this girl is really mean to me. & at school she's in my 5th period health class & her and her friends talk abt me.. and she bugs me in the h allways & calls me a bitch & threatens me and i told my teacher but my teacher said there's nothing she can do tht goes on outside of the classroom.. and she harasses me on facebook.. is there any wya i can block on facebook? & wut should i do with her bothering me at school?
I hate bullies, I swear. I know everyone's not the same, but I'd beat the crap outta her. Find out WHY it is she dislikes you. Could it be jealousy, or a rumor? Have you ever talked to her? Not that you should care what other people think anyway. Talking to your counselor and switching classes is also a good idea. Your teacher, by the way, is being stupid. Don't turn to her for anymore advice. I think it is important to get to the bottom of it though, and if she refuses to talk, just ignore her. Now, if she lays a hand on you, that's something else. You have a right to defend yourself you know. Talking to your parents, or hers, can also help. My mom would mess anyone up for me. I can't think of one who wouldn't. I hope I helped.
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16/f
For some reason I always freak out when it comes to the possibilty of a relationship with someone. I've never had a boyfriend.But whenever i like a guy, and if he happens to like me back, suddenly i just freak out. i start to feel nauseated and really, really uncomfortable, especially around the guy. and then i'm so scared that i end up pushing the guy away to avoid him asking me out, even though i still like him. the thought of being in a relationship with a guy always scares me...i'm always scared about how awkward it might be.but i don't know what to do, because i will still like the guy...and i end up scaring him off and then i'm left with nothing. one time i actually said yes when this guy asked me out...but i was SO anxious about being around him and talking to him after that i broke up with him a few days later!whats wrong with me???
Honest to God I love questions like these, because I feel as if I'm not alone. From the outside, I may seem like a normal person, when really I'm just a paranoid little freak. I'm great when it comes to flirting, except of course when its with a guy I actually like, or in a close situation that could potentially lead to something. I talk about this with my best friend everyday, because shes also this way. Feeling you can relate and are being understood REALLY helps. For me, its a matter of actually FINDING a guy, and THEN getting the balls to risk it. I'm asuming you haven't had your first kiss, which is not necesserally a bad thing. When you're in this situation again, just go for it before you even get a chance to overthink it, or just close your eyes and let him make the first move. The more you anticipate, the more nervous and worried you get. When it happens, you'll be too numb and enthusiatic to even feel nervous. I haven't had a boyfriend in a while, but I don't worry about it much since college's just around the corner. I hope any of this helps. If anything, you can talk to me anytime. I swear I won't mind.
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I'm 15 years old and I live in Florida. I want to be emancipated when I turn 16, but I'm not sure if I'll be able to do so. My father abandoned me a good 8 months ago, and I don't live with my mother because she has a drinking problem and cannot take care of me. Right now I live with my grandmother, and I take care of her more than she takes care of me, because she has cancer. My 27 year old brother also lives with us, and has an anger issue. I cannot stand living here with him because whenever something doesn't go his way he yells and screams and throws things. I have issues with depression due to my parents, and also suffer from bulimia, and he makes it worse. My aunt comes here during the day to make sure everything is okay, but even then it doesn't feel right. I feel too much tension living here and I think it's time I leave. I'm just scared because I need parental consent to get emancipated, and since I don't live with my parents, I don't know what to do. My aunt or grandmother would never, EVER sign the petition, but I desperately need to leave.
What do I do?
Will the court make an exception?
I'm REALLY not an expert on this, so forgive me if I'm wrong, but I just read a book called My Sister's Keeper by Jodi Picoult [great book], and a 13 year old girl wanted to get medical emancipation from her parents for rights to her body. The lawyer worked pro bono [free] for her because it was such a rare case. She ended up winning. You'd have to do serious research on this. But to be realistic, if an emancipation is to separate from your parents, why would you need their permission? I don't think there exists a parent out there who actually gives consent. Hope I helped.
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16/f . i have these 2 best friends, love em to deathhh but lately, idunno. they make me in a bad mood or something.
i dont have lots of friends i hang out with besides them. tonite was like the first friday we could all hang out right after school since my one friend was done with track (usually she wouldnt get home till like 5-6) but we didnt even hang out right after school. so i went home, was bored until like 430. oh and the one who didnt have track, was going to her grandparents house at 7, well that is what she said. so like 430 they randomly arrive at my house, we go & eat food, talked, it was nice. we were done by 530ish and decide what we're doing after. but then track friend talks to her mom & they are leaving then. 530ish. sooo, other friend decides to leave too cuz she apparantely had "stuff to do". i guess maybe i took this the wrong way, but i started saying stuff like why cant you hang out w. just me?? do you think im boring. i was flipping out asking her what she has to do . and saying how all i was gonna do was go home be bored and waste my time on the computer. which is obviously exactly what i did.. ugh. so wtf knows what she did tonite. when i got back home and felt like shit. i told my mom what happened and was on the verge of crying when i was done. i just feel blahhhh. now i dont even feel like doing aNYTHINg. and now we hae the rest of the week off but im going skiing sat. to tues so i wont even see them
and like it was the first time she didnt have track on a fri since like november or somethingg.
I just dont understand them. at allllll.
this always happens
and we keep getting in little fights
and they just make me in a bad mood
theres also like a lot of competition btwn us..like idunno but thats a whole other thing..
ive been best friends with them for ever litterally so i cant just like, stop being friends with them. i love them idk i just am sick of this,. i rly dont knowww. srry for all the lazy spelling errors and stuff usually im more precise and all but im just not in the mood. guess this is even affecting my typinggg. wow. ok sorry it was long too, but please, something? thanks
Basically, I think this is all simply because you're 16. I'm at the same age, and trust me, I know how annoying the rest of the universe can get. I think EVERYTHING would get better if you got yourself a boyfriend. Then you wouldn't have to depend on friends, and sometimes you'd even forget about them. I understand that you get frustated when you're home bored instead of out with your own kind, but find something you like, and do it. On your own, if possible. Hope I helped.
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well there this guy well he has a girlfriend and
we sort met on the internet through one of my friends.it all went well until me and him got serious we told each other i love you and everything and one thing i so regret is sendin him pics of my chest . well i kept asking him to break up with his girlfriend and he kept sayin he would soon. but all of a sudden one day he stopped talkin to me.(we live close to each other)anyways i kept texting and callin him because i didn't know what was going on .i was so mad and sad since his gf knew nothing about what we had done and i felt bad i told her everything and whenever i texted him he just told me to leave him alone that he didn't want to talk to me.and im really heart broken and sad over this i mean i know i should get over it but i can't its been since last october since me and him stopped talkin i tried not tryin to text him but nomatter what i do i want to resolve things with him so bad and he just refuses to talk to me .and my best friend rachel started terxtin him and i told her to ask him if he would talk to me and he said he couldn't handle me.so any advice and would any guy please help me understand why he won't forgive me because its like breakin my heart not bein able to talk to him. oh and fyi im 15 he's 19 and so is his gf and if anyone says well you shouldn't have done anything with him because of your age i already know because my parents tols me not to talk to him anymore but i did anyway so any advice will help thankies .oh and sorry for how long it is .
and also im not into him like that anymore im just dyin to be friends with him again but he wont give me a chance.
Wow. Talk about desperate.its not even because you're not on his age level, but more his maturity level. He's like any other guy, why can't you see that? And OF COURSE he's pissed. You handled business that wasn't yours to handle.Because you felt "guilty", AFTER he dumped you of course. I'm REALLY not trying to be mean, but everyone learns one way or another that you just DON'T get in between a relationship, because either way, you're still the third wheel. I'd say its better if you leave everything the way it is, because it could get way worse. At least the picture you sent didn't land in the wrong hands. It can do serious damage to your reputation. I know its not what you wanna hear, but its for the better.
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Ok i'm a virgin and I masturbate, and I was just wondering:
1. can the gyno tell by looking up in there
2. can I accidently break off a piece in there..like that determines if i've had sex or not.
I guess it depends on whether or not you stick things up there. If you do, some girls' hymens are stretchable and won't break the first time, or even at all. Some girls' will easily break, even while riding a bike or a horse. If you only use clitoral stimulation while masturbating, no one will be able to tell. Hope I helped.
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i was on some wierd site my freind found this guy is talkin about some very wierd stuff "I'll be completely honest. I don't know if you know this or not but some girls orgasm so hard that they lose bladder control and piss uncontrollably" i was like WWTTFF that cant be true? can it? O_o
I may be wrong, but what your friend probably saw was a girl squirting. I may look like she was peeing, but it was just an orgasms. Some girls do it, some can't. Hope I helped.
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alright well this is kinda relation ship and friendship. so we'll call my friend E and her brother M. To start off, I hung out with E on Saturday night, and slept over after. so M was with us later, so we were all in their living room and E fell asleep so me and M were like talking and flirting and i like sat on his lap, but then i got down and sat on the floor and then like E woke up and so me and her put on pajamas and then we came back and so M and I thought she was asleep so he had like his arms around me and stuff and then like 10 minutes later E randomly goes "M go to bed" and hes like what and shes like "go up stairs NOW" and then she was like "i cant believe youd make out with my friend"(we didnt make out fyi) and then like she got up and went to her room and so I got up to go talk to her and M was like no wait ill go and then he came back like 5 minutes later and was like shes pissed and she wants to be alone and so i went to her room anyways and i was like E im sorry but we didnt hook up and nothing happened and she was like i saw him with his arms around you and i heard you asking him if i was up and E was like crying and then she was like just go away and i was like where the hell am i supossed to go and she was like with M and i was like no so i just stayed in her room and then in the morning she still seemed pissed and i havent talked to anyone about this and i dont have Ms number so i can talk to him so ive had this on my shoulders all day and all yesterday, i feel like sucha bitch and a slut. it sucks. and E wouldnt even talk to me in school today, so what should I do?
Well first off, this is all very immature on E's part. You should be able to explain to her that nothing went on. And so what if something did? Is she in love with her own brother?! Anyway, I know it must seem like the hugest deal right now, but if she's truly your friend, she'll eventually grow up. If you really like the dude, you're entitled to a relationship you know. I advise you to talk to her alone, even if its against her will, and straigten the whole thing out. Its really not that big a deal. Personally, I think she doesn't want to loose you to her own brother, or him to you. Explain to her that it doesn't have to be weird at all. Best of luck.
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theres this little kid at school. maybe 4 years younger than me, im 16. Now this guy keeps gettin into our faces at lunch and laughin, proper being cheeky. from far, he laughs, and when we walk over to him, runs. His little friends are stupid aswell. now ive tried talking to him to him and tell him to shut his mouth, but he was "ok!" and once i let go of the guy, runs away doing some stupid laugh. im so close from hurting the guy, but he's so small and im proabably twice his size, what should i so? dont tell me to "tell the teacher's" because im not going to tell off a little kid who's annoying me. should i just smack the guy across the face or something? or what? its getting really bloody stupid as every lunch he's outside the shop we go to get lunch! any help?
smacking him would be more useless than talking to someone about it...at least you wouldn't get in trouble. he's a stupid little kid! why are you letting him get to you?! if ignoring him doesn't work, i guess another option would be to get just as annoying as him. just don't show him he's getting to you. i think he has a crush on you or something. no matter what age they are, boys just never learn the proper way to show their feelings...but seriously, never get concerned over non important people, its not worth it. hope i helped.
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my left breast is bigger than my right, like a whole cup size. my left breast is b and my right breast is like an a. and its very noticable when i wear lower cut shirts. are there any bras that will make the right side appear as large as the left side?
this is very normal actually. i would suggest buying your bras the size of the larger breast and stuffing the other one. one of my friends does this and she says it works out fine. its really only noticeable to the person though, because it's always in their subconsciousness. hope i helped =].
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Ok I have NO IDEA what my sster did but take a look at this:
http://s143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/?action=view¤t=untitled.jpg
I know, crazy eh?!
Does anyone know how to fix this? This kinda happened to me once but the whole blue bar just moved up to the top, not one on the bottom and one on the side like how she did it.
When i had a similar problem before, I just moved my arrow around the blue bar until my arrow turned into a 4-endnded looking arrow which allowed me to move it back.
Which i tried with this problem but nothing shows up.
*coOl =]*
the best advice i could give you is to press F11 on the top of your keyboard and hope it works. this usually fixes mine when it gets that way. luck! =]
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My most recent BF just asked me out wednesday, and i really like him. But for some reason i find myself always wanting to be with him. Like i've never wanted to be with any of my other BFs like i want to be with him. For some reason i think i like him more than he likes me....and it's really upsetting me. I'm always the one making the 1st moves and asking to hangout...becuase i want to spend time with him, and he's just goin along with it. HELP SOMEONE I have seriously cried over this before. ANY ADVICE???
i'd say give him his space. not saying you're pesting him or anything, but once it's gone, he'll appreciate the affection and attention you're giving him, even if it's only for a little while. the thing is, some guys lose interest if they find nothing mysterious or "hard to get" about a girl. it's also very normal for a girl to SHOW more interest in a relationship then a guy, but it doesn't mean she FEELS it more. guys will be guys. just don't get upset, it's really nothing to cry over. good luck
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I know I'm only 18, and i'm very young, but I just don't beleive in love anymore. Cause i've never seen it actaully work. Yes i beleive in it to some extent but in the end we're only kidding ourselves. Its not real most of the time. You see real love in the movies all the time, but how many times do you see it in reality. Hardly. its like a once on a billion chance or something. You may think its love but later down the road the love it lost somewhere and you are only with that person because you don't know any better. At least this is what it seems like to me. I've had alot of interests in my days. I've had alot of almost boyfriends, never acutally a boyfriend though. I attract some guys, yes... they are sweet and friendly, some are just creepers, one is in love with me, but i don't really like any of these boys back. I'd hate to go out with them if i don't really like them the way they like me, it just doesn't seem fair. I don't beleive i should convince myself to like anybody, it shoudl just happen. I'm really shy at first, but once i find my groove i'm alright. I want to be able to find a guy that i'm totally attracted to all around, and i've only found one of those... we had a fling, but it faded a year ago, and sometimes i still think about him alot, and i really miss him.i guess i'm not completely over him. but i know that it will never work out, i'm away at college he's still in highschool, and we don't talk anymore. So i want to move on, i want that confindence where i can talk to anybody, i don't want people to think i'm unapproachable anymore, i don't want to just tease these boys who like me, tis not fair... but when i'm comfortable with the boys.. i'm jsut natually a flirty person. I'm not exactly sure where i'm going with this, i don't know what my question is, i just need a new set of eyes to look at me. My friends can't really help me anymore. I just want to know what you think... thanks.
i guess "love" (as you would share the same opinion as me), comes at a different time for everyone. it's true, probably 8 out of every 10 relationships fail, and it shouldn't be that way, but to face the facts, people aren't perfect. sometimes it is just a waste of time. people who aren't in love, or have never been, tend to see the reality of things, which is why you can't convince anyone out of love. most do fall out of it eventually. why? we'll never know. but love IS something that's just there to blind you. you're right, it would be VERY unfair to date someone for the wrong reason, not to mention it wouldn't do you any good either. teasing isn't healthy for anyone. not everyone is meant to fall in love in their adolescence. maybe it's actually a good thing, because you do skip a step of failed loves and mistakes. i guess it depends on how you view it. the fact is, it'll come looking for you, so don't waste time trying to look for it unless you're certain you're ready. hope i helped. much luck
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17/F
So yeah. I'm friends with a lot of boys in my school. Girls have never really liked me, so I surround myself with boys. I have about 20 good guy friends. All of my guy friends and even some guys that I'm not really friends with always make sexual references towards me. Anything that has to do with anything sexual, they'll bring me into it. They call me a slut, a whore, a hooker, whatever. I know they're joking around, but why do they do it? It's always me. It's always been me thats been called the slut or the whore.
The thing is, I am in no way a slut. I've kissed two boys in my life. They know that. I know I'm not skanky. But why do they say all these things to me? They all always watch me eat at lunch too, especially if I have a banana or something haha. Does this mean that they like me? That they think of me in that way a lot? What does it mean because its been confusing me for a year. Any input would help. Just so you know, it doesn't bother me emotionally. They're not taunting me or anything, it can just get annoying.
what it means is, you've let them get too comfortable with you. the thing is, yeah, girls can be bitchy, but if you only surround yourself with guys, who will you go to when guys are being jerks, like so? of course, it is in no way your fault if girls are negative to you, its nature. its also nature for guys to be guys, but even though it may be kidding, its disrespectful. you wouldn't want anyone else to overhear and take them seriously, and even worse, partake? its basically come to the point where they've accepted you as one of them, and have forgotten that you're a girl and have feelings, which is what you need to make them realize. make sure to be firm when doing so, otherwise they might just react to your "girly emotions". best of luck
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ok this is embarrassing, but there's a teacher in my school who i have every day. He's young and REALLY good looking. haha. every girl thinks so. I'm like nervous to talk to him and stuff (im 14/f) but i don't want this to affect my grade. how can i move past this and focus on the schoolwork and not him?
this is comical =], its basically the same thing that happened to me, with multiple professors actually, and here i thought i was weird and alone. i kept asking for advice on how i should forget the whole thing and focus more on my school work, but like Romance said, its something that's always dormant in you. it's really difficult because though they are teachers, they're still men, and its no different from any other crush, and also the fact that chances of you ever being with him are slim make it more of a fixation. the way im getting over mine, is because over time, you don't see them as perfect, but instead take them for what the really are [human], and then you finally begin to see the flaws. you can also ask your counselor to switch your class so you wouldn't have to see him everyday. just make sure you don't act too shy, or too nice like the rest of the girls, but try not to be too hostile or indifferent like i am with my teacher. it'll take some time though, that i can assure. best of luck
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I started working at this place, and gave one of my co-workers my number. we text everyday & he calls me, we talk online, etc. & at work we're always flirting. the only thing he is he's 5 years older then I am (making it illegal) he turns 21 about two months before I turn 17. We're of different cultures & religions, but I can't help falling for him.
advice? =/
**sure, anytime=]**
i've always believed this quote:
age is an issue of mind over matter; if you don't mind, it doesn't matter.
-Mark Twain
i would hate to ever point anyone in the wrong direction, but it's basically all about what your hearts wants, and that's something you can do nothing about. as an example, i have a 16 year old friend who dates a 39 year old, and they're very happily in love. i myself have dated 20 year olds ever since i was 13 (i developed prematurely). i can understand where it turns into a taboo, but life is about what makes you happy, not anyone else. just make sure he's sane and normal above all else. Good luck.
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At school, I have heard people talking about me and saying I stink. I'm really embarassed and don't know how I could stink. I take a shower every morning and use lots of deodorant, and my feet don't stink either. What is wrong with me? I am scared to tell my mom about it to.
i suggest talking to your mom, or some sort of friend...and though it may be hard, even someone from school...as long as its someone you can trust to be honest with you. i actually have a phobia of having any kind of body odor, or smelling too much like some particular thing, mainly because i know this: because you are you, and learn to get accustomed to yourself, anything that might smell normal to you, may smell like something completely different to someone else. Dont feel guilty about this though. This could simply be puberty, or the results of sweating. It could ALSO very well be a rumor started by childish students. Either way, talk to someone. Hope i helped.
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I found this awesome site for perfume, and they have they best scents like milk chocolate, and cotton candy, marshmallow, pink lemonade... and the list goes on! but im usual not a perfume buyer so I dont know when somethings a good price and when somethings not! they have some EDP perfume roll-on 10ml for like 6.99, and some perfume oil roll-ons .3oz for like 7.75, and some silky body mist 4oz for like 7.00, and dry oil perfume 1oz for like 7.95! I have no idea if any of these are good buys or if there not can anyone help me out?!?
Hey, personally, as long as it makes you smell sexy and irresistible, and you like it, a scent is worth anything. I don't think the prices are unreasonable. Like i said, if its good, its worth it. =].
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I need to know if i'm in over my head. I have this boyfriend, that I love very much. But there's a problem. When he's not around, like going to a friend's house. I like freak out. I start crying for a long time. and I call him as soon as he leave's. I didn't want him to go. But the day after that I left and spent the night over my cousin's house. and I felt bad about going some where. and not letting him go any where. He went but he came back and got me, and I went will him. Is that bad? I can't do anything without him. That I can't be away from him for a day. I don't know what to do. I'm losing my mind. What do ya'll think?
I don't know how long you've been with the guy, but don't confuse that with love, that's just obsession. Serious attachment like that can't be healthy for the relationship. Unless he's that kinda guy, i'd be careful about being so clingy. Just remember that you were brought into this world alone, and that's the same you're leaving, so while you're here you don't vitally NEED anyone to survive. But that's just my opinion...
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ok. so, my friends all hate my bf, and i thought it was nothing. but, the other night, he kept making extremely rude comments about me and other people. and, he apologized L8R and everything, but i dunno. since then i've totally seen him in a different light. i've been seeing him the way my friends have. and, i mean-- we were, well-- are rlly close, and we love each other. but i think he is an ass hole now. i dunno what to do! please help me.
thank you soo much!
I guess in the beginning of a realtionship, each person puts on sort of an act, of what the other person wants them to be, and the other partner willingly blinds themself and sees absolutely no flaws. now, once you get comfortable is a completely different story. you start seeing the person for what they really are, and its no surprise, nor does it make you a bad person, if you realize that you've made a mistake. personally, with so many guys out there, i'd move on, but i also believe in second chances. sometimes people do things that they don't realize can change our perspective on something completely, which is why you should talk to him. there's a possiblity that he felt attacked by your friends and went on the defensive. If you two are in love, you'll work it out.
*always glad to help! =]*
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