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body
15/f
i seriously hate my body. everyone tells me i'm really thin but i always find something wrong with myself..and i hate my boobs. they're a size C (sometimes D) and people always talk about them and i HATE the attention and always feeling insecure in a bathingsuit because of them..my friends tell me that if they had boobs like me theyd show them off and be happy but i hate them and have seriously considered a breast reduction. i just want to be able to fit into bathingsuits and shirts like everyone else can.
i just need a way to feel better about my body. can anyone help me?
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Nobody can really help you, you have to find it in yourself to be happy with the way you are. Most people have these problems at one point or another. All people do, some more serious than others. There's always someone envying you. Someone. People are their own toughest critics, so basically you're just being too hard on yourself.
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okay
im 15/f
i have 38DD
many people say im thin...and i dont think so...
but maybe sometimes you should trust people..because a good friend doesnt lie..
and as for the bathing suit problems..i totally know how you feel..
some stores sell larger tops so that the people with large breasts can find a suitable top..that can come in handy..and i found to have more confidence with a larger top..
dont worry..you cant make your body something its not..so just try to find things you like about it..
hope this helps!=)
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dont feel bad on the outside its i the inside that counts.
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first off, let me say that i would die to have a body like yours. I've always struggled with my weight, my whole life (i'm not huge or anything just average you know?) and I can't eat anything without gaining weight i'm serious.
So you can be glad that you actually have a gorgeous body with perfect-sized breasts instead of a weight problem. You could be 4000 pounds, you could be anorexic or bulemic and 74 pounds.
You could have a disfigurement like on your face or something.
Whenever I feel bad about my appearance i just remind myself that it could be worse, a LOT worse!
and those retards who talk about your body, they're probably saying good things about your boobs! most 15-yr-olds are underdeveloped AA cups, so yeah they're just jealous probably.
a girl did that to me once! and i'm only a B! but she was flat.
Don't waste your time with people who talk about your body! They're immature and rude.
I really hope I helped.
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Dear Body,
It's safe to say that you're not the only one. I'm just going into high school this year and well.. lets just say I have major curves. I AM a D, have a small waist and wide hips. It's not always easy for me to wear clothes that I want to wear and everyone talks about my body too, which makes me unocmfortable since I dont feel the same way as them.
About the bathingsuits, I am used to wearing bikinis but earlier this summer I went shopping and none of them fit. I thought I was going to be the only one of my friends in a one piece. It turns out that I actually found some cute one-pieces that had a cut out back. MY friends actually got some too! Just use your problems to an advantage..
For the clothes its the same thing. Look online for clothes that would flatter your bodyshape and try to base your wardrobe around that with slight tweeks in each piece..
For the confidence, well just remember that everyone is beautiful in their own way. If everyone talks about your body type than they must be jealous. Besides, people get plastic surgery to look like us!!
Remember to be yourself no matter what and if you can survive until your 18 and still feel the same way for a breast reduction, then go for it...
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