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i joined an agency for acting auditions and tht was a month ago. so far the only person that wants me to audition is one in downtown Durham, North Carolina. thats pretty far. my dad said its to far and that he refuses to waste so much gas and money to get there jsut because i wnat to audition and there might be millions of girls there and one of them, thats not me might get the part. i really wan to go. becasue i atleast tried. what can i do? what to i tell him? any comments? i really want to go. also how long will it actually take me to get there? thanks i rate!
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can you pay for plane/train/bus tickets to take both of you there? Maybe you could also pay for a hotel room? I don't know if you have a job or not, but if you want to go to it THAT badly (even though, the reality of the situation is: probably 49 out of 50 auditions you won't get the role) and you don't have a job/can't pay for that- you could tell your dad that you'd pay him back for the transportation/hotel room. And make sure how much it means to you to be able to go to this audition.
best of luck to you!
i hope i helped.
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I'm 15 and I have some sort of a singing talent. I'm not like drop dead amazing but I definitely think I have potential. I have sang in front of many people and have received nothing but good remarks. How can I make it big with singing. I would like to become a professional singer. (link)
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1. start taking voice lessons with the right instructor (if you don't feel that you work well with one, switch to another)
2. discover what genre of music really suits you, then focus on it. (ex: for me, it's broadway)
3. Look for auditions and go to any singing auditions that you can. (such as american idol, america's most talented kids, etc.)
then just keep working hard with your voice teacher and practicing on your own.
but I just want to warn you about this: singing is the hardest profession in the world (next to musical theater) to excel in. And VERY few people are able to make their living this way. But there is NOTHING wrong with trying!
So if after you graduate from high school you still feel that you want to persue singing as a career- go to college and get a degree in music (try to go to a college in a city that has a lot of opportunities for singers, such as LA or NYC, or if you're a country singer then Nashville) and just work hard on your classes, and go to auditions when you're not doing schoolwork.
Then, if you can't make it as a singer you can get another more substantial job in the feild of music, such as a music teacher, musical director, composer, etc.
I really hope I helped- i'm a singer too by the way. :)
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ive been trying to lose weight lately, so ive been eating about 1000-1500 calories a day. im 5'9 and not sure how much i weigh, but last i check was about 130. could i possibly skip my period or have a very light period from not eating enough for my body to function properly? (link)
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yes, it's possible for you to miss a period or have a light one, but it's not very likely.
don't go below 1200 a day, that's just unsafe.
wow 5'9" and 130 that's REALLY skinny.
i'd stop worrying about my weight if i were you.
i'd die to be 130 pounds- and i'm only 5'2"!
so you can try to gain some.
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15/f
i seriously hate my body. everyone tells me i'm really thin but i always find something wrong with myself..and i hate my boobs. they're a size C (sometimes D) and people always talk about them and i HATE the attention and always feeling insecure in a bathingsuit because of them..my friends tell me that if they had boobs like me theyd show them off and be happy but i hate them and have seriously considered a breast reduction. i just want to be able to fit into bathingsuits and shirts like everyone else can.
i just need a way to feel better about my body. can anyone help me? (link)
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first off, let me say that i would die to have a body like yours. I've always struggled with my weight, my whole life (i'm not huge or anything just average you know?) and I can't eat anything without gaining weight i'm serious.
So you can be glad that you actually have a gorgeous body with perfect-sized breasts instead of a weight problem. You could be 4000 pounds, you could be anorexic or bulemic and 74 pounds.
You could have a disfigurement like on your face or something.
Whenever I feel bad about my appearance i just remind myself that it could be worse, a LOT worse!
and those retards who talk about your body, they're probably saying good things about your boobs! most 15-yr-olds are underdeveloped AA cups, so yeah they're just jealous probably.
a girl did that to me once! and i'm only a B! but she was flat.
Don't waste your time with people who talk about your body! They're immature and rude.
I really hope I helped.
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well i went to the beach today and i put sunscreen on. (spf 30 i think?) and while i was there i didn't turn even pink at all, so i didn't think of re-applying. my shoulders were lookinga little red, so i put some sunscreen on them and also my thighs. on the way home i stil had no color. then about 4 hours later, i started turning red. now i look like a fricken lobster. my face (kinda), stomach thighs and chest are all red. it doesn't really hurt, it just looks bad. i put aloe lotion on, so hopefully that will help. so my question is if i keep putting aloe on it and stay out of the sun, do you think it will go away (somewhat at least) by wednesday?
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yeah as long as you do that, it'll probably be gone by wednesday (or it'll just be a very light shade of pink that's unnoticable)
really you shouldn't think it looks bad- most of the people I know who are fair skinned are sunburned right now, and believe me no one cares or notices it.
It at least shows you've been in the sun and can be a great convo starter. haha.
i hope i helped.
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How can I set myself apart as a singer? People such as Amy Winehouse and Regina Spektor have a distinct style. How would I go about developing my own... What could I possibly do that has not been done? (link)
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I agree with both the people below me.
I just wanted to mention another singer who has her own unique path- Sarah Brightman.
So be like sarah brightman and just start recording songs that sound good in your voice from your favorite genre of music. Don't do anything that you don't think suits you.
i hope i helped. i'm a vocalist too, by the way.
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i just want o know how does sex feel and how does it feels when you first try it.And when you get finger does it hurt, and wat does it mean when they say a boy eat you up.And one more thing is it possible to give yourself an organsim and wat it feels like. thanks. (link)
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sex is the most wonderful feeling in the world, it's this nearly unbearable pleasure that feels unlike anything else.
It is possible to make yourself have an orgasm through masturbation (basically having sex with yourself, google it for more info)
Orgasms for girls are like a hot, shockingly throbbing sensation that starts at the vagina and spreads throughout the rest of the body.
about a boy "eating you up" I think you must mean "eating you out". eating out someone is going to 3rd base, licking the vagina.
i hope i helped.
send any more questions my way!
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Everday or mostly everyday I stretch, then run for about 15-20 minutes. Mostly at the end of the day around 8:00 pm. I try to do 50 crunches too afterwards,and pushups, but my body just feels so tired and I can't get myself to do them. So I was wondering if I would still get the same results if I did my crunches and pushups in the morning, then ran at my regular time. Or will I get in shape faster if I do them all one after the other? I am begging you, please someone answer this question who knows about fitness, not just someone who is guessing. Thanks! by the way i'm 13 (link)
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No it doesn't matter if you do them at different times!
hope i helped.
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Okay, If you are over the age of 14 then you could really give me some advice. My life sucks! So lets start from the beginning. Shall we? Okay I'm 14/f and I wont be 15 until april 2nd. Well my life is horrible because I dont do anything or go anywhere plus I dont have friends or a boyfriend like everyone else seems to have. I was with this boy that broke my heart. We didnt go out or anything. But I almost lost my virginity wiht him because he played me and I'm young and stupid. He told me that we were meant to be then he ignores me and doesnt want to talk to me so I hate that I did anything will him and I can't get that off my mind and I'm ssooooooooooo depressed about everything! I just cant handle that he played me like a fiddle then left me there. I'm trying to deal with it. I see that everyone else is happy with somebody else! I really want to die. I'm sooo glad i didnt have sex with him because gosh that would be bad. I mean we didnt take our clothes off. So I guess i learned my lesson to make sure I really LOVE someone before I get in their bed and let them stick their hands down my pants. And whats even worse is that my mom is being a bitch about lettin me go anywhere because she knows what I did with that dude. So I lost my moms trust and guys still wont date me. That dude even called me a whore for doing all that I did wiht him sooo fast. So he lost respect for me and I honestly think I will kill myself. My life was bad and now I've made it worse!
Does anyone have advice as to what I can do? (link)
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Please just know that you are not alone! I'm the exact same age as you, and my life is equally sucky! I have no friends and no bf! And I even almost lost my virginity to a guy too!(even though we didn't actually date)
I'm sure i'm just as depressed as you about everything in my life. I came very close to killing myself several times. I even turned to alcohol for comfort at one point. (which didn't help of course)
And just reading this question makes me feel a whole lot better, just knowing that someone else in the world is like me.
also- not everyone else has a bf, especially not 14-yr-olds. I knew a girl who didn't have one until she was 17. Here's an idea: go through your friends list on myspace or look in a yearbook or something and circle all the girls who actually HAVE a bf. (in your grade) Then you'll see that very few 14-yr-olds have a bf. That's something that always helps me feel better- only comparing myself to people my age.
I've seen counselors and therapists which none of them really helped me. But idk maybe they'd help you?
about how guys still won't date you, it's not that they won't date you, it's just that either
A. you're younger than they'd like, and usually guys assume "oh she's 14 so she must not be allowed to date"
B. you just plain haven't met the right person yet.
And don't kill yourself because someday you'll be glad you didn't! And, the older you get, the easier it is to find a bf!
someone out there is your soulmate.
I hope I helped and I think we should keep in touch since we're liek so similar lol.
if you have a myspace:
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i usually have sex with my bf to like ballads and stuff..but our 1 month aniversery is comming up and i wanna give him a special treat...so got any faster angry but still sexy music? (link)
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"everytime we touch" by Cascada is a good horny song.
But personally this song turns me on more than anything: "Dangerous Game" from the musical Jekyll & Hyde. You might not be into showtunes, but i'm sure that once you learn the song and get the tune stuck in your head it'll turn you on too.
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Ok so i really like this guy and me and him would talk sometimes at school but now it's summer so i added him on myspace and i want to message him but i dont know what to say to him i mena i dont want to tell him i like him i want to become friends with him so what do i say???? (link)
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yeah that's what you should do! just say something like hey hows ur summer going or something.
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ok 15/f...if that helps. Ok so one of my best guy friends is like in love with me. I know it, he knows it, the world knows it. I don't like him back. And the world knows that too (including him). I hear everyone saying that he is such a sweet guy and he would do anything for me but I just don't like him. I don't know what to do. He's liked me forever and he can't seem to get over me (sorry if that sounds cocky). I'm not leading him on or playing with his emotions b/c I'm just trying to be his friend. And he complains to everyone about how much he likes me and how I don't like him back and I feel like I'm doing something wrong. I've even tried taking a break from him for a while but he's said that he would rather get over me on his own than have us take a break from our friendship. Help?
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You probably don't want to hear this, but I would really reccomend giving him a chance. How can you know that you aren't attracted to him at all before you've dated him?
If I were you i'd be extra nice to him and pretend to like him. Or heck, you could just tell him flat out.
You might be surprised at what it turns out to be. :)
hope i helped.
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I have a boyfriend that's 18 who turns 19 in August.And I'm 16 and I turn 17 in October.Would it work out if I was going in Highschool and he went to college in the area.Or do you think he would get tired of me and get someone better who's in college or whatever.Or even I would find someone in highschool.I just want some opinions if you don't mind. (link)
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I was in a similar situation to this. I was 13, he was 17. It didn't work out because once he turned 18 he would legally be considered a pedophile.
Just to tell you, anyone who sees you together will consider him a creep/pedophile. He could even be arrested. So generally it's just not smart for minors and adults to be in relationships together.
But that's not to say that you two can't still see each other in non-public places.
And of course you will find plenty of other people in highschool, and he will too in college. But the question is when exactly this will happen. You two might be together for a long time! who knows?
I really hope I helped.
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So I was preparing for a pool party today and used a diplatory on my bikini area. But...I accidentally got it everywhere down there and even near my vaginal opening!! It burns like hell and when I pee its like double hell. I know its not meant to go in that area but is there anything terrible that can happen to me? HOW DO I STOP IT FROM BURNING?? (link)
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Since it hurts when you pee, you probably have a bladder infection.
So go to the doctor and tell them what happened and ask about the possibility of a bladder infection and they'll give you the right antibiotics and then it'll be all good.
hope i helped :)
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i'm 14 and i haven't had a boyfriend yet. i know that's not to bad butmy best frienddoes and i get so jealous because she has one and it seems all nice and so cute. when it comes to getting a boyfriend (like if i hear someone is going to ask me to a dance or ask me out) i'm like no way and i just stop there. i don't know why because if i just randomly think about it i just want a boyfriend so bad i don't know anymore (link)
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I'm 14, and I haven't had a boyfriend either. So you're not alone!
I want one REALLY badly too so I understand how you feel.
My best friend even has a bf too and I get jealous.
The next time an opportunity comes up, just go on the date, go to the dance, etc. with whomever the guy might be.
If you never date him, you can't really be sure you're not attracted to him!
It could be just that your nerves were kicking in all those times when you were like "no way".
But just don't worry about this because everyone has a soulmate, and a marriage will happen for you.
So think about this: since you'll be married to the right guy someday, at that time- any previous relationships won't matter!
so my bottom line is: boyfriends don't matter! (in the long run, at least)
i hope i helped.
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My whole life I've been told and thought I'm stupid. Because I'm not school-book smart. I don't get good grades in the "smart subjects" like science, math and so on. I am so sick of believing this. I'm a different type of smart. I know I can make something of myself.
I am especially good at 3 things; public speaking & reaching out to people, languages (I know 4 different languages and intend on learning several more) and I sympathize, more than anything. People always turn to me because of that, I long to help. More than anything.
I've researched at least a hundred different professions in my attempt to find a major that will equip me with the right tools to help save the innocent from the corrupt and ultimatley change the world. I need a profession that will make me come alive. I have a picture of myself speaking infront of thousands of people, touching their hearts, or working at a homless shelter, somehow helping those who have been used, or anything of that kind. But in BIG levels, it wouldn't mean anything to me as a doctor or anything like that. It's not the kind of thing that would make me come alive, it wouldn't matter to me. I don't want to help one person at a time, I want to help thousands.. at once. I want to do something that would end homelessness and stimulate world peace!
I am compassionate and am able to provide stability in people's lives when they are shaken up. I am 16 years old, female, and more than anything.. I want to do something with my life.
No one believes in me, because I am not suited for the typical "good jobs" I will never have the grades to become a Lawyer, Doctor, Journalist or any of the sort.
Help me, what can I become? And how do I get there?
Thank you so much! And please, don't read this and think "what a dreamer, everyone thinks they'll save the world.. this one doesn't even have good enough grades.. she doesn't even know how to spell" Please, I have enough people thinking that way, if you can't help me, fine. But I'm begging you, don't think like that. (link)
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be a missionary!!!
you'd be perfect.
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15/f. the other night i was out with my sisters friends who are all 17 & 18 and apparently they all think i'm hot. and i know that when i go places that guys notice me. so i must be pretty. but its weird because in school it seems like guys don't even notice me. like i've never had a boyfriend.
why is this? i'm not saying i want the guys at school to be like staring at me and stuff. its just weird because my sisters friends couldn't believe it that i've never had a boyfriend because they think i'm really pretty.
also i'm not a bitch or anything. i'm really nice and i have a lot of friends. could it maybe be because i'm a little shy? like around my friends i'm more outgoing but around people i don't know i'm a little shy.
so what can i do to get more guys to think of me as a potential girlfriend? (link)
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About the guys at school not looking at you it's probably because they see you every day and they're used to you being there.
But you obviously are pretty, just like I am. Everytime I go in public every guy i see stares at my face for about 2-3 seconds. But at school they don't pay as much attention to me.
You can go up and talk to guys, you don't have to wait for them to talk to you. Only really brave ones will come up to you because beauty can be very intimidating. That happens to me a lot. like I get the vibe that a guy is interested but he just doesn't put in any effort.
Maybe no one knows you're available? You can tell a close friend that, and she can put the word out for you. That way you don't have to seem desperate.
You can even ask a guy out yourself as long as you're willing to accept whatever the answer might be.
i hope i helped
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my boyfriend has been acting weird. so i told him to tell me. and he said he saw the devil the other night. (we're both christians.)
then he told me this:
i saw him and he saw me and it scaire the life out of me then i went to the bathroom and i saw the same eyes that the devil had in my eyes and i dont know what the hell that mean and no one else dose eather and this isnt the first time this has happened
what exactly. am i supposed to do. he's acting weird and I want to help, but I don't quite understand either. someone please help. (link)
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i used to have a boyfriend who had asburger's syndrome. maybe he has that?
it sounds like drug use, or a mental problem to me.
Whatever it is- there is something bad that's been causing these hallucinations.
you just need to find the cause.
he should be reffered to a doctor.
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At what age do teenagers usually get past basic levels of thought and begin thinking more intellectually?What I mean is...when do they start to form their own opinions,have some idea of what they want out of life,and just generally gain a more adult outlook? (link)
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14/f
I am an intelligent person who has always been able to think for myself. always. I do buy some fashions, but only becuase I like them- not because everyone else buys them. I won't buy it if I don't like it.
I realized completely what I wanted to get out of life when I first turned 14, and I've always had a more adult outlook on things since I could talk, but I completed that around 13.
I'm not your average small-minded teenage girl who only cares about her nails.
But I'm the only person I know who is like that.
Most of the people in my area (50-year-olds included) are shallow and can't think for themselves.
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i used to sing so nice. now when i try to do high notes i cant and i crack and i sound so horrible!. i dont know what to do. how can i get better? what can i drink at home so i can get bettter? or what excersises. but i would really really appreciate the things i can drink or eat at home that ould make my voice better. anything is greatly appreciated though. thanks so much! (link)
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Do you sing often? If you have just come back to singing after a long period of time without doing it, that's why you're having this bad break.
But everyone has a break in their voice, it's when you switch from your chest voice to your head voice.
My voice used to have a really prominent break, until i started singing a lot more often and my voice pretty much stopped changing. Then I didn't have a break anymore because now I just switch registers when I feel like I should.
Just practice your scales over and over and you will become better at knowing when to just switch registers, and then you won't have that break.
But don't worry about it too much for now, because your voice will continue to change until you're 18.
Keep practicing and find a good voice teacher.
hope i helped.
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