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Gender: Female
Age: 15
Member Since: June 17, 2007
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Last Update: July 17, 2007
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i JUST got my period like right now
and i'm going swimming tomorow, wed, thurs, and friday at my cousins.
i there ANY ways i can still go swimming on my period?
i don't wear tampons =/ (link)
i would highly suggest a tampon, so that you dont have to worry about anything while you swim.


okay there is this guy i like, we hung out last week for the first time. (met through friends)A very cool kid we have a lot in common. I got out of the car and i gave him a handshake and thanked him for the nice evening. I mean it was our first time meeting and i began to like him so i didnt wana rush things. He hasnt talked to me since last thursday. I left him a comment, he didnt return one and i just called him now and he didnt pick up his phone. Do you think he isnt interested? (link)
well dont try to rush things because you dont want to make yourself seem like you are too out there.

but just give him some time and if you didnt leave a message, leave him a casual one, nothing too much.

then if it is possible try to hang out with him again and see how things go, you never know, good things always can happen! hope this helps and good luck!=)


i like this guy i think he like me, i like him to. he is not the most popler boy, but a lot of girls like him, but wont admit it. i am one of those girls what should i do should i make a move (link)
well if you really like him and if he is any bit interested in you, you should tell him about it. dont be worried what other people think of you because that doesnt matter. just let him know how you feel! you never know, good things can start to happen! hope this helps!


I cant get a tampon in.
Ive had my period for a year and never could.
Is it because im to tight? How can i loosen my you know? and how am i going to have sex if i cant even get a tampon in! Im not planning on having sex in the near future though, not for at least another year or 2 but im just wondering (link)
buy the smallest size tampons...
and if that doesnt work see your doctor!


I am 13 years of age. I have been put in a situation where I could have sex. I really like the guy and I think he likes me. I am not sure if I should have sex with him or not. I really want to. I need advice. HELPPP!! (link)
how long have you known the guy for one.
and two, you dont want to put yourself into the situation where you are not sure if he is just playing you. because that can totally ruin any feelings that are between the two of you. if you think you are ready and you are sure of the feelings between the two of you, then you may come to the decision to have sex with him, but also think of all of the responsibilities that come along with sex. only have sex with him if you think it is the right thing that you want to do, dont be pressured!

hope this helps!=)


whats with girls and being all "oh my gosh, im so fat, i need to lose soo much weight" when they look really good? are they just fishing for compliments or really think that they are fat? (link)
i honestly always say that i am fat, but everyone denies it, i am NOT looking for compliments, i am just saying how i feel.

i think that all girls, unless they are like perfect, will say that they are fat. and if you were ever fat to begin with that can also play a role in the image they think that they give off. i lost over 40 pounds in a year, but i still think i am fat, although many people think that i am not, but i am not looking for compliments. i just think that it is easier to not deny being fat, and just like saying that i am, i feel that it makes me feel better about myself, if that makes sense....

well i hope this helps!=)


Today when I went to the doctors, he told me I need to get an MRI done on my spine to make sure everything's okay with it. But my question is for people who have had MRI's before. Do they hurt? Are they boring? Are they long? Etc.

Basically, what was your experience like?

Thank youu. :] (link)
i have had like 20 of these things before..

it doesnt hurt at all, but if you are clostrophobic(not sure if this is spelled right), then it might be alittle scary, like if you are afraid of small spaces.

but try not to worry about what the results are of the MRI, because to me that is the scary part. when you worry about it then you might think it is bad but its not.

the only part that could be considered to hurt at all is if you have IV contrast, which is where they put some contrast or dye in your body, with a needle, so that they can see your back more clearly to identify any problems..

so in other words, dont sweat it! you will be fine!
best of luck!!! hope your back is alright!
=)


alright so i guess its said that a whole human can pass through your vagina.. but you have like bones like on the outside of it. how can like big things such as a human being.. lol be passed through if they cant go through the bones?

if it helps any im 17/f (link)
you like only have your pelvis bone and then it like expands so to say..so the baby can get through...yeah there arent like bones in the way so to say...
hope this helps=)


I was just wondering what age some of you got your period at. Cuz im 14 and i still havent got mine. (link)
i got mine when i was 13..its okay if you dont get yours for awhile..because everyone is different..dont think you are weird, because it happens..
hope this helps=)


I don't have any Aloe, and I'm badly sunburnt. Anything else I can use? (link)
okay i know this sounds really weird...but put some plain, nonflavored yogurt on it.
i used it before and it really helps to extract the heat out of your skin!
good luck!


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how did she get her hair like that?& is there anyway I can do that without a krimper& how much is a good krimper& from wear, not over 30$ please. (link)
well it looks like she just braided her hair to me..so you probably dont even have to worry about a krimper..
so just try to braid your hair..or have someone do it for you!
hope this helps!=)


Im 16 and my dad died when i was 8 and my mom recently got married to a guy who used to be in the army. I have two sister and now i have 3 step brothers. He is like way strict and his kids are like perfect angels but me and my sisters have never really been raised that strict and for lack of better words are pretty wild. my mom never really punished us for things( ive never been grounded and ive never ahd a curfew) and now this guy is trying to control us and take over our lives. What should i do? (link)
well i know how it is to be controlled by someone who thinks they are able to do that..it is very frustrating and i know i wouldnt want to be put through that again.
but you should try to atleast take into consideration that they are stricter than you are used to, because atleast if you show alittle bit of respect to them they might be less strict with you.
or you could try to talk to them about how you feel about them "bargeing" into your life and trying to control it. i hate when guys think they can take over who you are.
you were raised like i was with my mom, she wasnt very strict with how me and my sister were until she got with someone, then it was like she got really strict with us too, and now i feel like i have to run my own life, and that she doesnt trust me.
so you should try to talk to either that person or your mother about this, because they might understand where you are coming from...if not..i would be happy to help you out again!=)
hope this helps!=)


what are some really cute flirting tips to make a guy really want you!?! (link)
okay..
just try to be yourself..dont hide how you normally act..but dont be too open..
smile and start an interesting conversation..tell stories..
get comfortable being around the person..see how they react..
but dont be too outgoing because that can get you in an awkward situation..i mean its happened to plenty of people before..
when i am myself around guys they really seem to be attracted to me..so yeah that is how i would say to act..
hope this helps=)


can you use a tampon when you dont have your period? maybe so that you can get used to the fact of wearing it and letting your vagina spread for it i guess? (link)
no that is not a very good idea...you can get tss and it is not good at all for your body..just wait and use a tampon when you are on your period..you will be fine..because when you are on your period, you dont even feel the tampon..so dont worry..
hope this helps!=)


15/f

i seriously hate my body. everyone tells me i'm really thin but i always find something wrong with myself..and i hate my boobs. they're a size C (sometimes D) and people always talk about them and i HATE the attention and always feeling insecure in a bathingsuit because of them..my friends tell me that if they had boobs like me theyd show them off and be happy but i hate them and have seriously considered a breast reduction. i just want to be able to fit into bathingsuits and shirts like everyone else can.

i just need a way to feel better about my body. can anyone help me? (link)
okay
im 15/f
i have 38DD
many people say im thin...and i dont think so...
but maybe sometimes you should trust people..because a good friend doesnt lie..
and as for the bathing suit problems..i totally know how you feel..
some stores sell larger tops so that the people with large breasts can find a suitable top..that can come in handy..and i found to have more confidence with a larger top..
dont worry..you cant make your body something its not..so just try to find things you like about it..
hope this helps!=)



I think I could have an infection in my underarms. Lately, since it's been summer, I can't fall asleep at night because of the irritation in my armpits.
I use "Certain Dri" night deodorant, which has always caused an irritation. The label said stop use if irritation or rash occurs, and I've always had an irritation/rash there, but never too bad. However, despite this I continued to use it because it was the only thing that stopped my sweating. Its pretty wierd, because now that its summer, my arm pits feel really itchy when I'm trying to go to sleep (Certain Dri is a night deodorant, which while you sleep, it shrinks the pores to limit prespiration). This past week, its been HORRIBLE, and every morning when I wake up, my underarms are so sensitive I can barely move my arms because ottherwise it sort of "chafes" (sp?) but in my armpit area.
It keeps me awake every night for about 2 hours, and then causes me pain in the morning. I don't think that I can stop using it though, because its summer and I hang out with a lot of boyyss =]
SO PLEAASE help me I have no idea what to do! (link)
ok...i have used this product before..
when you apply the certain dri at night, make sure you didnt just shave your underarms. this can caus an itchy irritation..i have had that problem before.
also if you shower too close to the time you apply it, that can also cause a quite painful irritation.

if none of these are something you have done, you should probably discontinue the use of this product. i know it does work wonders on sweat, but the irritation can really turn into something worse....
hope this helps=)


I wear a bra size 30A and I wear it on the very first hook and it makes marks right under my breasts, does this mean that I need a bigger size bra? Or is that normal..? If I don't need a bigger size, when do I know I need a bigger size? Please and thanks for answering these questions. (link)
all you have to get is a bigger band size, like you could try a 32A and that might just give you the extra room. hope this helps!=)


im 14/f, and lately, food disgusts me. honestly, i cant even look at it, much less smell it, no matter what it may, but specially meat. ive stopped eating, all i do is drink stuff,[ juice, water, red bull], and ocassionally cereal. ive also been getting these horrible headaches, along with dizziness. this is all very recent, but i certaintly dont want it to be the start of something worse. what do you guys think? (link)
honestly i am having this same problem right now. when it starts to be summer time, i NEVER want to eat. i mean thinking about food makes me sick. i suggest you try to eat something, even if you have to force yourself. your body needs the nutrients to help it not feel so sluggish and for you to have energy to go through the day. i wouldnt be surprised if you lose some weight, but if it gets drastic, like mine did last year (about 27 pounds in 3 weeks), go to the doctor, they may be able to tell you if you have a serious problem, if its stress related, or if it is just a normal body cycle. hope this helped!=)


im 14 female, 5 feet 7 inches tall, and weigh about 119.. and i overweight? (link)
NO!! you really aren't overweight. I would say that you are underweight. So, you are perfectly normal. You can probably put on a few pounds if you wanted to. hope this helps!:)


ok i kinda know how to apply eyeliner to the bottom but how do i do it to the top. details details plzz. THANKS LUVS (link)
okay...i would say that you should just put the eyeliner underneath your top lid...or like right on the crease...just above your eyelashes..hope this helps..:)




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