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15/f. the other night i was out with my sisters friends who are all 17 & 18 and apparently they all think i'm hot. and i know that when i go places that guys notice me. so i must be pretty. but its weird because in school it seems like guys don't even notice me. like i've never had a boyfriend.
why is this? i'm not saying i want the guys at school to be like staring at me and stuff. its just weird because my sisters friends couldn't believe it that i've never had a boyfriend because they think i'm really pretty.
also i'm not a bitch or anything. i'm really nice and i have a lot of friends. could it maybe be because i'm a little shy? like around my friends i'm more outgoing but around people i don't know i'm a little shy.
so what can i do to get more guys to think of me as a potential girlfriend?
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This is the same for me -- at school I don't think guys see me the way other guys do that don't go to my school. For me I think its because when I was younger, I was ugly and now apparently guys find me hot and pretty. So it could be that the guys still don't see you that way, or you need to be more outgoing. You could flirt more, laugh more, and make sure you always look prosentable. Always be confident, guys like that. Dress cute, a skirt and t-shirt, guys like that. You could always go for your sisters friends if possible. Hope I helped =/ ?
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About the guys at school not looking at you it's probably because they see you every day and they're used to you being there.
But you obviously are pretty, just like I am. Everytime I go in public every guy i see stares at my face for about 2-3 seconds. But at school they don't pay as much attention to me.
You can go up and talk to guys, you don't have to wait for them to talk to you. Only really brave ones will come up to you because beauty can be very intimidating. That happens to me a lot. like I get the vibe that a guy is interested but he just doesn't put in any effort.
Maybe no one knows you're available? You can tell a close friend that, and she can put the word out for you. That way you don't have to seem desperate.
You can even ask a guy out yourself as long as you're willing to accept whatever the answer might be.
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It could definitely have to do with you being shy. But what I think it is MOSTLY is that high school guys are dumb. And a lot of them are simply intimidated by girls. The thought of rejection just freaks them out, so they don't even try. Older guys have more guts, especially with girls they don't really know.
It's pretty much the same with me. I've only had a couple people in my school like me. But if I go to where my sister works or with any of her friends, all I hear is how hot I am. I don't agree, but I understand where you're coming from.
Just try to be more outgoing and approachable at school. Flirt with guys you like to show that you aren't just going to look at them like they're idiots if they try and talk to you. Sometimes a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do to get what she wants.
Good luck!
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