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Rebecca.
14\Female.
I stayed back in the sixth grade, and while all my friends continued on with there lives I went in reverse. I made a friend named Becky- who at the time seemed to completely replaced all of my friends that I accumulated over the 7years of my educational life. I am now in the 7th grade and have completly changed. I went from being mean and phyically hurting people and Fstudent to Honor Roll and the last time I hit someone was my first year in 6thgrade. Im extremely proud of my accomplisments, and I can't look at school without Becky now.
Rebeccas' completely changed though, into someone no one likes but her. People are telling her Why are you so mean? Why did you say that? When did you start acting like this? She acts like she hates the world and I have tried helping my best friend. During this year I accepted Christ and my personal savour. It's a awesome feeling to know my whole life is planned out for me- and even if I do mess it up God has a back up plan for me or already predicted this. I tried explaining this feeling and she didn't understand it or didn't want to. I will not force anything on her, expecially not a religion she might not believe in but I feel were growing in complete oppiste directions.
I love Becky. She got me through school, and I donno what I would do without her but now? We have nothing common some of her jokes I dont get. We dont have the same amount of fun we had.
Im thinking I should break the tight relatinship we have together. Still be friends just not as close... but I love her Shes my best friend.
Can I have your opinion on the madder and why Im thinking like this... anything is helpfull
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Hey, My name is Faith42 and i think I can help you
I think maybe your friend might have something going
on in her home life. Did she say anything to you about any problems? Well, if she doesn't maybe she
has some problems with other things, because I don't
think people change that quick! So, don't give up
on her! Wait a while if nothing changes or gets worse I realy do consider breaking the relationship!; your probably feeling this way because your not use to your friend acting this way, but remember people change in many ways.
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)
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All you can do is continue doing what
you're doing to keep yourself on track.
You did your rebelling early, If that
is what she is up to, you have now
matured to a level she isn't at yet.
I think you have the right idea. Be
there if she needs your help, but
move on with your life and goals
for your future without her. One
of these days she will reach out.
Until then, she isn't hearing you.
In the meantime make some new friends
that see the future as you do. :)
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You remind me a lot of my self.. i was very mean and didnt really care when i was in elementry school but now im completly nice and caring.. anyway i think that her sudden change was sparked by something or someone in her life..because most people wont just change from being nice to mean for no reason... has anything happened from when she started turning mean..hows her family life... because i think that people act out when there in school because of whats going on outside of school.. if you have tried to help her and its not working then theres not much more you can do if she's changed to the point you cant be friends with her anymore...even thouhg it may be hard just take what shes done for you and live life better from what shes done for you.. or she might change soon but i think theres a bigger problem behind for her being so suddenly mean
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