. whats up with guys? do they really get embarassed that easily?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help!


It, realy depends on the person, they can get realy
emmbarresed, or they can just laugh it off like certain people! I guess this person gets realy
abbaresd if someone plays a joke on them !
I hope I helped!
Faith42:)

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14\Female.

I stayed back in the sixth grade, and while all my friends continued on with there lives I went in reverse. I made a friend named Becky- who at the time seemed to completely replaced all of my friends that I accumulated over the 7years of my educational life. I am now in the 7th grade and have completly changed. I went from being mean and phyically hurting people and Fstudent to Honor Roll and the last time I hit someone was my first year in 6thgrade. Im extremely proud of my accomplisments, and I can't look at school without Becky now.
Rebeccas' completely changed though, into someone no one likes but her. People are telling her Why are you so mean? Why did you say that? When did you start acting like this? She acts like she hates the world and I have tried helping my best friend. During this year I accepted Christ and my personal savour. It's a awesome feeling to know my whole life is planned out for me- and even if I do mess it up God has a back up plan for me or already predicted this. I tried explaining this feeling and she didn't understand it or didn't want to. I will not force anything on her, expecially not a religion she might not believe in but I feel were growing in complete oppiste directions.
I love Becky. She got me through school, and I donno what I would do without her but now? We have nothing common some of her jokes I dont get. We dont have the same amount of fun we had.
Im thinking I should break the tight relatinship we have together. Still be friends just not as close... but I love her Shes my best friend.
Can I have your opinion on the madder and why Im thinking like this... anything is helpfull

Hey, My name is Faith42 and i think I can help you

I think maybe your friend might have something going
on in her home life. Did she say anything to you about any problems? Well, if she doesn't maybe she
has some problems with other things, because I don't
think people change that quick! So, don't give up
on her! Wait a while if nothing changes or gets worse I realy do consider breaking the relationship!; your probably feeling this way because your not use to your friend acting this way, but remember people change in many ways.
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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I've been friends with my best friend since I was in 10th grade. I'm now 23, so that's 8 or so years of friendship. Obviously, he's my best friend and we do everything together. He used to come over to my house everyday and we'd hang out and talk. Then all of a sudden, he got a girlfriend and he never calls me, when she's around. She lives in Mexico and she comes up to see him for two months and then goes home for two weeks. The thing that irritates me is I won't hear from him for two months. And then as soon as she leaves, he's on the phone with me asking if he can come over, or what I'm doing because he wants to hang out..

Basically, I'm annoyed that he can't call me when she's over. And I don't really know what to do..

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
if she live in Mexico, and if your friend doesn't
see her that much he probably wants to be with
her as much he can, but I agree he should talk to
you once a while. Maybe you should call and
ask him Why he is doing this , and maybe he can consider
your feelings and call you up once in awhile.
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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Lately, I've been feeling really dizzy and tired. It's been going on for the last 2 days or so, and I was just wondering--- has anyone ever felt these things with allergies? Because my cheeks and eyes have been hurting, and I've been congested and had frequent headaches.

I'd really appreciate some help-- because I'm a hypochondriac, and even though is just dizziness, I'm still freaking out thinking I'm dying.

Thank you!

Hey, my name is Faith42 and i think i can help you
I have alergies, and sometimes when I get up i feel
that way, my doctor gave me an allergy pill (Singular that can be swollowed or chewed, it depends on your age.) It helps me real good.I Also
take Allegra when I have real bad allergies. So, if
you still have these feelings and headaches go
to the doctor and ask about these medications and
see what they say.
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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so people say i'm emo. even though i'm not. but on the other hand i have nothing against them. i just dont liketo lable myself. so yeah my hair is dark and i have a fringe, and like black eyeliner and wear green/blue/red/purple skinnys.
what is so bad about that? i mean everyone hates me, just because i'm not a hip hopper and dont drink&smoke. everyone else does but so what? i just dont want to be like them. i just dont understand why people hate me just because i'm different. no matter how nice i am, they just hate me.
i have no friends at all. i guess i was just unlucky with this school.
but what should i do?
i wont change though.

Hey, I know i can anwser your Question ,my friend
is in to that same stuff people don't like her either they make fun of her and call her names. Even
though they do, she still comes to school wearing her usaul!
Don't listin to them be yourselve, be you
thats all you can do! My friend says thier jealous !
If people are rude and hurtful blow them off. If,
you want to say something throw comedy in your
comeback! Don't be mean or anything. But if they are
rude to you be rude back!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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Hello... I'm having boy troubles. I have a boyfriend and his bestfriend [who is a girl] likes him too. He is always hanging out with her more than with me. Should i ask him if he likes her or would that damage our relationship? Pleases help



Sincerely,
?LoVeStUcK?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think i can help you
you can simply ask him about it and don't talk in
affensive voice , he will think that you can't trust
him in your relationship and maybe your relation
should stop for awhile intill you can trust him.
It's a normall thing to be hanging around with
your other friends. My friend(thats a boy ) was hanging with his girlfriend but hanging with me and my other friends(that are girls) more often than with his girl friend. He asked her if it's ok if he hangs out with us certain times, she said yes most
of the time.
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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I have a friend who recently experienced this problem and I don't know what kind of advice to give her. Her and her bf (of a few years) got into a fight. He called her a bad name (c___), she smacked him and he smacked her back (she said it was pretty hard but that he told her he did it by accident kind of a reaction or something).. He's never hit her before nor does he seem like that kind of guy to me. She's not sure if this should be a big deal to her and while I normally say you should never stay with a man who hits you she did hit him first. What should I tell her? =/

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
It's not RIGHT at all for a man to hit a girl and
call her alwful and hurtfull names. Even though he
called her that name she shouldn't of hit him. She should of talked it over with him. He should of not
of hit her, and should of been a man and apoligized
to her and they should of seprated and cooled off
for an hour.You should tell her it's her dision
and if she feels like it won't happen again let
her do that.If she feels more that it's not right for him to do that tell her to break up with him!
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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I bought the game today.
When I install the game,everything goes fine, and in the end it says ''Sims 2 University Installed Successfully'' and when I launch the game the screen comes up which says the name, but then nothing happens. It seems like my computer can't read the disk. :\ My original sims 2 disc and sims 2 seasons discs still work fine...

Is there something I did wrong, anyway to fix it?
If it seems like a bad disc, I can go change it without any problems.

Thanks!

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think i can help you
I have that game , when I launch it it takes a little bit maybe you have to wait longer? If, that
doesn't work , if you have an other computer in
your house try installing it and see if it works
on that computer.
If you
don't have another computer , try uninstalling then
reinstalling it and if it doesn't work then take it
back to the store it came from.
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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14/f

if i go and see a counselor and i tell that counselor that i cut is the counselor allowed to tell my parents or do they have to keep my secret? i want to talk to someone about it but at any costs (even at my own) i CANNOT tell my parents. they cannot find out. im 14 so i know im a minor but doesnt the counselor have to keep my secrets? please help. i want to get help but without my parents knowing im cutting. i just dont know how to do it. thank you so much :)

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
I think they don't realy tell in less it's a big
problem ! I hope I helped,
Faith42

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